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I saw it more as an entertainment venue rather than a strip club, so I didn't really consider it a must-go every time I'm in D.C. (by comparison, every trip to Montreal necessitates several visits to Stock Bar or Campus).
 
Nonetheless, I'm gutted to see this close. I imagine the writing's on the wall for a while now, but it was the Coronavirus that drove all nails in the coffin.

I saw it more as an entertainment venue rather than a strip club, so I didn't really consider it a must-go every time I'm in D.C. (by comparison, every trip to Montreal necessitates several visits to Stock Bar or Campus).
 
Nonetheless, I'm gutted to see this close. I imagine the writing's on the wall for a while now, but it was the Coronavirus that drove all nails in the coffin.

Sarah McLachlan's pre-"Laws of Illusion" discography have mostly elicited an emotional reaction from me in some way.
 
I always go back to this live version of "Fumbling Towards Ecstasy" whenever I want to feel. It doesn't have to be a sad, melancholic emotion, as it has been my go-to even during joyous moments of my life.
 

I've been working 4 days out of 5 since the US started issuing stay-at-home orders. I just think of the reduction in hours as the money I otherwise would have spent eating lunch and commuting to the office.
 
One good thing about it is that I get three-day weekends now (I always take Friday off) even though there's not much I get to do at home.
 
I'm not going to lie...I kind of like it.

I've been working 4 days out of 5 since the US started issuing stay-at-home orders. I just think of the reduction in hours as the money I otherwise would have spent eating lunch and commuting to the office.
 
One good thing about it is that I get three-day weekends now (I always take Friday off) even though there's not much I get to do at home.
 
I'm not going to lie...I kind of like it.

I've been working 4 days out of 5 since the US started issuing stay-at-home orders. I just think of the reduction in hours as the money I otherwise would have spent eating lunch and commuting to the office.
 
One good thing about it is that I get three-day weekends now (I always take Friday off) even though there's not much I get to do at home.
 
I'm not going to lie...I kind of like it.

I've been working 4 days out of 5 since the US started issuing stay-at-home orders. I just think of the reduction in hours as the money I otherwise would have spent eating lunch and commuting to the office.
 
One good thing about it is that I get three-day weekends now (I always take Friday off) even though there's not much I get to do at home.
 
I'm not going to lie...I kind of like it.

I've been working 4 days out of 5 since the US started issuing stay-at-home orders. I just think of the reduction in hours as the money I otherwise would have spent eating lunch and commuting to the office.
 
One good thing about it is that I get three-day weekends now (I always take Friday off) even though there's not much I get to do at home.
 
I'm not going to lie...I kind of like it.

40 hours x 52 weeks = 2080 hours
8 hours/mo x 12 months = 96 hours
96 hours divided by 2080 hours = 4.6% drop in “pay” but you have 12 days off, too.
 
Rough estimate but illustrative… Count your blessings.

I prefer to receive more than give. My self-assessment is that I give okay blowjobs, but nothing that sets the world on fire (or penis to a volcano of cum, whichever)

You guys are all truly, TRULY appreciated hahaha. Feel like it's tough to find guys who just like to sit back (or stand) and receive professional service.
 
Answering the original question, I love to service. Nothing like making love orally and attaching yourself to a nice dick. Not into receiving or mutual at all. It's very rare someone can get me off that way and I find it to be a waste of time. I have to be really into someone chemistry wise to let them go down on me. 69 isn't my thing either, my height plus my dick being curved makes it difficult and annoying most times. That's why I love having a private glory hole, I avoid a lot of those issues.

I prefer to receive more than give. My self-assessment is that I give okay blowjobs, but nothing that sets the world on fire (or penis to a volcano of cum, whichever)

A former coworker took his life at 28.
 
When I heard the news, I thought it was just because he had a health issue related to his weight. It was only later, whenever relatives would interact with his Facebook, that I found out it wasn't the case.

Odd. I’ve introduced a number of lads to foot worship and they crave it now. Not weird at all.

I inquired if he's into feet play; he unfortunately said he isn't. Not sure if it's too weird for him or what.

Different strokes.
 
You're not weird.

Different strokes.
 
You're not weird.

Switching seamlessly from oral to anal simply does not happen as tidily as they do in porn. Bottoms need varying amounts of time before they can take dick, and I am always mindful of that.
I feel like the natural instinct as one is about to cum is to keep pounding, keep sucking, or keep jacking off as you're being pounded. Pulling out just to climax in your partner's face ruins the momentum.
During a bareback scene in porn, I find the bottom blowing the top's dick straight out of his ass quite gross.
In the same vein, felching sounds gross to me.
Excessive dirty talk is a pretty effective boner killer.

Much of my first exposure to porn was through dirty novels and those "letters" magazines etc (anyone remember "First Hand?") - so for me, the "story" of the sex became very alluring - to this day, I love doing roleplay - coming up with the scenario and having fun playing it out. The real-life problem with that, of course, is that most people just want to go at it, without all the setup. (And I'm not saying I don't, of course - just that I also find roleplay to be very erotic if someone's into it.) But yeah, the same fallacies (or phallus-ies?) about sex happen in those books too - that sex is easy to get all the time and that it can happen pretty easily, that guys are always hard and ready from moment one, that every orgasm is huge and spectacular, that every cock is huge and spectacular, etc.
 
Something from films, of course, is the curiosity of the "money shot." Obviously you need to have them for the visual effect, but - even with safe sex in mind - I tend to think that most guys in real life would rather be shooting off while still inside someone, whether it be ass, mouth, or pussy. So that whole conceit of pulling out to then shoot it on the guys' back, etc, just seems unrealistic. But it's pretty rare, at least in my experience, to see a porn scene without seeing the cumshot.

Of the non-feet-focused sites, Corbin Fisher includes a lot of worship in their scenes.

It's funny I do not find a man undressing to be sexy at all (although I am gay). Generally I find the act to be clumsy and uncoordinated. I find women on the other hand (though I certainly don't want to fuck them) to be a lot sexier when they disrobe.

I inquired if he's into feet play; he unfortunately said he isn't. Not sure if it's too weird for him or what.

I gotcha covered...
 
Gallagher's on 52nd. Classic, delicious.
 
I love Frankie & Johnnie's because it's got good memories for me and is easy to do pre or post-show.
 
Palm Too on 2nd. Less crowded than theatreland and all the charm of the now-closed original across the street.
 
Delmonicos on Beaver
 
Some of my favorite places I've had steak aren't really steakhouses. La Boite en Bois serves a mean steak au poivre and Raos in Harlem does an italian-style steak at least once a week on special.

My mind instantly went to protein shakes that I drink after a workout. Still PG, right?
 
I do one of two things: Shake it or give myself a gentle massage from below the navel to the base.

My mind instantly went to protein shakes that I drink after a workout. Still PG, right?
 
I do one of two things: Shake it or give myself a gentle massage from below the navel to the base.