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It wasn't even going thru the motions. There are two meetings I remember best. One guy-I think his name was David or Dave. He was possibly from Spain-maybe Brazil or Latin America- but advertising out of NYC at the time. He was very popular on here about 14 years ago. He did (sort of) bottom but complained constantly about how thick I was (my one claim to fame as otherwise I'm a shorty). I'm not porn star thick but definitely thicker than average. And he was either naturally so tight or clenching so hard that the condom tore. I'm not sure if I was really inside or at the entrance. But when we figured out the condom tore, he jumped out of bed and ran into the shower. This was in the days before PrEP. Luckily for him I'm was negative. He was so unnerved that ended the nookie for the evening. So the overnight was pretty much a bust. The other guy was a muscled Brazilian represented by Man To Man Escorts for a short while. He was on the shorter side but incredibly handsome and muscled. He wasn't able to let me in even as far as Dave had. Gman

I might pay him not to see that. ? He previously talked about being a father in his ad. So I'm wondering if he is only bi-4-pay but otherwise straight as an arrow. Gman

His ad copy is composed very well. If he actually wrote it himself, I'm betting his English is excellent. Gman

If I could afford that, I'd definitely be tempted. But I'd want to make sure he enjoyed bottoming. I made that mistake once or twice before on guys I really wanted overnights or weekends with. #1 I'm a nice guy. I wouldn't like someone 'forcing' me to bottom if I didn't like it-and I don't. #2. If they can't relax their sphincter, I usually lose my stiffy trying to enter a closed hole. Gman

He's one of the only straight guys that I seriously considered hiring. Gman

This was mentioned a while back in another thread. I don't know why he didn't just remove his ad unless he wanted to let possible clients know. Gman

A couple of things. If it's only his appearance you are worried about... 1. Make sure you are looking at Rentmen with a computer, so you can see the dates of when the pictures were added. The dates don't show up on the mobile site. While you won't know when they were taken, you might be able to discern a pattern. 2. Ask him to send you a picture with the current date prominently displayed. I always said I don't need one showing your tallywacker. But I'd like it if the shirt is off. If it's more than his appearance you are worried about ... 1. See if you can have a short phone call before you meet. See if he at least sounds compatible. 2. Try to email some of the reviewers from Rentmen. See what the guys who didn't like him say. Gman

The key is conversation. Tell Nate what you are interested in. "Feel out" your reaction to what he says. And see what he thinks about your plans. There are guys I would have theoretically loved to have hired. Then after talking/correspondence if I found out they really didn't like to bottom-or didn't kiss-I knew not to hire. Gman

Oh he listed as versatile in his ad. That's what I was going by. Gman

It sounds like you only wanted him as a top. I wonder how he'd be as a bottom. Gman

His ad on RM is expired. ? Gman

Here's the link. Basically it says sex is possible. But if it occurs , it's because he is attracted to the guy-otherwise -no go. So I'd stand no chance. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/how-to-scope-out-escorts-on-rentmasseur.151030/page-2#post-1772223 Basically he's the Colby Keller of masseurs. (of course Kenso isn't alone in conducting his massage practice this way.) Gman

Jake was much better looking than I am. Gman

It could maybe mean that. But usually only if one is using it in a sarcastic sense. And it would probably be more common in speech where often the tone of voice and body language would show that you mean for 'infamous' to have a totally opposite meaning than the usually negative meaning. And in most cases, I think using it the way you want to use it, most people in the conversation would be acquainted with the subject/person in question and know you couldn't mean it in a negative sense. If I used the term your way, there's a good chance I'd use 'air quotes' when I said 'infamous'. Gman

Sigh, I only wish I could see the new muscle. Have a good time. Gman

But we know you like slender model types. Not everyone is like that. The acronym DILF (Dad's I'd Like To Know In A Biblical Sense) wouldn't exist if we all wanted gelled hair youngsters. While I'm eclectic and have hired younger guys when I was hiring -I prefer older. I've said in other threads that the guys you like seem way over coiffed to me. I'm just a regular, dowdy overweight gay male. I have no real interest in fashion, or interest in hiring guys who are. Gman

You met him in Mother Russia? Gman

I see I'm not the only one to wonder. One poster said the guy looked nothing like his pictures. Another poster said the guy did look like his pictures. The mystery continues. Gman

Of course anytime is the time for a quote from Napoleon Dynamite. But after looking at this guy's pictures, it seemed like it was an even better time than usual. I need to live vicariously. Anyone know anything about this escort? https://rent.men/Pedro_Ferraz/#sponsor Gman

There appear to be two Leonardo's. Maybe that's where the confusion with Coturedesigner comes from. The original link https://rent.men/Leonardobr leads to a guy in Manila who looks nothing like the guy @Wiley1 just posted about-namely this guy. https://rent.men/leonardobrazil Gman

@Interloper -my mistake. I apologize. I missed the "a" before "Goldilocks," so I thought you were referring to a specific escort. And it's such a common newcomer mistake not to include a link, that I thought that's what had happened. Gman

@Interloper -there are so many escorts (so little time;)) that it's better if you post a link to the ad. That way everyone knows for sure about whom you are talking. Gman

I'd say at least 1/4th if not more of the escorts ( bottoms or versatile) that I hired-and I'm not talking about guys I picked up off the street, but reputable guys I usually found out about here-have used them. That includes both porn star and non-porn star escorts. Lots of hook-ups have used them too. Personally I can't use them as they can kill you if you are on Viagra or the like-but even if I weren't, I don't like the head rush it gives, and it leaves me with a headache. I never liked the head-rush I got the one or two times I used dip or the one time someone gave me a whip-it to try. Gman

When I just looked at his ad, it was expired. Gman

A momentary break in the subject at hand. @GregM, you look adorable with the scruff in your current icon picture. And we now return you to the original subject of this thread already in progress. Gman