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Zoltan is pretty dang funny. https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1Gvowa2QsL/?mibextid=wwXIfr

You make a great point. But I really just have no desire to. My disinclination is probably just as strong as my Kinsey Scale 6 (which if the score went up to it would be at least a 75 to 100) disinclination to be intimate with the fairer sex. I'm not particularly fond of spinach either unless it's in its dip form. I'm pasting said recipe below for any who aren't familiar with it Knorr Spinach Dip Recipe A cool and creamy, quick and easy, party-perfect spinach dip recipe. Make it and then watch it disappear! 0 mins Cooking Time Easy Difficulty 10 mins Prep Time 32 People Serves Ingredients 1 box (10 oz.) frozen chopped spinach, cooked, cooled and squeezed dry 1 container (16 oz.) sour cream 1 cup Hellmann’s® or Best Foods® Real Mayonnaise 1 package Knorr® Vegetable Recipe Mix 1 can (8 oz.) water chestnuts, drained and chopped (optional) 3 green onions, chopped (optional) Cook Combine all ingredients in a bowl and mix. Chill the spinach dip for about 2 hours. Serve this classic spinach dip with your favorite dippers, like crackers or veggies, and share with your favorite people.

My mistake. You can message him through the rent.men website. I thought you had to use the 'plus' sign to message. You don't. There's a text bubble to press above the 'plus' sign. Mea Culpa.

I don't know of a Rentmen 'app,' and according to the AI on Chrome (which isn't always correct but which I think is in this case), there isn't one. There is a website which I usually either use Chrome or Safari to access. Assuming you, @Chancealot, meant a website, which version of the website are you using?

I checked the rent.men site thinking it would allow you to text him where the Rentmen.eu might not. But nope. There was no option to text there either. It looks like the only way to contact him is to use Telegram. But isn't that Russia based? I've never used it and am leery of it.

Current ad says 'slap.' Current ad https://rentmen.eu/Markhotmuscle/

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Thanks I thought I had looked there. Apparently I missed it.

It may be the experience thing. On one hand he's more experienced than I am in that he's had several long term partners. On the other hand, I'm not sure now that he's not in a relationship how often he meets up with other guys. Or I don't know, maybe he's just always met rimming enthusiasts. A lot of people like to do it.

I may be wrong-but for some reason -could be movies or novels-I get the idea that women escorts from agencies ask for state-issued picture IDs.

My Magic Eight Ball says there's a very good chance you are going to get extremely nauseous -not to mention sore at the injection site -from your next Apretude injection.

We're both the same but also different. I've been exploring my 'gay' side for 23 years now. And my feelings on rimming haven't changed. However where we differ is kissing. I'm not sure what I thought about plain kissing. But before my first experience, I too thought French kissing sounded gross and didn't think I'd like it. Then my 'teacher' French kissed me, and I loved it. It makes the ol' tallywacker really hard (hope that's not too TMI). What I also found out-again hope this isn't too TMI-my neck is very sensitive. I love some guy nuzzling on my neck and ears. And if they have a bit of a 5-o'clock shadow or a beard/mustache-WOWEE!! In fact I just had a haircut yesterday. The lady barber was trimming my neck with the electric shears. And while it wasn't a WOWEE situation in any way shape or form, it still tickled a bit. As a friend of mine who is now passed used to say, "De gustibus non est disputandum"

I lived in Tacoma for about 7 years. And I was going mention the Seattle Freeze. As background, the term came from the following 2005 article. https://www.seattletimes.com/pacific-nw-magazine/our-social-dis-ease-beyond-the-smiles-the-seattle-freeze-is-on/ I'd say that to some extent it's true. But it's probably common to most large cities. In Dallas where I live now, there is the gay world equivalent called 'Dallitude.' It describes how it can be difficult to find 'partners' if you're not young and hot. But again that's probably universal in the gay world too.

How would you fail it? If you ended up getting HIV, you wouldn't be eligible for it.

I appreciate the advice. But nah. I don't want any part of my face that close to an a$$hóle.

I don't remember that exactly. But it's nice to know I'm consistent.

I'm not saying I'm not weird for other reasons. But a guy I've played around with once loves being rimmed. He's used to being rimmed long and hard. He said he had never come across someone like me as regards rimming. As for me-I've never wanted to at all-not in the slightest. And while I don't watch porn a lot, when I did, if there was a long rimming scene, I'd fast forward thru it. I do have to admit that I don't mind being rimmed. In fact sometimes it's felt really nice. But I don't ask for it because I figure it's not fair if I'm not willing to reciprocate. Also to be honest the thought of kissing someone who's just been rimming me is not that appealing either. And I'd much rather kiss than be rimmed. (By the by, I'm not really fond of seeing cum leaking out of a hole either.)

