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Well he was apparently in it for the fun and not the money. The fun was all his because he never showed up despite his texts. And he's apparently not in it for the money because he didn't get any. Sad because I was prepared to tip well...

I find him very handsome. Moreso than the $300 guys. That's why I reached out to him in the first place. Thanks for the encouraging words everyone. I feel much better about giving it a go!

I'm traveling this week and came across this ad. https://www.mintboys.com/male-escorts/new-york/5d75e039ce412f26f7ad11a5 He responded promptly with more info but when he told me his rate was $60/hour (and it could be negotiated if it was too much), it was very strange. Yeah, he's not an in-shape jock, but with normal rates in NYC starting at $250/$300 and up, it just seemed way too low. Yeah, there could be upsells later but has anyone ever come across a similar situation? Any red flags or things I should be concerned about?

You're right. But he is a hottie...shame there are no more shirtless pics on masseurfinder!

Next week I'll be in Phoenix for one night and this masseur's ad caught my eye: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35240/ No reviews and the requirement of a face photo for scheduling are of concern. Was looking for a professional massage but with some "extras". Has anyone had any experience that they can share? Private messages are welcome.

Anyone have any experience with this masseur who is traveling through Florida at the moment? https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/handsomeuropean.shtml

Thanks stripfan!

Anyone have any experience with Matthew? http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/collegejock.shtml

Anyone have any experience with Sagi? http://www.massagem4m.com/SAGI139

Anyone ever try this guy? Does he have real massage training? http://www.massagem4m.com/ANDRE4PLAY

Thanks again for the tips. Jake is definitely someone I've noticed before and I'll consider him. It's just that from the ads and reviews, it seemed that what he offered was way more than what I was looking for so that's why I focused on masseurs that only offered therapeutic and sensual (not erotic). The one thing I wonder about is their rates. Some of the rates for those that do everything from therapeutic to erotic massage seem a bit high (and obviously include a lot more than I'm looking for). Since I'm not looking for all the bells and whistles, is it rude for me to ask if they have a lower rate for straight therapeutic/light sensual work or is it the case that once I ask them to strip to their undies, I should just shut up and enjoy the eye candy? (and while I'm asking-for those that advertise therapeutic and sensual-not erotic massage, where it is kind of understood and expected-do you just straight out ask for the eye candy at the beginning, hint at it, or wait until the massage is underway and things start getting sensual?) I normally get massages where I live in Florida and I pay around $100-$120 for 90 minutes and I usually give a $20-$30 tip. I know things are more expensive in the city-is it expected for me to give a huge tip after I've laid out $200 already-especially since I'm not asking them to go all out with what some others would have received after paying the same fee?

Thanks for the feedback guys. I appreciate the confirmations and the suggestions...I'm all ears if you have others that you want to recommend! There are just so many choices in a place like NYC and I know that I can't always trust the reviews so your input is invaluable.

I'm new to posting on this site but I've read a lot of your recommendations in the past and I've benefitted greatly from them. I'm going to be visiting NYC next month and I want to take advantage of the opportunity to have a few massages while I'm in town for the long weekend. It may sound strange, but because of a very important relationship, I have some limitations about what I feel these massages can include. First and foremost I'm looking for a masseur that is professionally trained (and preferably licensed) that will give me a full 60 or 90 minute session (in or outcall doesn't matter). If there's nothing more beyond that, I'd be happy. I don't want sex and even a release doesn't matter, but I do like to have some "eye candy" to look at. Ideally the masseur would wear a pair of shorts and be shirtless, spend some extra time on my butt and thighs, and then move on to calming relaxation after that. There are so many ads out there, many of which describe a lot more than what I'm looking for but I want someone that will respect my boundaries and isn't just looking to give a rug and tug and send me out the door in 30 minutes. That, and unhygienic surroundings are a big turn off. This is the list I've narrowed my choices down to and if any of you can give advice (even privately), I'm all ears! I'm sure the lack of reviews in some cases means they are less than stellar but I also know that some of them are hidden gems waiting to be discovered. Thanks for the help... Here's my list in order of hotness... Will http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/will_nyc.shtml Milosz (this guy knows his stuff-I've had a therapeutic massage from him before but I didn't know about his sensual ad, so I'm curious as to whether I can push things to what I want) http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/bionic2.shtml Fred http://www.massagem4m.com/bearhandler Bryan (this guy has a lot of reviews, but I'm just not sure if he's professionally trained) http://www.massagem4m.com/bryanmassage Excellent Massage http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/exlntmassage.shtml And lastly, David, this guy doesn't hint at anything sensual in his ad but he's just cute as a button so I can only hope ;-) http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/david82.shtml Thanks in advance for your help!