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I would also choose door #1...... And send a polite “I’m sorry things didn’t work out, maybe next time” text to the new guy.

I am sad to hear of his passing. I was a big fan of his work in my early 20’s. I never knew he had medical problems. He was not a stereotypical “funny gay man”. He was a man, who was funny, who was gay. It almost hard to believe now...but in the late 80’s and early 90’s.....that was revolutionary.

He does nothing for me....but I don’t get it. The referenced article just says: “...Lars is a boy from a very small city in southern Hungary and comes with all the baggage and prejudices of any small town boy. He is slightly metrosexual, slightly homophobic, and rightly suspects, to his alarm, that he may enjoy having sex with boys." That’s not exactly in depth reporting....it reads more like poorly written ad copy from the back of a porno tape. If that where were getting our “news” from these day...we’re in trouble!

I’m in love with Brother Strang: http://mormonboyz.com/men/brother-strang/?nats=MC4wLjEuMS4wLjAuMC4wLjA

Yeah...I’d suggest a “full steam ahead” approach in setting this up. This train has already derailed several times....and it might again..... I’ve intentionally stayed quiet about my preferences and desires..... hoping not to make any waves that might sink this endevour. The event itself....if it ever happens....is more important than the venue and the particular attendees. No need to overthink or overplan it. At this point I’d almost rather be sitting in a bar alone thinking “I wonder why nobody showed up? ...instead of sitting at home thinking....“I can’t believe we fucked it up....again!”

Some men go bald at a very young age....so I’d say yes it’s possible. Add in a enough steroids and I’d say it’s not even “surprising”. His level of body development at age 20 is what suprised me.... but again....given enough steroids...it’s possible.

If these men can’t rock animal prints....then no one can. Which is to say....no one can. Grin

Despite all of his glowing reviews....seriously....I’ve never heard anyone here say an unkind word about Ares... I’ve never hired him because of his lack of pictures. It must work for him, but I can’t imagine he wouldn’t be better served by some addional photos.

No, I don’t write full reviews. They always feel like homework to me. Plus, I’ve never been a big fan of sharing the sortid details of a hire. (Although I admit reading some of the over the top sexual novellas others have written is a guilty pleasure). That and just because someone lit my fire, or doused my flame, doesn’t mean someone else will have the same experience. So I just stick with the back room club house “reviews”.... “He looked like his pics and we had fun”.

Don’t let the strange Vegas escort scene deter you from visiting Vegas. There are winners and losers in every city. Vegas just has a higher percentage of losers than most, which just means you have to do more diligent homework. Vegas can still be fun....even without reliable escorts.

I only like purple cows....

I would suggest that the Encore spa is slightly better than the Wynn...especially the public areas. I’ve had many massages there and I have become friendly with several of the male therapists. All straight. All very cool and relaxed massaging a gay male. None sexual at all. I agree, if you want a sexual or even sensual massage I’d suggest you order in. Unfortunately as I’ve said many times before, the local Escort and Massage talent pool is more of a swamp than a pool. Do your homework and don’t hire anyone who doesn’t have good reviews here. Vegas is no place for a beginner to strike out on their own and no place to “take one for the team”.

Reminds me of a recent hire in Vegas. When he quoted his price he added “and tips are nice”.... I replied “tips are earned”. For the record...he “earned” his tip.

I wanna fuck him....that’s the “problem”! Grin Seriously though, I agree. It’s his body and his business. When he changes his mind, however, I’m first in line!

I’m one who has been vocal about not saying too much in the forums. And I even extend that into PMs. Unless you’ve met the person you’re exchanging PMs with...I don’t see much difference. Do people really think Vice can’t figure out how to PM people on here?. Anyways, I try to stick to “he looks like his pics”, “he’s fun”, “the massage was excellent” etc. I only go into details on the negative side “it was strictly legitimate”, “don’t expect a HE”, “he didn’t get naked or allow touching” etc. So much of it is chemistry based in the first place, that I don’t see the value of into going into greater detail that may put the masseur at risk or make him an easy target. If forum members I trust say positive things about a masseur that I'm interested in hiring, then I hire him and see how it goes. If it’s great...then I repeat. Simple enough and so far it’s served me well.

True, but you can tell us who he is here. I always try to search the forums before I hire.

Men are pigs...unfortunately....even the nice ones. Sometimes you have to “help” them understand what you mean by “please stop...you’re hurting me”. If someone has failed to respond to clear verbal cues, I suggest taking them firmly by the wrist and saying “if you do that again I will break your fucking wrist”. Yes, it will “ruin” the mood and yes you will most likely never have sex with that man again...but ask youself....at that point... is that really a bad thing? Idiotic aggression only responds to aggression. It’s sad but it’s human nature. He’s counting on you not having the balls to resist....in that senario....feel free to cut off his balls. “Take it like a man”...only works when consent has been given to indeed “take it” like a man.

I'm pretty sure I can qualify in 4 out of 5 categories....just based on my past performances.....grin

Can you imagine Berdorff’s pulling the shades down on their windows because someone “looked”at them too many times? While I agree that anyone has the “right” to run their private business anyway they please....that doesn’t mean it’s a “smart” way to do it.

Oh HELL no! I love water, pools, and crazy architecture ...hate heights.

Great fun! I got them all except “Girls, Girls, Girls” by Mötley Crüe...I guessed it was Van Halen. None of them knew the Go-gos or the B-52s...I think I died a little inside. On a high note most of them knew the song by Simple Minds was from the movie The Breakfast Club... There’s still hope for the next generation!

So there ARE “Whores” among the “Johns”...... Grin

He drives me wild..... Early in my hiring days I saw him from a distance at a resort for several days with Zeb and an older gentleman....He was so loving, caring, and friendly...even as a top he’s been on my short list for years. So far it just never worked out with my schedule. I’m beginning to worry that he’s going to be on my “the ones that got away” list soon... maybe it’s time for a focused effort to meet up with him.

Two words....burner phone.

I’d respond...”that’s ok...I don’t usually pay on the first visit either” Seriously?...hard pass.