Gar1eth

Using Chrome, and possibly Safari, on my iphone, I've noticed lately on Rentmen.eu that HideMe no longer lets me see the reviews. It will show the review page momentarily like this. But will then flash to this.

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1CuPSsyZfG/?mibextid=wwXIfr

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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXcxw3HiXGe/?igsh=ZHlqeWozcGNtcDN1

Did I do that?

I wouldn't call it dating quite yet.

You are definitely correct. I misspoke... errr mis-wrote. We are. We've even met each other's mothers. And I, somewhat inadvertently, last Saturday (including his mother) met about 10 people of his extended family. His mother came in to town last week. And he invited me to meet her and go out to eat with them. Well unbeknownst to either A or myself, it was a surprise party for his birthday at the restaurant. What happened was- he let his mother and me out before parking the car. His mother says-we're having a surprise party for A-and walls into the restaurant to look for their party. I wait outside for A. I tell him his mother went inside to get a table. We walk in, and he sees his family. It was a bit awkward-just because I wasn't expecting a family party. But I managed to behave myself. I'll even say more about this. First background-my immediate family (Mom, sibs and sibs's significant others.) are accepting although I've never had a boyfriend before. I don't know if that would cause any stress (I have a very conservative niece-in-law who is a lovely person. But I'm not sure if I ever had a boyfriend if he'd be welcome at my nephew and niece's house). I have no idea what my nieces and nephew or my cousins know about me. His mother knows he's gay. But she's from a smaller town. And has lived in small towns most of her life. She would rather not think about the fact that A is gay. A and his mother had a contentious phone call weeks ago about him being gay. And my name came up -and the fact that we were 'making the beast with two backs.' (My euphemism not his). So his less accepting mother knows about us. But I didnt tell my more accepting mother about us although Mom is pretty bright. I'm sure she suspects. But *this is the first time I've ever introduced anyone I was having sex with to my family. So a big milestone for me at 65 when it probably happens for most people somewhere between 16 and their early 20's. * Eight years ago I had something probably between an fbud and friend with benefits. It actually was more of a friend with benefits now that I think about it. I would have gladly introduced him to my family, but this was when I was in Washington state. And none of my family was around. I definitely wouldn't have been able to introduce him as more than a friend as he was married (to a man). But they were open (I had seen his husband's profile on a hook-up app-so I know they were). In fact I'm not sure if they were much more than roommates at that point as they ended up getting a divorce after I moved back to Texas.

Apparently he is out to some people whether he wants to be or not. In the spirit of full disclosure since I started this thread, I probably ought to reveal the number of partners I've had over the last two months or so. As I recall there have been 3. Let's call them A, B, and C. A is an 'fbud'. I met him from a 'meet-up/hook-up' website last October. We've been seeing each other on a semi-routine basis over the last several months. It's been nice. I've only ever had one other fbud relationship. And that was 8 years ago. I wasn't sure I was ever going to be lucky enough to have another one. We don't just have sex. We watch TV together and have been out to eat several times. Last night we watched TV, held hands, and kissed a bit. B is a 'suckbuddy' that I met off of Growlr about 2 years ago. We finally met about a year ago. We've only met for 'Clintonian' sex. In this scenario (in case anyone is curious), I'm acting the part of Clinton, and he's Ms. Lewinski but in a totally masculine way (hoping that's not TMI). With him, while I wouldn't mind seeing him outside the bedroom, it hasn't happened. We were seeing each other fairly regularly (once a week) for about 6 to 9 months. But due to his schedule/life we've probably only seen each other once or twice over the last three months. The last time I saw him was the last part of March. C is a one night-possibly a two-night stand (one night now and one long ago). It happened last week as I was leaving a friend's house after having dinner with him and his partner. He lives about 30 miles from me. After I left his house, I started checking the apps because occasionally I've had good luck with the guys in his area. Well, I ended up checking the apps for about two hours. I was finally getting ready to shut them down and go home when this guy texts me on Scruff. He was kind of cute. So I decided I'd meet him. I get there. Things proceed as they do. He asked me if we had met before. I told him I didn't think so, but on the other hand, I had met someone in the area most likely before Covid for a one time meeting. While I didn't remember what that guy looked like, it's possible it was him. But if it was, it was a very unsatisfactory meeting back then. He basically got off and didn't do a lot for helping me. I left "unfulfilled" And if it was him, history repeated itself. We started with a Clintonian scenario-again I'm Clinton. He then proceeds to tell me he was drinking all evening before I arrived. Basically he was all 'eff-ed' up. He was developing 'the spins.' As things hadn't really progressed that far, I put on my clothes and left with neither of us 'fulfilled.' If this was the same guy I met years ago-and just because of circumstances I'm going to assume it is-he now has two strikes against him. I don't plan on giving him an opportunity for a third strike. And that's my current "like-life."

