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And you joined just to look up a 7 month old thread and post your first post about this AMAZING escort?
Welcome to the forums Jordan.
Why don’t you just ask Jordan directly?
Oh, you just did.
Grin

If I were as unhappy with my chosen line of work (and all it entails) I would think about taking Ivanka’s advice and TRY SOMETHING NEW…

I’m fit and muscular and I’m also sane and sensible — and as the customer I will never send a photo to an escort to prequalify for a meetup. My cash is the qualifier.
Assuming this escort is for real, he isn’t in it for the customer. He’s in it for his own sexual gratification. Hard pass.

I’m fit and muscular and I’m also sane and sensible — and as the customer I will never send a photo to an escort to prequalify for a meetup. My cash is the qualifier.
Assuming this escort is for real, he isn’t in it for the customer. He’s in it for his own sexual gratification. Hard pass.

I’m fit and muscular and I’m also sane and sensible — and as the customer I will never send a photo to an escort to prequalify for a meetup. My cash is the qualifier.
Assuming this escort is for real, he isn’t in it for the customer. He’s in it for his own sexual gratification. Hard pass.

@FunGuyUSHis Rent.Men page has a link to his Twitter account. @russiahairyman

I tried him when he was doing incalls. I won’t repeat. Less than mediocre massage on a bed in a filthy space with a loaded handgun within his reach. Couldn’t stop thinking what a complete waste and that I should get up and leave but he seemed a bit off and then there was the gun. So I stayed and paid. He was admittedly cute with a sizable package but was a complete tease and complete disappointment. I won’t repeat even as an outcall.

I tried him when he was doing incalls. I won’t repeat. Less than mediocre massage on a bed in a filthy space with a loaded handgun within his reach. Couldn’t stop thinking what a complete waste and that I should get up and leave but he seemed a bit off and then there was the gun. So I stayed and paid. He was admittedly cute with a sizable package but was a complete tease and complete disappointment. I won’t repeat even as an outcall.

@Luvfurrytops In my experience it’s best to decide what your priority is — a good erotic massage or sex. If it’s sex, I suggest you hire your guy from an escort site like rent.men, looking for guys that include massage in their ad and have good mentions on this forum. You’ll be quoted the escort rate and get both massage and sex. I suggest hiring from RentMasseur or MasseurFinder when your priority is the erotic massage, again though, look for guys with good mentions on this forum to help ensure great experience.

Tricky territory. The definitions of Therapeutic Massage, Sensual Massage and Erotic Massage vary widely from masseur to masseur and likely from client to client. It’s best to ask the masseur the difference between them so you know what to expect.
To me, therapeutic massage should provide therapeutic benefits, ease tense muscles, break up knots, and generally be a legit massage rather than a weak unskilled body rub. Draping and nudity will vary by masseur.
Sensual massage may or may not be therapeutic in nature but should definitely go beyond the normal touch boundaries of a therapeutic massage, freely venturing and exploring inner thighs, groin, balls, cock and nips. Nudity would be the norm, in my opinion.
When MasseurFinder explicitly listed the 3 categories of massage, their Help section defined Sensual Massage as being sensual to the point of causing arousal, even sustained arousal, but in so many words — without a happy ending. They left the HE to be part of their Erotic Massage definition, saying EM goes beyond causing arousal — basically a Happy Ending.
IMHO I believe it’s acceptable to expect HE during erotic massage but one should never expect sex as part of it. That is more commonly escort territory and while many escorts advertise as masseurs, even then sex should not be assumed to be included in erotic massage hire. If a masseur decides to offer sex — oral or other — that’s their choice but sex should never be assumed as included.
As stated earlier, it’s best to ask the masseur so you can manage your expectations.

Tricky territory. The definitions of Therapeutic Massage, Sensual Massage and Erotic Massage vary widely from masseur to masseur and likely from client to client. It’s best to ask the masseur the difference between them so you know what to expect.
To me, therapeutic massage should provide therapeutic benefits, ease tense muscles, break up knots, and generally be a legit massage rather than a weak unskilled body rub. Draping and nudity will vary by masseur.
Sensual massage may or may not be therapeutic in nature but should definitely go beyond the normal touch boundaries of a therapeutic massage, freely venturing and exploring inner thighs, groin, balls, cock and nips. Nudity would be the norm, in my opinion.
When MasseurFinder explicitly listed the 3 categories of massage, their Help section defined Sensual Massage as being sensual to the point of causing arousal, even sustained arousal, but in so many words — without a happy ending. They left the HE to be part of their Erotic Massage definition, saying EM goes beyond causing arousal — basically a Happy Ending.
IMHO I believe it’s acceptable to expect HE during erotic massage but one should never expect sex as part of it. That is more commonly escort territory and while many escorts advertise as masseurs, even then sex should not be assumed to be included in erotic massage hire. If a masseur decides to offer sex — oral or other — that’s their choice but sex should never be assumed as included.
As stated earlier, it’s best to ask the masseur so you can manage your expectations.

