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Do you believe any of the escorts you hire are "attracted to you" ?
 

Desiring a man who is confirmed to never fully be attracted to you is nonsensical.
But I think the bigger issue is WHY so many gay men chase self-proclaimed straight guys. 
 
I’ll dive a bit deeper by making this observation:
 The straight men they desire are never effeminate straight men, soft straight men or cuckolds.
This observation leads me to believe that the desire to have a straight man, is connected with an idea of “authentic masculinity”, which many gay men believe cannot be achieved by another gay man. 
 
What’s unfortunate about this is that a paradigm is created where straight men can play with the minds of desperate gay men, seeking the “real man”, of their fantasies, by giving them glimmers of hope of making them his “ultimate bitch.” 
 
I see the lust on many sites, especially onlyfans, where straight guys are playing fools out of their pockets for the sheer idea of a fantasy. 
 
To each his own, but why waste money on hope? 
I would never:
Subscribe to any of their OnlyFans
or hire for the services of any straight man, ever…
I don’t want to play myself, nor do I want to give any straight man the satisfaction of believing that every gay man wants him. 
 
NO WAY…. 
 

Not weird at all. Different strokes for different folks. If you go to Rent.men, guys typically indicate if they’re straight, bi or gay. Personally I’ve had very good experiences with guys who identify as straight. 

No don’t cancel Please confirm it’s the guy in the pictures. I also thought these pictures were stolen, but I think someone said they were not. He’s had like 5 different names. 

Not to actually search for contraband lmao…as a role play type scenario. Put his hands up against the wall, and feel every inch of his body….I can’t be the only one!

I made a similar thread a while back but it expired. Was wondering if anyone ever gets with an escort and gives him a thorough frisk before getting “frisky” lololol 

I’m eh on them. I don’t see the appeal. When I’ve used them, I’ve found them uncomfortable. And when I find out a guy’s been wearing one all night, it feels like a pushup bra to me…But I also don’t need him to be erect to appreciate his dick. A flaccid penis unconcerned with the world has a certain erotic appeal, don’t you think?

I had a great session with Dolph recently. Yes he’s straight and has limits but he was cool with everything I wanted to do. Uber handsome and masculine and very muscular if that’s your thing. 

All I ever get at Panera is the "bread bowl".....🤔

Saw Alain many times. You’re right, he had an amazing muscular body including a fantastic ass and along with that, a very pleasant, agreeable demeanor. But also very good at role playing. One time I hired him to rough me up and treat me like crap and order me around and pull my hair and smack me around and then he fucked the shit out of me and after I came he told me to get the fuck out and just walked into the next room. He never broke character and it was actually pretty hot but I think mostly because I knew it was all an act that I specifically requested. lol 

I've had a number of escorts ask me if there is anything special I would like them to wear.  My answer is always the same.  "Wear whatever makes you feel like the sexiest person in the world".  The results have always been outstanding.

His ad is primarily a front for his Fans Only page. Never does happen to be where you are or have time in his schedule. There are better options. 

Anybody with any experience?
 
https://rentmen.eu/PowerPascha
 

somewhat buried upthread is his current ad address:
https://rentmen.eu/StudMark

In all of my meetings with him from 2016/2017 ( 7 or 8 meetups )   
He had told me that he was straight and not into kissing 
But I don't hire for kisses or BFE 
Not sure if he has become more open to any of that recently, though he does now list kissing in his into listing........

Would you like me to post our email exchange back and forth for all to see????  Have the receipts!  

I pretty much only hire for muscle worship and wrestling domination sessions
I want/expect nude flexing and worship, and I will perform oral if the chemistry is right
 
I like the guy to start off in a tshirt or tank top and underwear or a jock
Have him pump up with some resistance bands while I feel and explore his physique facing a mirror
 
Then I like to remove the shirt/tank and underwear/jock and worship him as he flexes nude as I continue to worship him and kiss/lick his muscles as he flexes
Then I ask him to put me in a headlock or bear hug to show off his strength and wrestle me or pick me up leading to the bed
Then wrestling domination and more aggressive flexing until forcing me to submit and to climax
I tend to be drawn to bigger taller stronger guys for these types of sessions

Yes, saw him last year before he left NY several times. If you want a great tool that shoots a blast, he is great. Just let's you service him, and if that's what you like, he's great. Pics are accurate, it is huge with a great head, so to speak...

Most recent name change and city https://rent.men/KyleUC_VERS

As a general rule of thumb.  I find it better to just hire one another in any business dealing.  Otherwise, trades usually end up out of balance.

I'm wondering whether any of you have encountered a situation similar to something that's come up for me. 
In the spring, I hired an escort who was very personable and we had a good conversation amid a very good session. It turned out he wanted my advice about the creative field in which I work and soon after the session I spent a couple of hours (3 at most) looking at his work and giving some advice. 
There was a miscommunication at that time--he didn't understand the etiquette of asking for a freebie. Although he later apologized (after he reached out to me asking whether I wanted to book another session, and I pointed out how he had failed), it affected me enough that I didn't feel quite right about hiring him again. Not that I have any animosity toward him. 
Now he's back in touch, asking me to look at his creative efforts more in depth.  
I have the time to do this (and this is what I do for a living, albeit at a far lower hourly rate than the $300/hr he charges). And while we need to talk about the parameters of what level of feedback he wants and/or needs, I'm inclined to do it, to accept this gig.
I'm wondering whether I should bill him at my standard rate and leave it at that. Or should I suggest a barter arrangement?
Is bartering with an escort--your professional services in exchange for me--allowable, or is it somewhat creepy? I really don't know whether my even asking might seem exploitative. If I were to present this option, I would do so respectfully and I  would certainly make clear that he could pay me in cash if he prefers.  
(To put it in perspective: At this point, sight unseen, it's hard to project how much work is involved for me, but at the very least it would be the equivalent of a 2 hour session for him, and it could possibly be as much as an overnight.)
 If anyone has had a similar experience, I'd appreciate any wisdom that you may have. 

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Met with him several years ago I guess he's back!!!
Several pictures are dated from his old ad from 2016/17
But he was very good looking and friendly and personable 
Very hot physique but pretty vanilla in what he would do 

One of the best that I could not get enough of was Trevor917.  His ad didn't show any face pics, and I had run into enough issues with that, I swore to never meet again if they didn't have a face pic. Many years ago, someone had mentioned on a forum, not sure if it was on here or not, that he was on the cover of one of those workout magazines. When I saw him on there, I looked him up and arranged to meet up with him as soon as I could. Not only was he hot and handsome, was one of the nicest guys. There seem to be hardly any pictures of him or at least I cannot seem to find any online. This is one of the few pics that I did find of him. 

One of the best that I could not get enough of was Trevor917.  His ad didn't show any face pics, and I had run into enough issues with that, I swore to never meet again if they didn't have a face pic. Many years ago, someone had mentioned on a forum, not sure if it was on here or not, that he was on the cover of one of those workout magazines. When I saw him on there, I looked him up and arranged to meet up with him as soon as I could. Not only was he hot and handsome, was one of the nicest guys. There seem to be hardly any pictures of him or at least I cannot seem to find any online. This is one of the few pics that I did find of him.