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I agree that it could be exploitation but it doesn't have to be exploitation. By definition, "the action of treating someone unfairly in order to benefit from their work." To me, it's really about whether or not your treating someone unfairly. If you can create a situation where there is mutual and more or less equal benefit on both sides, than that isn't exploitation in my opinion. As long as you are respecting consent and boundaries. But yes it would be exploitive if you are being overly aggressive, or lying to them to get what you want, or trying to get a lot from someone because they are vulnerable. T=

I'm definitely a grower. Especially for thickness. I definitely fail the toilet roll test when I am hard. I would say it's maybe 2 1/2" soft but it's close to 7" hard and pretty thick

My experience with this hobby is that lateness is almost expected on both sides. As a client, I definitely have had to wait many minutes, even hours for a late provider. And regretfully there have been times, I've been slightly late as well. Once in NYC, I got on the wrong train and ended up being nearly an hour late even though I left an hour early. The main thing is communication on both sides. Yes, you're in the wrong here because you wasted his time and cost him money by cancelling for only being 15 minutes late. From what I know about escorts, it can be very hit and miss. Your three-hour session could have been his main source of income for the whole week. So he is right to be pissed at your cancellation.

It's a challenging situation for both sides because for men sex, love and friendship can get really mixed up. But I have really enjoyed some great friendships with escorts. I know when they are done though and no hard feelings.

I actually met with Kevin and found him to be a pretty great escort. But I did get a sense that he was getting a bit tired of all the flakes and questions. I agree that he was being a bit rude, but I also get that he could have been answering so many questions all day he was just kind of over it. We all could use a little grace here.

I like that his name is kind of a pun on Comme de Garcons.

I think introverts could do very well at connecting with people one on one. I'm introverted myself as well and I'll hide in the corner of a large party but will have a great one-on-one conversation with 1-2 people all night. Introverts often are good at listening and making deeper connections. And I agree that many of my favorite escorts are ones a little more introverted.

I think if you wanted to be a little safer with this you can use credit cards with low credit limits or refillable debit cards when you're out with escorts. Only put in the money that you can truly afford/want to spend but then allow them to use it as they see fit. That way you're only losing $5000 or whatever even if they do have access to your card or are kind of scummy and end up ripping you off. I definitely would not give them access to your main debit card or your bank accounts. I think that's trouble even if it's someone you think you can trust.

Mike Gaite, Gianni Legno, Sir Dion X, Sherman Maus, Kevin Slater, Jean Ali, Lucas Frenchy and Matt Anthony are the few that come to mind. They are all warm and welcoming and make you feel comfortable and special.

IMO, it's down a little bit. At least it seems like that in Denver. Definitely have seen more pages of escorts in the past. Maybe it's just a winter lull.

In Denver it's definitely in the $250-$300 range now. There's a couple that try to go higher than that but I haven't hired them at that level. A few also ask for less. I always appreciate a guy that gives a bit of a discount for a longer session. I had a regular that did a great two-hour session for $450 and I hired him quite often.

I agree. It all depend on when you plan to bottom. If I am planning to bottom in the evening, I will still have breakfast. A good high-fiber breakfast like oatmeal, cereal and some fruit not only keeps me full but definitely helps slow down digestion. If I am planning to bottom during the day, I usually won't eat until after I bottom. But in some ways that's fine. If I am travelling I actually like to make daytime appointments with providers. They're often more available and it's nice seeing a guy during the day....no worries about walking at night through an unfamiliar area or whatever.

I also think technically the word "finances" is pretty broad. Like what if you simply hired two escorts as once. Wouldn't that technically count?

I like hiring new escorts actually. I agree that a lot of them are often either undercharging or overcharging. I try to gently sort of guide them to the donation that I think is more common in Denver though I always pay whatever they ask.

Diet is more important than you realize. If I am going to bottom in the evening, I eat only light high-fiber foods and in the morning drink a lot of coffee to have some good bowel movements. I avoid eating at all for the few hours before I bottom and take Imodium about a half-hour before I douche. Taking psyllium tablets can also help keep your poops more regular. It's all about controlling the speed of your digestion. Slower the better in the few hours before you bottom.

Thanks for the information. Yeah I think the metadata thing is a bit scary, TBH. I would probably be very careful about putting my face pictures on RM actually. I don't as a a client obviously, but if I would discourage providers from doing the same even if it probably hurts their business a bit. I have no problem sharing pictures off the platform.

Anyone else get a message about Rent.Men changing their data collection policies? Here's a link to it. I thought it was a bit concerning that apparently Rent.men collects passport information, physical identity and other things that are kind of weird for them to keep in my opinion. Is this normal data collection or something to be concerned about? In light of what we've heard about escorts being denied entry into the US because they've had Rent.men profiles, it's definitely concerning to me.

I'm not sure if this guy is the same but I've seen a few "Turkish" ads and a lot of them seem to be trying to do either virtual experiences or to get you to pay for their travel. That was my experience with one guy who was supposedly in Denver but not when I reached out. Hopefully not the same situation but it was a similar ad (lack of reviews and very good pics). Let us know if this guy is the real deal though.

I consider myself bisexual/pansexual and definitely can relate to what you're saying. I've definitely found it easier and been more interested in forming romantic relationships/partnerships with women than men. But I probably find myself more sexually attracted to men (though I enjoy sex with women as well). My sexuality has changed in the course of my life. In high school and college, truly I was very bi, having sex with men and women very easily. In my 20s, I had a long relationship with a women and we truly loved each other. Unfortunately that ended in tragedy and caused some trauma in my life. After that relationship, I found myself more attracted and pursuing men.

no So this is interesting. Because basically the provider blocked you on social media but could be open to hiring you if you contacted him through Rent.Men. In fact, he doesn't know you're the same person necessarily. I'd be curious of the context in which he blocked you on socials. Like I've gotten blocked occasionally by random dudes. Maybe they didn't feel we'd be a good connection for some reason. I've blocked people for the same reason. When I was a teacher, I blocked virtually anyone under 22 or so who contacted me just as a matter of course. Maybe he recognized your social media attempts and just didn't like it. I think it's valid to block someone who you think is maybe pseudo-cyberstalking.

And almost like clockwork, Southwest is offering a massive sale. I could do round trip Denver to San Diego for $157. Very tempting....

Dungeons and Dragons. It's the most well-known role-playing game, prominently featured in pop culture such as Stranger Things, Big Bang Theory, Community, E.T. etc.

I have a regular D&D group. We meet usually 1-2 times a month and have been for the last several years. It's a great time and the main way I keep in touch with that group of friends.

True...I began and ended in Paris and took trains instead. Interesting to know they do that as a connection though.