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I’m sorry you feel that way. I do echo what @myophile says, though. It might take some time, but once you find a good one, it’ll be good!

I guess I’d have to die. I mean, I’m entitled to my preferences, right? I’m trying to point out how absurd the idea of “preferences should go unchallenged” is…argumentum ad absurdum – you’re right. It’s lunacy to categorically discount an entitle swath of the population for superficial reasons. We have our attractions, yes, but preferences are different. And acting like preferences don’t necessarily need examination or come with some level of inherited discrimination, in some circumstances, is myopic. Not all preferences are racism, but all racism is rooted in preferences.

We don’t play bridge. Usually go shopping. ??

Does it matter? Especially if by sexual partner you mean escort. I don’t think of escorts as sexual partners. Maybe friends, if we get on well over time, but that’s a stretch too.

If that’s the case, a google search of “feederism” would produce good results. Check out feabie too.

And chasabl is a joke in my experience.

Those are both hookup/dating apps. They’re not for escorting, per se.

Yes, but some *will* fuck you. The almost coy approach can be maddening. I assume if I hire a guy for a massage, that’s what I’m getting. My dick will be massaged too. But my ass will not get filled. That’s the escort hiring. That’s how I view it.

I prefer to only see caucasian male MDs.

@Keenan – I have to tend to agree with you. I could see that coming back down the road to haunt you if things sour between you – not that they necessarily will, but they could. If you hookup, that’s one thing. But the escorting thing is murkier and trickier.

Thank God. I’m glad you’re done talking about it.

I was burnt bad on that, partly my own fault, but I won’t make that mistake again. Deposits make me skittish.

I guess for me it’s not a matter of saying “I don’t sleep with black guys” as much as it’s “I find a killer smile and defined cheekbones attractive.” Does that mean I wouldn’t sleep with someone with a baby face? No. I think I’m open to seeing each guy for what he is, whole package. I don’t make a conscious choice to only consider white guys, or Asians, or whatever. I allow my eyes to alight upon all things and enjoy what pleases them.

“I prefer” and “I only like” are different kinds id statements. “I prefer” and “I like” are also different, but different in a different way than above. The problem isn’t attraction; the problem is the blanket statement of preference that would rule out anything different. For one who is so keen to insist on enjoying life and its offerings, @The_Impeccable_G seems quite happy to only look at a small portion of the menu. Sure – he might enjoy that kind of life, but it’s very limited. Hardly imbibing deeply from life’s fountain!

Bi now. Gay later. ?

P. R. I. V. I. L. E. G. E. What’s that spell? Privilege!

The best kind of bro – the homophobe who later comes out seeking atonement.

And there’s the rub. The fetishizing of another, marginalized group of people for personal gain or pleasure without regard for how it impacts them coupled with the assumption that it’s okay is the very nature of racial privilege. As you say, @Monarchy79, it’s that predisposition that needs examining – particularly the view that it’s perfectly acceptable and should remain unchallenged.

Good for you! It’s not much of an achievement. I never was terribly popular. Those few who do number among my friends I am quite blessed to have in my life. Quality over quantity is my motto when it comes to people.

I bet you’re a wicked fun guy at a cocktail party.

You read intent now?

Does anyone else find it somewhat disturbing how this whole conversation is about superficial characteristics. My experience has been a guy can be drop-dead gorgeous but if you get to know him and he’s an asshole, you soon find things about him physically that aren’t attractive. The reverse is true. A guy who might not normally be immediately attractive to you can become so much hotter if his personality and yours jive. For me, the personality is a big factor. Reading this thread based almost exclusively on outward appearances makes me a bit disappointed. Understandably it’s a part of the escorting experience, but I also do like to enjoy the samplings!

I’ve heard similar things before. The whole testing situation in this country is a debacle. There has to be a more efficient way to this. Imagine fighting a war and everyone was expected to use their own weapons and foot the bill. The whole point of a national government is to pool resources in times like these.

You totally misread my entire post.

https://apple.news/AoAkWmmGqQXCZcsv5tNh78g Some things to keep in mind.