nycman

Hey, you gotta pay extra....for the “two-tone” model.

I’d be willing to take a chance. Those tats would be easy to pick out, and even easier to call the dude out if it’s not him. So true. This needs to go in the “Client Manual”. I suggest Rule #18.

Your “negative” is my “realistic”. I was trying to use humor to help you understand that your making a bad decision and more likely than not you’ll end up with a wasted night in Vegas. Obviously, you’re an adult and you’re free to make as many bad decisions as you want.....have fun.

Sometimes you feel “nothing”. Sometimes the emotions come later. Sometimes they don’t. Breath, and be...that’s all you can do.

Seriously....how much more information do you need? Please make sure you post when you’re all alone at the bar in Vegas after he’s stood you up and you’re crying into your drink saying, “I should have known better”. Yes, you should have....and that makes your salty tear taste all the sweeter!

As a caveat.....I’ve never met the man. But it reminds me of a time a somewhat famous young man on whom I had a mini-crush decided to transition. As usual, he was not what one would call a classic female beauty. I lamented to a good friend...”but he was such a beautiful BOY!” To which my friend calmly replied...”he was never a boy”. It was an eye opening moment for me.

Thanks for the update. I hate when people ask for advice...and then we never hear anything. Kinda like someone ripped the final chapter out of a book we were reading. Glad you found someone who was right for you. When the chemistry is right, it’s priceless.

I keep rereading that NYTimes review of the new cast.... It goes in circles and I still can’t figure out if they liked it or not. Isn’t that the definition of a poorly written review?

He hasn’t had the easiest life. I wish him well.

No, because your only 2 posts ever...are in this thread. Welcome to the forum....Brian.

As someone who had a thing for the “Gotti” boys from the early years of reality TV.....that sure was a disappointment. Talk about a body covered in bad decisions and regret..... and that’s coming from someone who LIKES tattoos!

Don’t bother. Unfortunately, he’s a mess. Feel free to PM

Damn...I want that gig! I’ll fuck ya for a nice bottle of wine....no problem! Grin

I’ve had a few give notice and say “goodbye”. It’s always been appreciated. Even a “whammer” like me gets attached sometimes and it’s nice to have closure. Most have just drifted off, which is certainly understood and ok as well. Never had someone be a “jerk” about it. If they were I certainly wouldn’t entertain seeing them again under any circumstances. As you experienced, the “magic” is ruined and it will never be the same. To date, any of my “regulars” who have “moved on” would be welcomed back with open arms. It’s just never happened so far.

Wait....I’m supposed to provide drinks and snacks? That wasn’t in the manual..... Just when were you fuckers planning on telling me??. Jesus! I’ve been doing it wrong for years! Grin

I would imagine it’s a lot like most bachelor parties I’ve attended. The “crowd” is everything. 1-2 “stick in the muds” and it’s a disaster. 2-3 “partiers” with a willing posse and it’s the time of your life. In my experience, the younger guys always look to the older guys in the group to set the tone. As I’ve grown older I’ve tried to be cognoscent of my responsibility to have some fun and let the younger guys know it’s ok to cut loose a little. I mean, come on! You're on a boat, with booze and strippers!.... you came here to have F-U-N!

To each his own. Looks dippy to me and has kept me from hiring him for some time. My loss.

What did we learn? If you’re going to be more than 5 minutes late....let the other person know. In today’s world....it’s so easy. Back before cell phones....I remember waiting over an hour at the base of the Empire State Building for a date from Long Island to pick me up. Don’t ask me why....but I just KNEW he would show. Happy ending...he did. An accident in the midtown tunnel had him stuck. He was frantic and couldn’t believe I waited. Kids today have it soooo easy!

By “in”...he means “only”. It’s fun, and packed Fri/Sat nights, but it’s a typical medium size town gay bar. Everyone knows everyone. A few nice strippers, but nothing spectacular when I’ve been there. Amen. I usually go with straight friends and hang out with them. It’s a fun, but not particularly “gay”, town. If you must hire I’d suggest doing tons of research first and only hiring well known and well reviewed men. The fake/flake/hustler to real/fun/hot ratio is incredibly high and you will get burned....a lot. If you’ve got the time and money, your best bet is to import men from the West coast. Most of them love coming to Vegas and it’s a short fligh.

He should export the perp to China for “justice”....grin

I enjoy fucking lawyers..... Whenever and however I get the chance.

LMAO...so true! I don't get this guys "appeal"...but to each his own. Not really, it's the standard "he had a dirty hole" defense. It's as old as the hills...and as meaningless. For the record...in my younger years I would work up quiet a sweat when fucking. Especially when it got intense and went on for hours. You can imagine what it was like when I was with a legendary dynamo like Mike Grey. He was a total pro. Even though I'd always arrive freshly showered it was only a matter of time before it got too intense. He'd slap me on the ass and playfully say "hit the showers champ". I'd gleefully head to the bathroom, often with him in hot pursuit to join me. We'd wash up , rise and repeat. Over and over again. He never once made me feel self conscious or awkward about it. Like I said...he was a pro. God I miss him! Thankfully, I've outgrown my propensity to sweat (although to be honest many men are disappointed that I have), but I've never forgotten how well Mr. Grey handled it. I do my best to do the same whenever I'm confronted with a minor issue like smells. Playfully head to the showers where everyone can have fun! Escorts would also do well to learn from the masters.

What makes you think they don’t? Just askin’

My favorite: Q: “You’ve been impersonated by a lot of drag over the years. Who was your favorite?” A: “Chris Jenner” Lmao!

Thanks for the warning.....won’t waste my time. Too bad....I like his pics!