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Ok, took me a while to locate. This is the pair I had met with. 

Ok, took me a while to locate. This is the pair I had met with. 

Met with this guy. Pics are dated. He’s definitely a little weird. Size is accurate. He’s actually pretty good at massage. Only allows what his heading suggests. What was super weird with him is that he tends to block ppl on rm after he’s connected with them. And trust me…he was very satisfied after I left. Wouldn’t see him again…no. DM for more info. 

Searching "NewYorkTantric", his current rentmasseur alias, will pull up multiple threads. He is a periodic name-changer. And while the various threads have lots speculation about him (none good), this thread is the only one I found in which two members have had direct experience.
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/132963-massage-bliss-by-steven-in-dc/#comment-1971393

I recall lusting over a pair of Ukrainian twins on F4F for years. They both said several times that a duo show was possible, but I never managed to get them in the same room together.

About 40 years ago, I hired really hot Italian-American brothers in their 20s, but not together. The older one was gay, and he recruited his straight younger brother (cf. the thread about that subject) to work with him as a team. That didn't last too long, because the younger one was uncomfortable about the fact that clients often expected them to do sexual things together, whereas he and his brother were both tops, and the older brother naturally expected to be the dominant one in any scene. So he split with his older brother and went out on his own as soon as he learned the business. I had hired the older one alone first, but found him scary and didn't want to do it again. I learned later from another provider that the older one had eventually been confined to a prison for the criminally insane, after cutting off a client's arms and leaving him to die (he didn't). A few years later I hired the younger one without knowing of the relationship until I saw him, and realized how strongly he resembled the older one physically. He admitted the relationship, and explained that he only worked when he needed extra money; he also knew about what had become of his brother. Although he was straight, he was actually much easier and more enjoyable to be with, but his ad disappeared shortly afterwards, and I never saw him again.

You can see on his IG that he's seasoned in the East Coast "network" of IG boys for discreet hire and notable, busy, gentlemen who connoisseur them. That's why he was expecting/asking $1k+... for anyone familiar that grade/class/style/type of guy seeks most of his work through social media DM, probably started their career being brought in by friends as "party favors"  with "VIP" gentlemen either at private parties or the obvious circuit parties run by "promoters," where the standard is the boys leave with envelopes or Venmos of a few grand and connections with new hot guys to hookup with, earn with, and the daddies and gents who scheduled dates, followed on social media, etc.
This is where things can get touchy.. the guys who are DL bi, "gay for pay", ambiguous, etc. often can continue to command multigrand prices if they are good at the game. The gay ones, being naturally more fluid and comfortable with the environment to party and play (and not infrequently, maybe, addendum erotic interest in cleancut successful gentlemen in a range of age and range of nerdiness to glamorousness), often end up maneuvering a range from multi hundreds ($500+, enough to be ~above~ an average escort via RM or porn, but selectively as coveted) to a few thousand when and where they can maintain the interest. Things like follower count/popularity/known exclusivity/ who you've shot with or modeled for/ if you're actually signed with an agency/ and where you're based etc. are all factors in effect for what you may negotiate or pay with these kinds of guys. This provider is Ivy educated it seems? Absolutely contributes to his expectations. There are very discreet "agents" or networkers who seek this out as well to groom the type of guy for professional or exclusive dates with all manner of successful and discreet guy some of whom may be on this forum but I deduce most are not. 
Like someone mentioned, they met this provider for less than $1000, didn't surprise me, but I'd bet it wasn't the $300 escort "standard". Similarly know a kept boy of a certain gay Hollywood bigshot still meeting interested parties for $500 dates despite presenting as the $1k+ type standard. The Brazilian babe surcharge NY-FL mentioned here on other threads is often because of this too. They're balancing interest via social media and, discreet or not, ads on RM.
This provider didn't get on RM delusionally expecting $1k, he was already groomed that way. I'm guessing the recent change in profile is because he's tired of the seedier enquiries via RM from guys maxing out at $400. Likely, one could reach him via IG DM for business but expect that $1k price tag in place or at least his starting point. It's not arrogance per se, mind you -it becomes something of a competition and discreet status game to be commanding the highest and most exotic offers, to be sought after for these parties... and subseqently presenting the most fabulous life online. None wants to be the one caught lowering their business to "whore" levels, and that often becomes an inside joke only for and among themselves.
Major extra caveat here is how this all works out when factoring international marketplace prices etc. but that's for a different tangent. 

