SlimJim

I do not believe I have seen this topic covered before, at least not in this forum.  
I had an encounter with an escort I have seen several times before.  He likes to PNP.  I generally do not do that and I prefer that it not be done on my time.  However, I had no problem with an escort who like to use poppers though with the hundreds of encounters I have had, the escort has used poppers only once or twice.  Two nights ago, the man I invited to my home was perhaps a bit intoxicated.  Not overly so, more a slightly tipsy drunk, but definitely conversant and aware.  
As we started, he made it clear he would like to be restrained and since I have portable restraints, I was prepared to do this.  After he was secured, he asked me to spray some popper spray onto a towel for him.  I did so.  He took a hit.  The restraints on one hand was long enough for him to reach his face with his hand.  Soon after, he took another and then managed to spray the towel again.  After the third or fourth inhalation,  he was not conscious and he stopped breathing and had no discernable pulse. I tried waking him with a few slaps to the face and then, it was clear to me he was not responsive.  I gave him a few deep breaths of mouth to mouth and then did a brief round of chest compressions and he gasped.   Seconds later he was mumbling and then speaking but not really making sense.  A few seconds later, he was fully awake again.  At that point, he reach for the towel, which I grabbed from his hand and when he protested, I tightened the lose restraint.  I then told him what had happened.  
Strangely enough, he was nonplussed.   I, on the other hand was relieved that I did not have to call the police and explain what happened.  
Knowing that poppers have a short half life and that fatalities from them are very very unusual, I had consented to his using them. I will never be party to that again.  
Has anyone elese had a similar experience?   Other drugs, especially opiates are well recognized for causing this type of situation and in reading about poppers, this kind of thing is very rare, but can occur even in people who have used it many times and also in a first time user.  The need to avoid medications such as Viagra with poppers is well recognized, but his man denied using any erectile enhancing medications.  
For those curious as to what happened afterwards, after a brief time of unwinding from this, we did complete the encounter.  I did take his poppers from him but returned it to him as he left.  We had a second encounter before he left in my pool, but that is another story for another posting.  

Reporting from Spain. What a treat! 
We met yesterday morning at 10am (I know it feels early but my provider told me it works to keep stamina going as you are fresh) and we finished past 10pm when everybody went home. 
Thank you all for your advice! I followed all the tips and it worked like a charm. 
It was a very intense yet amazing experience and I’m still thinking about it. Once the session was over I ate something as I hadn’t eating in two days (only liquid diet with protein), took a shower and went to bed and slept like a baby for 9 hours straight. I was beat. Walking up now in Madrid and my hole is still pulsating from yesterday’s marathon but so proud of him because he did work out like a good boy. 
The guys arrived at 10am and all looking great. My provider was not lying. They are all friends and have a great rapport. We started getting naked and moving into the bedroom. I booked an Airbnb with a Cal King bed. They are not normal in Spain so I looked and looked until I found a place that worked for the five of us. We started making out with my provider being the ring leader (he told me he will take charge for a great experience). 
My provider knows that I love rimming so he instructed the guys to all go on their fours on the bed so I had a view of all their asses and I could go around rimming each of them. The guys were all in the bed making out with each other as I was eating one ass after another. I took some poppers and a viagra (so I didn’t lose my erection) and I went to town. Then a couple of them moved and starting sucking each other and the others turned around and put their legs up in the air so I could rim them and suck them at the same time. They grabbed me and started sucking me while I had a guy seating on my face. Then I noticed they raised my legs and started rimming me. It’s amazing to be rimmed while rimming someone else. My provider instructed the guys to take turns so I had one rimming me, one sucking me and one of them sitting on my face so I could rim him. And then they keep switching. They keep putting their fingers inside of me and opening me up. They gave me some poppers and I could send my ass opening up as I was in heaven with the attention. Then my main provider put a pillow under my back and the guys started lining up and the fuckfest begun. One after another starting giving me their dicks while my main provider fed me some poppers and his own dick. I used the pig snout for poppers and no spills which was great. One after the other they kept drilling my hole and I loved it. Then after don’t know how long they turned me around with my legs spread over the bed, my dick hanging out and my ass propped up. And one after the other gave fucking me as I was stroking my dick. I was a dog in heat. I don’t know why but the moment one of them took their dick out my ass was pulsating asking for more. I didn’t want them to stop. My dick was hard from the viagra and my main provider asked if I wanted to do some train fucking. We moved around and I buried my cock in my main provider’s ass while I had one of the guys fucking me from behind. I asked the others if they wanted to join and they agreed and we did a five man train fuck. The room had a large mirror so seeing the reflection of the train fuck was amazing. I don’t know what time it was but time was going fast. We had some sodas and protein bars and continued as my main provider was so kind not to let the party die down. We tried so many posturers. I went on the top of the bed grabbing to the bed frame with guy after guy drilling me from behind. The guys stood on the bed one next to each other and I went sitting in one guy to the next to the next. At one point my body was on the floor with my back against the side of the bed, my legs up in the air open wide and the guys entering from above. The more cock I got the more I wanted. It was pretty intense. I loved when they took turns fucking me on my fours while I was eating a guy’s ass. And then they kept taking turns so another guy to rim and another fucking me. By the time it was the last hour I was in bliss and it was time for release (they had been holding really well - one came at one point but recovered shortly after but the others are pros at regulating) so they put me once again with my legs spread on my fours with my cock hanging and my ass propped up and one after the other went to town in my ass until they came. I had all loads in me and they kept fucking me. They tuned me around and they all started sucking me and stroking me and fingering me until I blew a huge load. Fuck. That was insane. The guys showered, we chatted for a bit and they all left and I was left all spent and happy in bed. I went took a shower, left my children out (haha), ate something and onto bed. I just woken up and I won’t lie if I’m not a bit tired or sore but all pretty good and the memories will last a long time. Thank you all for your advice and for your help prepping for this session. I know it was a splurge but Spain is the place to do it as in the US that would have cost me 3 times as much. But it was pretty amazing. 