Anyone thinking about using it? https://www.webmd.com/drugs/updates/fda-approves-first-twice-yearly-shot-to-prevent-hiv?ecd=socpd_fb_Gen_1624_spns_ctv92705_conmkt&fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0BMABhZGlkAasl9G8GRfxzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEep98Mn6owAV3BoVYB0wI1Fztwrcbs9pmqRdRc7aVlCoyAH5F68HhFAw_VQII_aem_jHpj7pF27i66sSwDCJh7tw&utm_medium=paid&utm_source=fb&utm_id=120231546745910156&utm_content=120231546746040156&utm_term=120231546745950156&utm_campaign=120231546745910156

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Some background first which some have read before. I was a virgin until I was 41-and I mean a total virgin. The most I had done was give a short swift kiss on a cheek or the lips to probably less than 10 women in my life. And I don't think I had ever kissed a man. Why you say? Because I didn't want to be gay. But finally I felt like I had to have sex. But I still didn't want to be gay. So I finally nerved myself up to hire an escort. I was lucky. He was very kind and took the time to teach me things like how to kiss. After that because I still didn't want to be gay, and because also I didn't feel I was attractive enough that anyone would really want me, I continued to hire for around 15 years. And because I was solitary I often hired for overnights and weekends. I had a lot of not-so-great or mediocre experiences. But on the other hand I did have a lot of nice times and met some incredibly handsome friendly guys. I probably remember more of the overnights and weekends than I do of the one and two hour meets and not just because of the sex as I am not now and never was a sexual dynamo. But the point I want to make is that for me -and maybe not every time -but definitely either during a large proportion of the meeting time or afterwards when I had time to reflect, I had some degree of melancholy or wistfulness because I knew it was a paid encounter. That doesn't mean I didn't have a good time or fun during a lot of my escort encounters **(see below). But the wistfulness was often there at the back of my mind. Now the feeling wasn't severe enough to make me stop meeting escorts. In fact two of the best Christmases I ever had as adult (I'm Jewish so Christmas isn't a family time for me-but the season can still feel a little hollow if you're nowhere near your own family and you know most people around you are celebrating) were two consecutive Christmas weekends (I think back in 2015 and 2016) I spent with an escort at his house. So if your feelings are anything like mine were, you're going to have figure out if you're having a good enough time to be able to deal with (what is for me) the omnipresent downside of hiring. If you can't, then maybe hiring isn't right for you. ****************************************** **I was in a gay club once-possibly The Cuff in Seattle. They had some posters of porn stars on the wall. I had been with 4 or 5 of them -that definitely gave me some silent satisfaction. And it never would have occurred if I had never started hiring.

I knew some of this. I remember Benedict was a proponent of the Tridentine (aka Latin )Mass. But I would think chatting about and then building a bomb would supersede wanting to hear the Mass in Latin.

This on the long side but amusing. My one main question is I don't see how converting to Catholicism even if choosing the Latin Mass pertains to anything. https://www.facebook.com/share/v/17hAZ2tj3E/?mibextid=wwXIfr

I really don't know. The profile picture was of a shirtless guy with a hairy chest-very attractive. The profile was only a day only. And he supposedly was only about 20 miles from me. At first I thought he was asking if I wanted to be a sugar daddy. I asked. He then made clear he wanted to support me. I told him I wasn't interested and deleted the message.

You don't think this guy would have wanted 'favors' from me, do you? I'm getting the vapoUrs just contemplating it.

I agree wholeheartedly with not sending deposits. I think I was burned once. But I'm trying to remember. Did one time Message Center favorite Steve Draker ever require a deposit? He wouldn't let me make a flight reservation for him. I'm assuming because he didn't want me to know his real name. So I can't remember if he waited for reimbursement until we actually met, or if he required reimbursement ahead of time as I didn't live in a major Texas city at the time. He would have had to fly to me from a major city he was already visiting like Dallas, San Antonio or Houston. Assuming he did ask for one, he didn't abscond with it. On the other hand my two overnights with him were definitely nothing to write home about. Why did I hire him twice then? Well it was at least a year apart if not more. I convinced myself because of his stellar reviews that the reason the first time was less than spectacular was because of my inexperience. So after I had more experience I tried him again. What I should have realized was that almost all of his glowing reviews were from bottoms and almost none from tops. I realize he hasn't advertised for a long time. But in case anyone on here is interested-socially he was great. I enjoyed going out to dinner and talking to him. When it came to more intimate things, he took forever to prepare-seems like over an hour. Still that can be understandable. But once we began he wanted it over as quickly as possible. No real snuggling afterward. And no even attempt at things the following morning.