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No argument there. Gman

I am likewise 1000% gay and don't like bottoming either. But if I'm gay and wouldn't want to bottom, I'm going to assume that there is an even larger proportion of straight guys who don't like it. Of course in every straight crowd there's always one... Gman

I thought a previous poster mentioned oral both ways? As for bottoming, if he's truly straight, I doubt he'd enjoy it-he possibly wouldn't be able to even relax his sphincter enough. Would someone really want to top a guy they know wasn't enjoying it? Gman

I had said that. But on reflection changed it. Mea Culpa. But I still think it's an awful look. Gman

It will be difficult as the ad is gone. Gman

If this is a former escort, I hired him once. It was only a meh kind of meeting. If it's not a former escort, I hired a guy who looked a lot like him once It's really not that difficult. Bears come in roughly two types although there are many in betweens. The more common bear is husky-or fat (sigh, I've just described myself). The other type is muscular. Wolves are hairy like bears. But they are leaner and always muscular. . Gman

It took me a second. But I'm assuming it stands for Drill Instructor. As for haircuts, it's usually several months apart for me. Yes, I look better if it's shorter, but I have my reasons. #1. I grew up in the era of longer hair-the late 60's to the 80's. #2. My hair was probably my best feature. Not that there was anything particularly special about it. Just nothing else was particularly special either. And unfortunately it was all gone before I even tried to date or hook-up. Going to the barber just reminds me of how bald I am. I hate being bald. Therefore I hate going to the barber. Gman

Not to diss Adam but I think you are more muscular. Gman

Maybe I should have said 'the' rather than 'your'. It was a bit tongue in cheek. On the other hand, I'm trying to imagine how bad it must have been for the stylist to cut @Smurof off like that. I'm wondering if the stylist didn't overreact. Gman

You're telling me. It's been weeks!! ? Gman

I'm surprised you don't remember him more clearly, as he was an extremely frequent poster for years before he was banned. I wish I had met that Steven Draker. I'm glad you have some nice memories to reflect back on. Gman

I'm sorry for your loss. Gman

I thought it was a selfie. I changed the title. Gman

A Huffpost article showed up in my Facebook feed touting cashmere bras after Katie Holmes posted a picture of herself. I don't think it looks appealing at all. Gman

He only joined RM 2 days ago. Gman

I've looked at RM twice today using the mobile Safari Browser. A screen has popped up each time saying Rentmen.eu is checking my browser. Then it lets me into the site. Has this happened to anyone else? Gman

I know it's not funny if you have to explain a joke beforehand. But for those not in the know, Popeye's Chicken has just introduced a chicken sandwich to compete with Chick-Fil-A. (The sandwich is apparently doing very well with a lot of Popeye's in the DFW Metroplex running out of product.) Gman

But there is a stereotype of gay men having dominant mothers and absent fathers. My mother was the more dominant parent although not dominant in a termagant way. Some stereotypes have a basis in fact. Some don't. I wonder which this one is. Gman

The above link still works. Gman

On a personal note-if it's not a false memory, I think I can remember being attracted to men-at the time probably handsome actors -by the age of 5 or 6 at least. I also have a vague memory-I don't know whether it's true or not-of thinking to myself that a certain boy in my kindergarten class was cute. Then immediately after that thought thinking, "Boys don't think other boys are cute." But I don't know if this is a true memory or not. Other things I've wondered about-I've heard that I was a difficult pregnancy. My Mom was on bed rest for months. I wouldn't be surprised if she was placed on hormones at some point to prevent a miscarriage. Other thoughts-not so much for my older siblings in the first few years of life-but by the time I came along, Dad was a traveling salesman. I know when I was 6 and older he was often away 3 or more days at least every other week. My Mom was the dominant parent in our household. I wonder how much any of this impacted my sexuality. Gman

Would you say he's more on the masculine or effeminate side of things? Gman

They also said at least from the study that genetic influences only accounted for around 30 % of same sex behavior. But one of the people quoted in the article who was not part of the study made a good point. This is not a study on what makes people gay. It's a study about about the influences on people who have had a same sex encounter. From reading the article, a person wouldn't necessarily have to be gay to be included in the study. You could have had a single same sex experience. Gman

@Keith30309 our interests don't usually coincide as I'm not usually into twinks. But occasionally if one is very cute and isn't too skinny, I'll take one out for a spin. This guy was one of those. It's been probably 5 years-maybe more. He was in college at the time. I can't remember if I saw him once or twice. As you know, I'm a fairly vanilla guy. If you like vanilla, at least going by my long ago experience, you'll like this guy. He has a defined to athletic build, a nice sized tallywacker, is a good kisser, has nice personality and is adorable. Who could ask for anything more? Gman

As of yesterday, I can't get it to work in Mobile Safari or Mobile Chrome. Gman

Pretty impossible in my case. We are from Texas. My twin was from Wisconsin. My Dad had occasionally gone to Wisconsin-but it was years ago .... Gman