Hey all, new member here, and need some suggestions.
My status is kinda awkward tbh, I'm a dom top without enough self-esteem to fill up his ego. Also I'm uncut with a sensitive tip, if you know you know, that can also make things awkward.
My type is mature bottoms that really know how to put themselves under their man and guide the top, verbal, lingrie and roleplay are all big plus. 
So I'm wondering if anyone has experience with submissive daddy providers like that, and where to find their page?
Prefer clean but also open-minded about it.
Thank you thank you 
 

off topic, I know......
history and geography nut that I am, all this made me think of the piers along the Hudson River in the Greenwich Village area that were a popular gathering spot for men up to the 1980s or so.....declining cruise line traffic and New Jersey having better cargo-handling facilities led to a decline in Manhattan's piers for their traditional use......by the 1990s, the piers were cleaned up and converted to public parks or entirely demolished.......
https://hyperallergic.com/when-nyc-piers-were-a-sanctuary-for-gay-gathering/
https://aperture.org/editorial/life-and-times-alvin-baltrop/
https://queerhappenedhere.substack.com/p/when-nycs-piers-were-queer
 
 

  

His impact here and on the people who post here is obvious in the loving way people still speak of him.  I know he was a great freind to you and many on the forum.  

So sorry to hear. He was indeed a fixture at the PS weekends, and will be missed. RIP.

Like many I met Lucky at one of the PS Gatherings. Prayers and blessings go out to his partner and family.
 

@Lucky was an original member of the site with close to 19K posts. He wasn’t only a fine contributor but a personal friend of mine. 
I 1st met @Lucky when he lived in NYC. We were regulars at the Gaiety and often took in Broadway 🎭 shows and afternoon lunches. When he moved to California he promised he’d visit and he did, however, each visit I could see he was slowing down. His last visit was November ’25  
I want to thank @Charlie for filling us in on his decline and writing that beautiful eulogy. He kept me posted when @Lucky could no longer reply or speak on the phone. 
@Lucky had a loving partner and, eventually his husband, for many years. 
RIP my old friend, you’ll be missed. 🙏

I'm so sorry to hear this. He was a fixture at the Palm Springs forum weekends I attended. He will be sorely missed.

Condolences to his partner and family.  Lucky and I had lunch several times after my move to Palm Springs.   He was an interesting meal companion and caring partner.  I am surprised to hear of his passing and I hope his partner is able to weather what will undoubtedly be a difficult transition.  

"Lucky" has been a regular poster here since the days of Hooboy and Daddy, both of whom he knew personally. When he moved to Palm Springs 22 years ago, he created the "Palm Springs Weekend," an opportunity for members of this website to get together and socialize. The first weekend consisted of a dinner at a local restaurant, followed by a party the next day; he organized and hosted both days. It became an annual event, as more and more site members who became residents or visitors in Palm Springs got involved in the activities. Now it is a regular part of this website's calendar, and site members come from all over the country and world every year to participate in the activities organized by many members.
Unfortunately, in recent years "Lucky" has suffered an onslaught of medical problems. I am sorry to have to report that I was called to the hospital yesterday, where he died in the late afternoon in the arms of his loving partner and his always supportive family members. Farewell, my longtime dear friend--my life here in Palm Springs will be emptier without you.

This YouTube video made me laugh out loud.
 

Greetings all.  Now that I have returned home and reflected on some of my personal highlights of the weekend during the flight home, I thought I would share some here:
1). There are many, many wonderful attendees, some I have now known over 10 years, some that started attending after we missed 2020 due to COVID lockdown, and a few newcomers.  The diversity of the attendees I think is what I really enjoy the most be it professional backgrounds, ages raging from 20s to 90s, geographic, and racial.
2)   Some of the best conversations (for me anyway) occur around the breakfast table each morning at INNdulge - hearing what (or who) the guys did the prior evening, recommendations for dinner while in town, what’s coming to Broadway, and updates on past attendees that were not able to attend in 2026.
3)  Dinner at Trio is always nice.   The relationship @Oliver has built over the years with the current owner makes this a great evening.   And everyone that shared thoughts about this year’s meal were outstanding!  I will place a little plug in for Trio for anyone looking for a place to dine.
For those of you interested in the stats of the weekend:  25 individuals attended dinner at Trio Saturday and 33 attended the pool event on Sunday.
 