We went to Paris. It was amazing. I know I wrote about the whole trip here somewhere. He was the guy. I feel ok identifying him now that he’s on RM. 
We spent a lot of time together over the course of a year I think. We had some crazy sexual adventures with another provider and some really fun club nights. 
 
Of all the paid providers I’ve enjoyed over the past decade, he’s the only one I miss and it feels unfinished. 
 
I realize I have a distorted view of money because I have it in abundance so I can’t really weigh in on whether a thousand for a session is worth it for a first timer. Sorry. 😕

Vin Marco - annually... be still my heart
MacksPower - frequently (he's close by)
Billy Herrington back in the day
Jake Gianelli back in the day
Colton back in the day
Giovanni Volta - as recently as late last year
BigMaxMuscle - probably 5 years ago
Vinny (mentioned above) - been at least four years since we "got together"
I've been with each of these guys several times.  Sadly, Billy and Colton have passed.  Vinny stopped seeing people a while ago, although he continued to see me for a while.  I haven't been in touch with him in a couple of years, but man, did we have some great times.
Yeah... I kind of have a type!  💪🏻
 

Hi Everyone! Bi_rugbyjock here! I am indeed away in Atlanta playing rugby, although I will be back in Canada in December.
It warms my heart to hear such nice things said about me! I do my best to offer people the best experiences and meet all their needs. Hence why I ask questions about their wants, needs and likes. I do this work for the warm feelings it gives me to make people happy. If I don't know what you want, I cannot provide it. 
 
Now, this user has stood up both me and a friend. Both my friend and I, on two separate unique occasions,  waited in the lobby of his supposed hotel for 30 minutes, on time for our set appointment. He never answered my messages and said he fell asleep. For my friend, Archbishop said "I'm parking...I'm walking over...I'm Here..." all while my friend was standing at his hotel room door. It was a complete lie/scam. We know it's him as he claimed to be a bishop in our past messages. It's the only client that I displaced myself to a hotel only to be stood up. 
He makes new profiles periodically and tries to message us again. We are wise to his scam and we are not the only ones. I have never bailed on my clients.
See Attached Pictures.
I have run my won business for years and I focus on people's experiences. I found that having a process not only helps me provide a 5 star experience, it also protects me from any dangerous situation or scam. Doing this kind of clandestine work puts both parties at risk and I do my best to minimize risk. My process is not for everyone and that's okay! Those who do not mind have made for fantastic experiences for both the client and myself.

A few other fantastic choices.   
Drako 
Tony Pitt 
Dr Mike 
Ridge 
Rick Hammersmith 
 

Ken Sparks was one of my favorites.

Big C / Colton - Sadly no longer with us, the best muscle worship experience I've ever had
Solidaceguy - Believe he was last working from Los Angeles, retired a few years ago
Joey Van Damme - Stopped advertising many years ago, but seems to be enjoying life & I believe meets with regulars
Alain DeBerry - He did make a brief return from retirement but I would have loved to have met him.

I've mentioned Haus Weston before. One of my very earliest provider meets and I was nervous, which limited my comfort with it all - shoot. In perfect shape, masculine ex-Army, subtle southern accent. Years later, during a visit to the DC area, I dropped by his memorial (he was cremated) at the National Veterans Cemetery on the Eastern Shore in Maryland, just a few miles from where he grew up.

My favorites to this day were Strongpower aka Vinny from Springfield Mass who once drove from Springfield to my house in Central Jersey just to meet with me ended up seeing him several times before he vanished from RM 
the other was the Amazing Tony Callandro who was brawn brains and sweetness combined a classy muscle guy
one who I missed but always wanted to meet was Dr Mike from CT his YouTube videos were astonishing and his body and voice were incredible 
 

I have met him IRL when he lived in ATL.  He’s a decent looking guy. He had a sugar daddy here who I guess set the bar.  He’s a stereotypical 20 something kid who thinks the world is here to serve him. Wish him well.  

