nycman

It doesn’t bother me that it looks (vaguely) like a giant concrete butthole. What bothers me is it’s just bad art. Period.

Ok, you’re evil and you’re sitting next to me at the next Palm Springs dinner….lol

Wow. You’re THAT bad in bed? grin

grin On a serious note, I am a hardcore window shopper. It’s one of the reasons I loved NYC escort bars back in the day. I like to see the escort in motion and get a clear idea wether we’re a match or not before I hire. I’m sure there are ads I’ve looked at 100’s of times (over the years, not in one week) and never hired the guy. Doesn’t mean I will or won’t hire him in the future. Just that he’s never been the perfect scratch for whatever particular itch I had that night. Hell, there are ads I’ve looked at over and over again just because I thought it was a brilliant and/or funny ad (e.g. @Russ). Although I eventually did hire Russ and certainly would again. He’s even better than the ad. It doesn’t bother me at all when an escort reaches out. I look at it the same way as a go-go boy coming over and rubbing my thigh. It’s just good business. The dude is trying to make a living. Be polite, and support him if you can.

I agree with the other suggestions to make your client feel "valued". And that can easily be done without discounting yourself.

The meals certainly look healthier than Factor, but the lowest tiers seems to be 7 entrees / week (or 5 per week with 5 breakfasts). That’s WAY too much food for me. Too bad, because it does look lighter and more inline with my personal tastes / goals.

You can always crash at my place @ Hacienda for the night bro…. Well, unless Vin finds this way into my bed….then you’re on your own. grin

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And in reality, you’re just there for the snacks. You sick twisted fuck! grin

I’ve never really liked blonds, but even I had a major soft spot for Caesar. Something about him just made him seem like the perfect bro to hang out with on a Saturday afternoon, then fuck the night way. Then do it all over again the following week.

The matadors of Samoa are afraid of the Mafia controlled gigantic Samoan tarantulas because they are bad bad bad. Close?

I am partial to Japanese cast iron cookware… https://www.akazuki.com/collections/japanese-cast-iron-products Although lugging it home would be a nightmare. A more practical item might be hand painted Japanese calligraphy scrolls…. https://gogonihon.com/en/blog/shodo-japanese-calligraphy/ Or some Japanese tea towels…… https://www.etsy.com/market/japanese_tea_towel

Wait…he "loved" getting decapitated by airplane wings? That’s a new one. grin

I like Factor 75. The meals are tasty, although a little heavy on cream sauces / cheese for my taste. They’re much better when you heat them in an oven at 375 for 9 min. instead of microwaving them. They tend to be around 500 calories each which isn’t horrible. They are fresh, never frozen. You can order as few as 4 per week and you can put the order on hold whenever you wish. I’d give them a solid 4.5/5 stars. I don’t know of any fully prepared meal plans that are better and I’ve tried several. I wouldn’t call it healthy or diet food, but it’s better than most.

There’s a big straight muscle sub who loves coming over and getting pounded out by me on a pretty regular basis. It took me a while to feel comfortable dominating him, because he could honestly break me in half. Anyways it’s been super fun for both of us. The other day while we were rolling around in bed, he ended up on top of me with me in a very sub position. Now, I normally have a very hard time assuming a sub role. It’s just not me, and I have a tremendous respect for men who can. But in that moment, it felt natural and organic. I felt myself freeze up for less than a second, then relax into him. It was a very powerful and emotional moment and he handled it beautifully and respectfully. What I’m trying to say is….sometimes, with the right person, it’s fun to explore outside your comfort zone!

Holy crap. You speak Samoan?

In your heart, you know the correct answer. Listen to your heart.

In this business it’s obviously tricky. Few in my "real life" know that I hire. And as far as I know, none of the people who know hire themselves. That’s one thing that makes this board so valuable. You quickly learn who to trust and who has similar tastes to your own. Although it’s not really a "referral" in the classic sense, a positive word form a trusted source here is as good as gold. After any great hire, I always try to double back and add my 2 cents to any thread I can find here on that provider. I also do the same with any crappy hires. Lukewarm hires I tend to just write it off to chemistry and move on. It’s my small contribution to the cumulative community wisdom contained in these pages. In fact, I’ve even saved myself from a bad repeat hire when I’ve forgotten I even hired someone, only to find my own negative review here…lol

Every time I’ve given someone (boyfriend, employee, escort, etc.) a "second chance", I’ve regretted it. I’ve learned to just move on. Too many fish in the sea…..

Freakishly beautiful body + frantic travel schedule to place that people with freakishly beautiful bodies never visit = TGTBT every time.