Jump to content

jessmapex

+ Supporters
  • Posts

    339
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Reputation Activity

  1. Agree
    + jessmapex got a reaction from blck37 in Will AI/VR one day threaten the escorting market?   
    I dont think VR will ever be able to simulate warmth of a human body and the scent of sex.
  2. Agree
    + jessmapex got a reaction from TorontoDrew in Will AI/VR one day threaten the escorting market?   
    I dont think VR will ever be able to simulate warmth of a human body and the scent of sex.
  3. Like
    + jessmapex got a reaction from Marc in Calif in U.S. Air Travel   
    None of the stats and above arguments will help @sync with his irrational fear of flying. I can vouch for this first hand as a fearful flyer with a job that required me to travel until my mid-thirties. More than my job the flying part was a challenge. I read all kinds of books, learned stats, understood the technology behind how modern jets fly and navigate, how turbulence impacts a jet etc. Nothing helped.  Inside a plane my fear was so obvious that sometimes the flight attendants would offer me a glass if water. 
    Then my doc prescribed xanax and it changed my life. It completely killed the fear. Now severe turbulence feels like a roller coaster ride and i look forward to my travels (except the deteriorated overall flying experience) .
     
  4. Agree
    + jessmapex reacted to tchm in Sasha Bloom in LA   
    YES. Scammers and escorts masquerading as masseurs have practically taken over the industry.
  5. Agree
    + jessmapex reacted to lurker123 in Some Instagram people I follow, and wish some escorted   
    well based on my (own & limited) experience, fitness models mostly use instagram for advertisement on selling:
    1. coaching clssess
    2. supplement
    3. clothes
    4. escorting.
     
  6. Like
    + jessmapex got a reaction from + sync in U.S. Air Travel   
    I am too not worried about when my time is up. With a plane, my biggest irrational fear was about those few seconds / minutes of sheer terror as it fell out of the sky.
    Imagining what the passengers of the Alaska Air flight 261 went through in 2000 when the plane crashed into the Pacific ocean just northwest of LAX used to give me night terrors. It took them 12 minutes to crash. For the last few minutes before the crash the plane flew upside down (like in the Denzel Washington movie Flight ).
  7. Like
    + jessmapex got a reaction from CuriousByNature in U.S. Air Travel   
    I am too not worried about when my time is up. With a plane, my biggest irrational fear was about those few seconds / minutes of sheer terror as it fell out of the sky.
    Imagining what the passengers of the Alaska Air flight 261 went through in 2000 when the plane crashed into the Pacific ocean just northwest of LAX used to give me night terrors. It took them 12 minutes to crash. For the last few minutes before the crash the plane flew upside down (like in the Denzel Washington movie Flight ).
  8. Sad
    + jessmapex got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Do you discuss hiring guys with friends?   
    I have a cautionary tale on this topic.
    I started hiring in my late twenties/early 30s. Almost 20 yrs ago. I had several close gay friends - a few were especially close and remained close until a year or so ago. I was always honest with them and told them about my lifestyle which I summarized as my gay friends were my family and my romantic needs were outsourced to external vendors i.e escorts.
    A couple of these friends also knew descriptions of some of the guys I met and about my good and bad experiences. 
    My general thinking was as I was honest and upfront about my choices, it should be ok. One friend expressed minor concerns and others being very progressive were non-judgemental. This lifestyle choice never seemed to come between our friendships. These friendships were my primary support structure.
    Fast forward twenty years later, as the pandemic and related stresses rolled in, and as the political polarization grew, one of the progressive friends who could not hold a job down and over the years grew somewhat jealous of my modest success (basic ability to have a good paying job for all these years) had a fall out with me after getting drunk. The words that came out of his mouth were eye-opening. He said you might be successful, but you pay for s*x. "You are a pedophile that you go after young guys" ( I have never been with anyone under 23 - but I do admit my preference is for escorts between 25-35 ). He called me all sorts of names. The alcohol and built in jealousy brought out how he really felt about what I thought was an honest and upfront lifestyle that I personally have no qualms about as long as there is mutual consent and no exploitation. Another close friend, who departed a year before this one due to political differences (he was tea-party supporter and later a Trumpster and I am somewhat left of the center) which he grew especially sensitive about in the polarized pandemic years, also mentioned about me 'hiring hookers' as one of my bad traits in our final argument.
    So 20-21 years ..after being very close friends - almost equivalent of a family - I realized that friends, no matter how progressive, harbored negative feelings toward my ability to hire the best looking guys to have some fun. Those came out eventually despite them telling me it was cool with them through the years.
    So, my advice is do not overshare. Gay friendships fall apart, friends are not family. They will use this against you when they no longer want to be your friends. 
    With this experience, I now have become very introvert. 
     
     
  9. Like
    + jessmapex got a reaction from EZEtoGRU in U.S. Air Travel   
    None of the stats and above arguments will help @sync with his irrational fear of flying. I can vouch for this first hand as a fearful flyer with a job that required me to travel until my mid-thirties. More than my job the flying part was a challenge. I read all kinds of books, learned stats, understood the technology behind how modern jets fly and navigate, how turbulence impacts a jet etc. Nothing helped.  Inside a plane my fear was so obvious that sometimes the flight attendants would offer me a glass if water. 
    Then my doc prescribed xanax and it changed my life. It completely killed the fear. Now severe turbulence feels like a roller coaster ride and i look forward to my travels (except the deteriorated overall flying experience) .
     