Strawberry Pretzel Salad https://www.facebook.com/share/r/18kGPsEeLR/?mibextid=wwXIfr

I woke up today with this on my phone. I know it must be one of my Message Center homies who spilled the beans. So whoever it was-fess up!!

Or my sister for that matter. It's such a strange concept to me when I think about the fact that i've only been having sex for 24 years. What prompted this? This reel just popped up on Instagram. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUjMA97kW_e/?igsh=MWQ2NjNsZHMxbmU2Yg==

Thinking of the taste of beef stroganoff, it seems to me chicken would be a fine substitute. Also I love chicken cacciatore. I've made it a few times in an instant pot. I also like to order it at Italian restaurants if it's on the menu. But not every Italian place serves it.

Of Fannie Merritt Farmer coming to farm my fanny.

He wouldn't deep kiss-or at least wouldn't deep kiss me when I saw him once. He said he didn't 'deep kiss.' This was probably around 18 years ago. For the record in case anyone wonders-my oral hygiene is good. And most escorts and non-escorts say I'm a good kisser. I'd never want to hire him again even if I were hiring. But I'll admit to being curious as to what he looks like now. It seems to me that even 20 years ago when he was using those pictures that they weren't up to the minute current even then. In his favor, however, I don't remember being particularly disappointed by his looks. On the other hand considering this is a probable 18+ year-old memory, I can't be sure. Possibly I wasn't impressed by his looks but the upsetting kissing is what has stuck in my memory after all this time.

I've often had it say offline. But then I send a message. And it transmits.

We obviously can't know what's going on in his head or his life. But it seems to me that NYC has enough escorts-that unless you just like trying to pursue things off the beaten track-I'd go for someone else.

The only disagreement I have with you is the term 'ripe'. I'd use 'mature.' And going by the pictures on that expired ad, he needs at least 10 to 15 years more maturing.

I used to think he was very attractive when I saw his ad on RM. Then I saw the Matt Cullen video on the GayVN Awards. I didn't even recognize him. Robert Pattinson has changed a lot too. I didn't even recognize him at first. He face has become much more narrow. This puts me in mind when Dylan Sprouse of the Suite Life Of Zack and Cody had a cock photo leaked by an ex-girlfriend. While it obviously wasn't comfortable for Dylan, his identical twin Cole tweeted "now they've basically seen me naked which is weird I guess."

You'd think someone would have informed RM by now-but maybe I'm wrong. But if someone has, and RM has kept the ad up-in spite of that-it's pretty heartless.

I once texted years ago when he was in LA, and he wasnt particularly polite. On the other hand i remember i had made some comment on his appearance. I don't think it was derogatory in any way. I think it had to do with his description of himself. I was probably out of line or at least he took it wrong. I'm sorry about his death. Addendum-I think I told him ginger lovers like me-loved fire pubes-and he shouldn't shave down there. I was most likely out of line. But I was letting him know what a lot of us liked.

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That would be me. How dare guys be too handsome?!! There ought to be a law against it.

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