Hooked up with him off Grindr.
Nice looking / all American boy.
Nice body -( he's a stripper with a traveling group).
Wouldn't repeat. Session was just ok.
 
 

This is all very interesting.
I hired him for a fuck session, it may have been 5-6 years ago.  I was apartment sitting at a very, very swanky Park Avenue coop in the 80s, owned by one of my friends.  He believed this really was my apartment.  He was clearly in awe.  He got naked right away, I played with his ass, which he clearly enjoyed, then I fucked the living shit out of him.  When I was done, I threw him $250 and told him to leave.
He has perfected his scam techniques since then,  I noticed he teamed up with another NJ shore Guido - I forgot his name - who is currently serving a 15 year sentence upstate NY. Fraud, theft and assault,
According to his IG, he is currently in Medellin, Colombia.  He had to flee his last abode in the USA, which was Miami, FL.  I do hope he doesn't pull tricks in Colombia because the guys there DO know how to take care of a problem.
 
 

I paid him and sent him home.
I liked his rentmen ad... he only does outcall, etc. so I set up a time at my place.  He arrives 30 minutes late (fine.) He has a strong Russian accent but speaks good English. His photos are at least 10 years old and 25 pounds ago.  Then, he spent a little too much time looking over my 'things.' It was very deliberate.  The vibe was not right, so, I paid him his fee and showed him the door.  
https://rentmen.eu/BigVadim
 

To paraphrase Kipling, you’re a braver man than I, MakeMeCowboy! 

While I 100% get the attraction based on his profile, even the pics, but those pics are so oddly cropped, and blurred, I’d need to see more, you know? 

I’m glad the bad vibe was all that went down, and thanks for the intel for your fellow hobbyists 👍🏻
 
Cheers,
BBD 

Don't roll your eyes at me, Lazarus - Jesus wept for your namesake.  That's probably the best post I've ever contributed to this forum and I only wish every provider would read it and understand how difficult it is for some of us to be spontaneous in the kind of interaction that we prefer to plan out.

I think providers who request "same day" appointments are completely unreasonable.  Some of us like to plan everything (including sex) days, weeks, and sometimes months in advance.  It's not just a preference; it is ingrained into our personalities.  We are not all Myers-Briggs (P)erceiving types, who are known to be much more spontaneous.  I happen to be an INTJ, so I prefer to spend about six weeks (at least) planning out every detail of every possible human interaction that I'm going to have during a vacation.  
For Christ's sake, I repeatedly go on Google Maps months before a trip just to memorize the street view so that I know every highway entrance/exit ramp, intersection, parking lot, even the sides of buildings the doors are on, so that i know where I'm going every second of the way.  A lot of these providers then expect me to wait until the day I want to meet them to plan something?
Nope.

I was going to say just the opposite.  In my experience, families fall apart and tend to be more judgmental.  My chosen family (friends) is always there for me.  

so I think that my experiences are different than most 
I DO NOT hire for penetration sex as I mostly do muscle worship and wrestling domination with mostly straight guys but over the years several of them tell me that a gay admirer appreciates their muscles and physique more than women i.e. ( their girlfriends or wives) because the women want all of the attention on them and really don't care about the guys muscles
  I like straight guys who enjoy flexing and being physically worshipped by having their muscles rubbed kissed and that flex nude and yes they will get turned on by the rubbing the praise and the body contact and make me  submit to him 
I have met with plenty of NY/NJ based straight muscle escorts who after 40 minutes of muscle worship and domination will jerk off or let me suck them off until they cum like geysers. 
Everyone is allowed their own personal preference and fantasy 
If you only hire gay men more power to ya!!! 
I simply prefer a dominant alpha muscle guy who loves to flex and show off his muscles

Do you believe any of the escorts you hire are "attracted to you" ?