 

Just finished doing laundry, running errands, and unpacking after settling down, and now I'm cooking dinner.
It was a wonderful time to not only see the providers (less than before) but what I REALLY enjoyed was just talking and meeting other people on the board, some I haven't seen for a year, and some being brand new people I enjoyed making friends with. Given the downsides of just maintaining on-line relationships, it's refreshing and more meaningful to talk to others face to face, give hugs and kisses in real life, and eat and converse and get to know each other on a deeper level.
I echo everyone else is saying many thanks to @Oliver @nate_sf @sam.fitzpatrick @purplekow and YourHunk/Nate and various other fantastic guys for organizing all of this and taking over for the events from Friday to Sunday. If you guys ever need help in the future, don't hesitate as I believe there will be many people who would be glad to volunteer and help ease the burden of running such a rewarding weekend. And for the people who came for the first time like @TMB and @ursalex, it just makes the whole thing even more special.
I'm still smiling from the good memories that were made from this. Thank you.

GROUP HUG!

As a relative newbie to the Forum weekends (2015, then not again until 2024) I want to thank everybody involved for making the 2026 Forum Weekend so much fun.  Most thanks go to Oliver for once again organizing the entire affair, making the arrangements for Saturday’s dinner, and all his tireless work to make sure everyone had a great time.  Thanks to purplekow for hosting the opening pool party on Friday afternoon, where we had the occasion to meet and greet each other and get the festivities started in fashion (or lack of it!)  The Saturday dinner was sumptuous and another opportunity to renew old friendships and make new ones.  Finally, Sunday’s pool party was fantastic, despite less than cooperative weather. Once again, Oliver offered his lovely condo, and he was greatly aided by wonderful friends, Steve and Nate who hosted, and Nate N who made the eggs and served as paramedic, all of whom hopefully made him feel like a guest in his own home.
Many thanks to all who worked to put this together and all who attended.  I can’t wait until next year.

Much appreciation to the multiple hosts who volunteered their houses and time to make the events possible! 
And much appreciation to the gorgeous men (both escorts and clients) who made time to show up and get naked in the pool 🥳 

I had so much fun! Such a friendly group and it was great putting faces with the handles. Thanks to all the organizers for pulling this off so well. 

Great party as always. So fun to see familiar faces and chit-chat with guys I've been too shy to have talked to in past events. I look forward to next year (and I'll bring back the wrestling singlet, ha ha).
Phil

Many thanks to @purplekow. The party was a great kick-off to the weekend. Very impressive spread of food, as well as fun and interesting men. Though I love any excuse to get naked, this was a really good one!

And many thanks to YOU! The party was a lot of fun and I had a great time. 

Thanks to the 25 to 30 people who attended the meet and greet on Friday.  I felt more like a guest than a host as some of you probably noted.  Still, I think things worked out really well.  Food was sufficient and there were naked men in the pool in the spa and on the patio.  The well dressed formed a conversation circle in the living room leaving plenty of room for those passing by the food and drinks.  
I appreciate all of you who came out and left me with little in the way of left overs.  I would definitely consider doing it again next year should Oliver decide to continue this into the 26th year and David SF decides to remain in retirement from hosting.  
If any of you should return to PS give me a heads up and we will have a meal or a swim or a slap and tickle.  

I would like to thank Azdr for his help in preparing my house for visitors.  I am pretty laid back about things like clutter and floors, but he is definitely fastidious in these regards.  So, although it is not 100%, it is inhabitable for the afternoon.  The pool is up to 83 degrees and the small spa will be at 98 with bubbles.  Even if you have not sent an RSVP, you are welcome to come between 1 and probably 7 or when the last person leaves.  I do not think it will be a huge crowd, probably 20 to 25 if we get all the persons who expressed interest to show.  Dress is optional, black tie to white ass well any color ass.  See some of you tomorrow.  

It seems the cool weather is coming in at an inopportune time for the forum members.  The weather has been in the low 90s for this week and it was perfect pool and tanning weather.  Seems starting Friday with a slight drop into the low 80s it will continue to cool off including Sunday so the pool may not get much use but I am sure other things will keep us occupied. 

What is this?  This umbrella you speak of. 

It's the first time since I moved to Los Angeles ten years ago that I won't be able to join all of you. Sigh. Unavoidable work conflict that for once I just can't do remotely. I'm already feeling the pangs of envy as the dates approach. Hope you all find ways to have a little extra fun on my behalf!