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When I was hiring, I always wished I could find a non-straight versatile or bottom guy with this kind of physique.

You have to exchange your Gay 'Top' Card for a Gay 'Bottom' Card (forever). However we aren't totally heartless. On Leap Day every 4 years you get a 24 hour pass to be versatile.

I'm about 2 years old than @BuckCanucked. I graduated in 1979. In junior high -specifically 7th grade I remember they used to make us shower around a pole. I hated it as I was fat. In 8th and 9th grade we were still supposed to shower, but they weren't as strict at watching. And I think I usually got out of it. Same thing with PE in 10th grade at my high school-my last year to have to take it. But as for a coach showering with us-NEVER!! And I think I would have been shocked if they had. My Uncle had told me about swimming nude at the YMCA except on Family Days back in the 1930's to 1940's. And in the 1970's when he told me that, I thought that was weird too.

If IAFD is correct, he's 42. After all what's an 11 year shaving of age among friends? By the way what does I-A-F-D stand for?

Has anyone noticed any new ads on RM in Austin for unfamiliar/unknown escorts?

I had a similar weekend experience with Trey Rexx.

@nate_sf-you just reminded me of two things. 1) My sister is 5 years or so older than I am. She went off to college at the University of Texas when I was about 13. She lived in a dorm where two rooms were connected by an in between bathroom. In the toilet stall they had put centerfold pinups from Playgirl. I have a vague memory of really liking those photos when I "had to go." 2) When I was away at school, my Dad (G-d rest his soul) wanted to subscribe to Playboy. But he had the same fear, you did @nate_sf, of being exposed. My Dad's solution-he subscribed to Playboy in my name. 🤣🤣🤣 I don't think I knew anything about it until I either came home for a holiday or for the summer.

I started showing at 15. 😢😢😢

I'm watching a murder mystery where some gay porno magazines are found at the crime scene. One of the police persons states that, "No one jacks off to magazines in modern society." Would y'all agree or disagree with that statement? For me it would be true now and would also have been true back in the day. I've only bought one or two Playboys in my entire life (and I can't remember ever buying another porno magazine -straight or gay)-not that the female centerfolds would have done anything for me. I bought the Playboy Girls Of The Southwest Conference Issue from the early 1980's because I had been in a children's theater group with one of the models. We were in several shows together. The first one I remember was when I was in 6th grade. It was The Prince And The Pauper. I joined the group late with the rehearsals already in progress. She played one of the Ladies Of The Court. I played a pauper although not The Pauper. The following year we did Tom Sawyer. I was Sid, and she was Becky Thatcher. In the Playboy Pictorial she wasn't completely nude as I recall. She had strategically placed bath bubbles. Not that her (or the other women's) pictures did anything for me. But as a preteen to teenager I had never really expected to ever see that much of her. Every time I hear the song "Centerfold" by the J. Geils Band I think about her. 🤭🤭🤭 But I digressed from my query-was the law officer character correct? Do people not jack off to magazines anymore?

I just started it today. I'm on the second episode. i like it so far. While i still think he's pretty adorable, Jason Bateman is beginning to show his age a bit. I'm sure glad I've retained my youthful visage.

So many disappointed gay men (and straight women) right now. I'm surprised it hasn't been commented on already.

Since my posting last week, he's changed the Versatile/Top to Top.

My mistake. I'm sorry for misunderstanding your point.

You are correct, Sir. It wasn't a professional profile. The reason I started the thread was to see what people who are/were experienced A4A Users thought about the veracity of the profile.

That will be easy. I've lost my wallet. I have no fricking idea where it is. I'm screwed. And not in a good way.

I find the profile that I'm going to post problematic. Usually on Adam4Adam, I'm fairly sure if it's fake. Usually the pictures are of a guy too handsome to usually be interested in me. And they always state they are looking for a relationship. This guy is extremely handsome. I won't show his pictures on the slim chance he's real. But he also puts in his profile that he's interested in NSA which scammers don't usually do. And when I asked about meeting-he said not today. But he didn't suggest going to WhatsApp or Telegram before meeting. So I just don't know. Here's the profile.

"Hook up" culture is a straight people thing. Gay men have always had tons of casual sex. And we're not doing what escorts are doing. I disagree. I definitely have been known to 'hook-up'. And now since I can't afford to hire, if I didn't occasionally hook-up, I'd never have sex.(Although for the last several months I have had a 'buddy'. It's certainly nice not to have to always be searching for strangers.) I love how supportive we are of each other. Although I have to admit that I'm no angel. Overly feminine males put me on edge (as do overly macho women). But just because I'm uncomfortable with it doesn't make me right and them wrong. But all of us ought to work at being more charitable of our fellows.

What 'way' did you need to look?

This a picture from his X Account that was posted in February. If he showed up looking like this, I wouldn't have anything (lookswise) to complain about

Why do escorts say one thing in their ad copy and list something else in the Stats Section? The las word in his ad copy is 'Top.' But in the Stats Section he lists 'Versatile/Top.'

Are there a few you could mention that you've seen and don't want to see again? That way you're less likely to get useless recommendations.

I am speaking from my experience as a client even though for the most part I haven't hired since 2017 ( I hired one guy in 2018), and I've had something like 4 erotic massages. But the last one was probably in 2019 or 2020. So while it's been awhile, and my memory is not perfect, I'd have to say that an awful lot of my hires were same day. If they couldn't host, back then I had a career that I could afford a hotel or motel. Now often once I met them, the escort might become a semi-regular for me. But still they were often same day appts. Of course if the escort was traveling to my city, then I'd often contact therm beforehand. And obviously if I was planning an overnight or a weekend, I'd set it up beforehand. But it sounds like because of your daily schedule, where you live or travel, and possibly your expectations of how meetings should occur, that same day doesn't often work for you. But unless things have changed I'm sure there are still reputable escorts who advertise their availability on short term notice.

I was wondering if it was maybe because he has so little info on what he will do that he hasn't had a lot of clients. Less clients less opportunities for reviews.

The 'man-bun'--is it truly 'manly' and is it truly a 'bun'? Now go discuss!!

On RM he advertises as versatile. On the A4A he describes himself as a versatile bottom.