  10. Like
    + jessmapex got a reaction from + sync in U.S. Air Travel   
    None of the stats and above arguments will help @sync with his irrational fear of flying. I can vouch for this first hand as a fearful flyer with a job that required me to travel until my mid-thirties. More than my job the flying part was a challenge. I read all kinds of books, learned stats, understood the technology behind how modern jets fly and navigate, how turbulence impacts a jet etc. Nothing helped.  Inside a plane my fear was so obvious that sometimes the flight attendants would offer me a glass if water. 
    Then my doc prescribed xanax and it changed my life. It completely killed the fear. Now severe turbulence feels like a roller coaster ride and i look forward to my travels (except the deteriorated overall flying experience) .
     
  11. Agree
    + jessmapex reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in U.S. Air Travel   
    Statistics are everything. 
    You're more likely to die in a car accident on the way to or from the airport. 
    Air travel is incredibly safe. 
    If you want to have fear, at least be afraid of something that makes numerical sense. 
  12. Haha
    + jessmapex reacted to Lazarus in The View in Dallas - New Club   
    Is Whoppi Goldberg one of the strippers? If so, I’m down! 
  13. Like
    + jessmapex got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in WeHo-like bars   
    Thank you all for chiming in. This has helped me schedule my next trip.
  14. Agree
    + jessmapex reacted to Archangel in How to find local guys to play with?   
    I’ve given up hope on such things. 
  15. Thanks
    + jessmapex reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in WeHo-like bars   
    Wilton Manors, adjacent to Ft Lauderdale, Florida.  They have about 10 gay bars and a gay male strip club on two blocks of Wilton Drive.
  16. Thanks
    + jessmapex reacted to + azdr0710 in WeHo-like bars   
    Arenas Rd in downtown Palm Springs has exactly one block of them!
  17. Surprised
    + jessmapex reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Sexcation Destinations   
    I used to go to Disneyland once a month.  Throughout the day and the evening, Grindr and Growlr were full of headless profiles of Daddies wanting to get a blowjob while their kids and wife were at the pool or took a nap.  I blew so many Daddies in the stairwell of the Disneyland Grand Californian Hotel.
  18. Sad
    + jessmapex got a reaction from hadagreatname in Do you discuss hiring guys with friends?   
    I have a cautionary tale on this topic.
    I started hiring in my late twenties/early 30s. Almost 20 yrs ago. I had several close gay friends - a few were especially close and remained close until a year or so ago. I was always honest with them and told them about my lifestyle which I summarized as my gay friends were my family and my romantic needs were outsourced to external vendors i.e escorts.
    A couple of these friends also knew descriptions of some of the guys I met and about my good and bad experiences. 
    My general thinking was as I was honest and upfront about my choices, it should be ok. One friend expressed minor concerns and others being very progressive were non-judgemental. This lifestyle choice never seemed to come between our friendships. These friendships were my primary support structure.
    Fast forward twenty years later, as the pandemic and related stresses rolled in, and as the political polarization grew, one of the progressive friends who could not hold a job down and over the years grew somewhat jealous of my modest success (basic ability to have a good paying job for all these years) had a fall out with me after getting drunk. The words that came out of his mouth were eye-opening. He said you might be successful, but you pay for s*x. "You are a pedophile that you go after young guys" ( I have never been with anyone under 23 - but I do admit my preference is for escorts between 25-35 ). He called me all sorts of names. The alcohol and built in jealousy brought out how he really felt about what I thought was an honest and upfront lifestyle that I personally have no qualms about as long as there is mutual consent and no exploitation. Another close friend, who departed a year before this one due to political differences (he was tea-party supporter and later a Trumpster and I am somewhat left of the center) which he grew especially sensitive about in the polarized pandemic years, also mentioned about me 'hiring hookers' as one of my bad traits in our final argument.
    So 20-21 years ..after being very close friends - almost equivalent of a family - I realized that friends, no matter how progressive, harbored negative feelings toward my ability to hire the best looking guys to have some fun. Those came out eventually despite them telling me it was cool with them through the years.
    So, my advice is do not overshare. Gay friendships fall apart, friends are not family. They will use this against you when they no longer want to be your friends. 
    With this experience, I now have become very introvert. 
     
     
  19. Haha
    + jessmapex got a reaction from + tassojunior in WeHo Hotels   
    That Ramada is awful, but affordable. I once stayed there and hired a provider from RM. He just had to walk from his room to mine. 
  20. Agree
    + jessmapex reacted to marylander1940 in What caused the decay of San Francisco?   
    The fact that her refusal to get treatment was accepted and she wasn't locked up and treated but left on the street is the reason she's dead. 
  21. Applause
    + jessmapex got a reaction from LFABWC in All-American fun jock types in L.A.???   
    Looks sweet. But smells awful. Not a pro when it comes to scorting and hygiene requirements.. especially for booty lovers. First hand experience here from 2019. Also pix are whitewashed to make him look Caucasian.
    I think Tim Champagne is the all American beef fed white boy from Michigan you want. Honest, up front, and beautiful. But limited services and high priced. Mainly producing content these days. Paid 400 in 2021 in NYC for an hr, asks for 600 an hr in LA now. 
  22. Haha
    + jessmapex got a reaction from Marc in Calif in WeHo Hotels   
    That Ramada is awful, but affordable. I once stayed there and hired a provider from RM. He just had to walk from his room to mine. 
  23. Agree
    + jessmapex reacted to marylander1940 in Rates on the Rise??   
    And 300 tax free!
  24. Thanks
    + jessmapex got a reaction from claym in Info on AxxelG in LA   
    I have met him. Pics are authentic. Hardcore bttm. Felt like he was strung out a bit. He is also hard to schedule. Does not respond or follow through most of the time. Quintessential circuit party gay guy.
  25. Like
    + jessmapex got a reaction from + Just Sayin in WeHo Hotels   
    That Ramada is awful, but affordable. I once stayed there and hired a provider from RM. He just had to walk from his room to mine. 
×
×
  • Create New...