Jayden has been on my Dallas masseur recommendations list for a while — for muscle lovers that are okay with his strict boundaries which are no extras beyond HE and some mutual touching.
Jayden’s ad had been down for a few months but is back up although today as I post this his status is listed as Unavailable. By the way, I could only find him on MasseurFinder, not RentMasseur.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41843/
Here’s a thread on Jayden:
if you’re looking for a massage in Dallas and he is still unavailable, here are a couple threads on Dallas recommendations.
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/126971-dallas-recommendations/?tab=comments#comment-1836875
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/117722-dallas-recommedations/?tab=comments#comment-1698424
 

Tricky territory. The definitions of Therapeutic Massage, Sensual Massage and Erotic Massage vary widely from masseur to masseur and likely from client to client. It’s best to ask the masseur the difference between them so you know what to expect.
To me, therapeutic massage should provide therapeutic benefits, ease tense muscles, break up knots, and generally be a legit massage rather than a weak unskilled body rub. Draping and nudity will vary by masseur.
Sensual massage may or may not be therapeutic in nature but should definitely go beyond the normal touch boundaries of a therapeutic massage, freely venturing and exploring inner thighs, groin, balls, cock and nips. Nudity would be the norm, in my opinion.
When MasseurFinder explicitly listed the 3 categories of massage, their Help section defined Sensual Massage as being sensual to the point of causing arousal, even sustained arousal, but in so many words — without a happy ending. They left the HE to be part of their Erotic Massage definition, saying EM goes beyond causing arousal — basically a Happy Ending.
IMHO I believe it’s acceptable to expect HE during erotic massage but one should never expect sex as part of it. That is more commonly escort territory and while many escorts advertise as masseurs, even then sex should not be assumed to be included in erotic massage hire. If a masseur decides to offer sex — oral or other — that’s their choice but sex should never be assumed as included.
As stated earlier, it’s best to ask the masseur so you can manage your expectations.

Tricky territory. The definitions of Therapeutic Massage, Sensual Massage and Erotic Massage vary widely from masseur to masseur and likely from client to client. It’s best to ask the masseur the difference between them so you know what to expect.
To me, therapeutic massage should provide therapeutic benefits, ease tense muscles, break up knots, and generally be a legit massage rather than a weak unskilled body rub. Draping and nudity will vary by masseur.
Sensual massage may or may not be therapeutic in nature but should definitely go beyond the normal touch boundaries of a therapeutic massage, freely venturing and exploring inner thighs, groin, balls, cock and nips. Nudity would be the norm, in my opinion.
When MasseurFinder explicitly listed the 3 categories of massage, their Help section defined Sensual Massage as being sensual to the point of causing arousal, even sustained arousal, but in so many words — without a happy ending. They left the HE to be part of their Erotic Massage definition, saying EM goes beyond causing arousal — basically a Happy Ending.
IMHO I believe it’s acceptable to expect HE during erotic massage but one should never expect sex as part of it. That is more commonly escort territory and while many escorts advertise as masseurs, even then sex should not be assumed to be included in erotic massage hire. If a masseur decides to offer sex — oral or other — that’s their choice but sex should never be assumed as included.
As stated earlier, it’s best to ask the masseur so you can manage your expectations.

Tricky territory. The definitions of Therapeutic Massage, Sensual Massage and Erotic Massage vary widely from masseur to masseur and likely from client to client. It’s best to ask the masseur the difference between them so you know what to expect.
To me, therapeutic massage should provide therapeutic benefits, ease tense muscles, break up knots, and generally be a legit massage rather than a weak unskilled body rub. Draping and nudity will vary by masseur.
Sensual massage may or may not be therapeutic in nature but should definitely go beyond the normal touch boundaries of a therapeutic massage, freely venturing and exploring inner thighs, groin, balls, cock and nips. Nudity would be the norm, in my opinion.
When MasseurFinder explicitly listed the 3 categories of massage, their Help section defined Sensual Massage as being sensual to the point of causing arousal, even sustained arousal, but in so many words — without a happy ending. They left the HE to be part of their Erotic Massage definition, saying EM goes beyond causing arousal — basically a Happy Ending.
IMHO I believe it’s acceptable to expect HE during erotic massage but one should never expect sex as part of it. That is more commonly escort territory and while many escorts advertise as masseurs, even then sex should not be assumed to be included in erotic massage hire. If a masseur decides to offer sex — oral or other — that’s their choice but sex should never be assumed as included.
As stated earlier, it’s best to ask the masseur so you can manage your expectations.

I usually stand outside the spa and shout at the door, “I expected bareback anal from a big dicked masseur, please confirm to me that you guarantee those terms.”
Then I make them confirm on camera before even entering the spa.
I also demand to see the masseur’s junk before accepting them.
I mean I AM paying.

I think there's a big misunderstanding between sensual and erotic massage particularly when looking for a great happy end. I have found that sensual is just a clothed masseur teases you prior to jerk you off, while erotic is naked or nearly and actual sex included (oral or otherwise). Have you been "deceived" by letting you think one outcome and it turns out the other. Should we say something before starting or after we get hard, making sure we get what we are expecting?

I think these terms are very open to interpretation by both parties.

Sorry, it was not "people" plural. 
It was one poster that has many different screen names posting here. 
That poster often posts controversial issues including the belief that providers should be trusted with advance payments. 
In a recent post the person wrote that it is a privilege for clients to interact with providers and that clients should not complain about advancing deposits to providers. 
The person also wrote that if the provider skips out on the deposits received or if the provider leaves earlier than the paid amount to the provider, it is the fault of the client because the client failed to do enough research about the provider. 
While there are instances where a client might want to advance a deposit to a known provider, advancing money to an unknown provider has a history of disappointments.  
    
 

this is when its not right when others including escorts come on here to defend paying up front... that there are time wasters and flakes that no show for the appointment on the escort. i understand that. it would suck being on either side. yet not making any money for an hour is in some ways better off than someone stealing money from you for the hour. turn the shoe onto the other foot and im sure the escort would rather not make money than to actually have it stolen from him.

@imma HE = Happy Ending

Here's the link for this guy.  His ad is a mess and I lost interest almost immediately.
https://rentmasseur.com/MagicHandsA
 
@azdr0710 FYI, you can better target your google search using:  magichandsa site:rentmasseur.com