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I use a Google Voice number too that is in no way associated with my identity. There's a lot of creeps out there.

P.S. It was noted on other threads people use WhatsApp for aninimity, but WhatsApp is owned by Facebook and they link your accounts via phone number or your phones unique ID number. I started getting Facebook friend request from people who ONLY had me in WhatsApp. Super creepy.

Absolutely horrible! I'm so sorry this happened to you.

Grindr size vs actual size are vastly different! No wonder so many gay men feel they don't "measure up" both figuratively and literally.

Here are the HARD facts (see what I did there?) :

• As much as 45 percent of men believe they have a small penis.
  
• Across studies average penis length is 23 centimeters (5.1 inches).
  
• Erect lengths average from 12 to 16 centimeters (4.7 to 6.3 inches).
  
• Erect circumference is around 12 centimeters (4.7 inches).
  

OP cites 5 inches as small however its average. A huge dong might be a fetish it should never influence the value of a man. (But sadly it does)

I had a great time in Berlin but I’m afraid I was rejected at the door at both Berghain AND Lab.oratory ?. Perhaps someone can give me some tips for next time...

I got "No" at both doors too. Went back to my hotel and changed into what I would deem leather / fetish gear, went back and walked right in (and everytime after). I checked most of the gear at coat check and enjoyed my evening. The door games are a joke, just jump through their hoops and you'll get in.

I appreciate that some guys don’t mind if a masseur negotiates “happy ending” for a little extra money. However there is another post about why people even like massage in the first place and many like it because of some “unknown” of what is to come next. Also many guys, including myself try to get into a relaxed state and to a point where we disconnect from reality. When a masseur pauses to then discuss payment it ruins the flow or state of mind I’m in.

 

Look, I understand that for many Masseurs, bringing up money at that point probably gets them higher tips than if they don’t. But for me, I hate it and prefer to tip based on my enjoyment - which has now been diminished due to the topic coming up.

Exactly this!

Switching from deep relaxation to bartering really annoys me.

Interesting you would say that. Since I've discovered this world, I too want to prolong my shelf life. I've dumped 30 lbs since I've started the addiction to masseurs.

I'd be interested to hear what how your massages have changed over your weight loss? PM if you'd like like.

They still upsell you, just like they used to do at Manta. Never again.

That's unfortunate - and the primary reason I've not gone.

Manta is now New Hero and is very much open. I was just there.

How is New Hero? I've not heard any real solid feedback on the new space.

Bumping this because I got another 1/2 dozen PMs so people are interested. Hopefully, someone else will go and share what they think. Cheers.

Is there a reason you're not sharing your experience, yet keeping this thread alive?

They are all Asian.

Shangrila and Utopia have Latino.

I travel quite extensively and there is a serious lack outside of the major metropolitan areas. And Lord knows I've looked. Not sure why. Maybe not enough of a market outside a densely populated city. Maybe concern for their safety catering to gay clients and being recognized.

are there any new guys at shangrila?

Or Utopia?

Not sure what’s idiotic about encouraging a sexually active gay man to be on prep.

You got he was being encouraged out of this story?? Wow.

He was being shamed into being on PrEP so some half-wit masseur could bareback him. The decision to be on PrEP is his and his doctors based on many factors.

Show some sensitivity.

5. Mama: "Don't you emember what I said about safe sex? Keep your legs crossed!"

Me: "Oh Lawd, thought you said fingers!"

Has anyone seen TV commercials regarding a class action lawsuit regarding PreP? This ad is claiming that there are several negative side effects to its use, including weakening of the bones.

Yes, there are new well-advertised predatory lawsuits targeting Truvada now. The possible side-effects (bone loss and kidney problems) have been widely disclosed by the company and health care professionals . People on PrEP go on every 3 months for labs to monitor for these issues along with maintaining a negative status.

These lawsuits are usually by smaller companies that specialize in predatory suits just looking to make a quick buck.

I have to say the "I'm cute - Pay me!" stance gets old real quick.

Do the private pictures influence your decision to hire? Or do you just wanna see it?

An excellent conversation of consent, but way off topic for 'Spas in NYC'.

I don't think I'll go back. I'm pretty sure they will be closed by the holidays.

Then it's their fault for killing their own buisness.

There are several guys named Dale on the Sean Cody site, but none seems to be our guy Do you have a second name, or more info? Thanks!

https://www.seancody.com/scene/2701061/dale

Just Google Dale from Sean Cody. He also auditioned for 'So You Think You Can Dance' season 9.

$60 for a small, partially functional spa that patrols its customers apparently more than Rikers patrols its inmates? Hard pass.

The terms of service link is broken and my friend is trying to signup and it’s not allowing you to make an account.

"Asking for a friend", eh? ?

Nope. Won't make that mistake again. I feel a little bad because I follow this forum closely but rarely chime in. And now I do so out of disappointment. Still, what I experienced with Charlie wasn't Thai massage. I've had Thai massages. This was inexperienced, poor technique, massage by rote. I'm a regular at TS and had sessions with everyone, many times. All in all the team are quite good. Charlie is the odd one out. First time I've regretted a massage in a very long time.

Do you have a favorite at TSMS?

I would so rather pay $180 for 60 min with a guy who does something for me, than pay $120 for a lack luster hand job.

I'd rather pay $120 for a 60 minute with a guy that does something for me. Plenty of em exist!