Diamante

I’m not a frequent user on this site and I’m not going to call out names because it’s not my place to do that here and I’m just not going to call specific people out, but I just want to warn others there are guys on Rentmen and Rentmasseur who advertise themselves as “ negative on prep ” when I know these people are actually hiv +……Please don’t be naive and just because someone says that, doesn’t mean it’s true….please take care and protect yourselves guys. I personally think RM sites need to take that off there since guys are not truthful……

"ChatGPT, I want you to draw me like one of your French girls"

A RED flag for Bozo is whenever these words appear in a RM ad:
1. "Upscale"
2. "High class"
3. "....seeking generous men"
BoZo
 

It is such a disservice for readers of rentmen in America not to be able to read the reviews written by clients about providers. 
However, with this link - https://www.hide.me/en/proxy 
  you can go to the provider's reviews and copy the reviews link of his reviews then post that link into the place in my link, above, to read the reviews. 
If you can believe the reviews, he has some nice reviews but also some pretty rotten reviews over things he supposedly did to clients.  The worst things he did were to collect money in advance and then have a client go to a room where there was some other guy there.  Read the narratives in the reviews to see a pattern of behavior.  
The reviews tell you all you need to know about this character.  
 

I participate! But I do understand the point made by @DynamicUno. There’s an element of risk that potential clients might be put off by comments or views expressed here.
I’m of the opinion however that if I’m being true to myself with opinions on here then anyone who is put off by that is probably a client I don’t want to see anyway because the dynamic wouldn’t work. Everyone wins that way because I don’t want to see clients who expect something different to what I do nor do I want clients to be disappointed. I want them to love it and come back. 
 

I hired musclemasclatin before.  He did have a name change.  He looks like his pics.  He seems to be more into jacking you off rather than other sex.  He kinda ticked me off last time I saw him, as I felt a little “nickle & dimed to death.”  I asked about an overnight.  At first he said no, as he had a boyfriend that didn’t like him to do overnights (but hourlies were ok?). Finally he said yes, so I went to his house.  We went to dinner. Came back and he wanted to watch a movie with me.  We slept together, and after it was over (about 1 or 2 am), and asked if I still wanted to stay (but gave me the impression he didn’t want me to stay).  When I asked him how much, he came out with a price that was as much as the original overnight was.  I shoulda just stayed until morning then.

How can this be? He's established and upscale! 🤣

And I will add Señor Lopez to this thread:
https://rentmen.eu/Aitorlopez

Mutual touch and happy ending 

My experience with this hobby is that lateness is almost expected on both sides. As a client, I definitely have had to wait many minutes, even hours for a late provider. And regretfully there have been times, I've been slightly late as well. Once in NYC, I got on the wrong train and ended up being nearly an hour late even though I left an hour early.
The main thing is communication on both sides. Yes, you're in the wrong here because you wasted his time and cost him money by cancelling for only being 15 minutes late. From what I know about escorts, it can be very hit and miss. Your three-hour session could have been his main source of income for the whole week. So he is right to be pissed at your cancellation. 

The client is the one with the money that the provider needs. 
We, the client, are allegedly more responsible (time wise) than a provider.
Having a provider block off three hours of time in anticipation of making money from a client only to have the client cancel with fifteen minutes of the appointment is irresponsible to say the least. 
The fact that the client does not seem to understand that this behavior is wrong is quite puzzling.  
 

Are you asking if you should give him a second chance?  Or if we think he will give you a second chance?
Early is on time, on time is late, late is unforgivable.

What you describe is called transference and countertransference -- crossing boundaries and allowing or encouraging personal life to encroach on business life. As a licensed massage therapist, transference is an ever-present danger. I've felt an instant emotional connection with many clients, male and female. A male client -- a first timer -- had a whopping BIG hard-on during his massage. It took every ounce of reserve I had not to pull back the sheet and have a taste. Oddly enough, once this client became more comfortable with me, he confided other male massage therapists had performed oral sex on him! BUT, as a professional, I know I cannot meet them for coffee, or "hang out," or have any contact other than our business relationship. Sometimes, it's hard to stay to my side of the imaginary line, but I know doing so overall makes for no hurt feelings, no hidden agendas, no mixed messages, and -- most importantly -- no lost clients.

I have become quite “fond” of a handful of regulars and love their company, but I rarely seek to spend time with them off the clock. As has been stated ad infinitum on this board, this is a business and boyfriend relationships don’t often turn out well. That said, I met a new provider Monday night who’s one of the best initial meets I’ve ever had. He’d like to join me for an occasional hike off the clock. I’m open to that, but I’m under no illusions about it leading to a “boyfriend” relationship. I love my alone time and I’m not interested in a long-term relationship, thus my fondness for this hobby.

I've only ever had extended appointments with one escort.  We also developed a friendship.  The boundaries were always clear:
I typically hired him for overnight appointments, and a couple of times for a few days.  During those occasions, most of the time we spent was obviously just "hanging out" time but I was paying him our agreed-upon rate for the appointment (not just an hourly rate with a bunch of no-cost time on either end of the session).
When we hung out "off the clock," it was not connected with an appointment.  We might go to dinner or a movie together, and then part ways.
In other words, we didn't mix the business appointments with the purely friendly get togethers.  I paid him for the former, not the latter.  And it was clear that we weren't dating; we were just friends hanging out.

I always feel anytime someone talks about not wanting to date, is not something worth expecting “down the line”. I dealt with that from an old friend of mine. I was into him, he was into me but initially it was “if I stopped” he would consider it. But that never happened because he was too busy “getting around” himself. However, eventually we finally got around to him letting me fuck him, so that was a surprising turning point. Things might have progressed into a relationship, but by then I had already moved cities and we weren’t about to be living with each other.
I’d say continue the service if you can accept the situation for what it is: an arrangement. But don’t put all your eggs there holding out for something to change. 

PM me if you want my own recent experience with him.