nycman

I don’t completely agree. Questioning is a part of life. Just because you are unsure, doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong path. I agree it’s a warning sign though....and it’s a part of the equation that needs to be considered.

I agree with both camps here. What tilts me one way or the other depends on how you feel about the relationship. If you find yourself constantly longing for it to go to a deeper level and you are incessantly looking for minuet clues that he “might” feel the same way about you, then it might be time to move on. Like mental illness and any addiction, it’s when it keeps you from enjoying a balanced and happy life....that you have a problem. Of course, identifying that you’re on that road and headed for disaster is the part of the art of a well lived life. It sounds like you enjoy his company and the time you spend together. There are many men on my “payroll” in various “positions”, some very sexual, some not at all. I enjoy their company and I feel these men make my life richer and they help keep me balanced. You just have to do the math. On the whole....is your life better with him in it? And does he help keep you balanced....or is he knocking you off balance? In the end, I don’t think you have to end it......unless it’s unhealthy for you.

Be careful is my only advice. I was on a flight to Europe and having trouble connecting to the plane’s WiFi...while fidgeting with my phone and trying to get the WiFi to work I must have turned off my “airplane mode” for about 5 seconds. My phone downloaded over $500 worth of “satellite roaming data” in those 5 seconds before AT&T shut down my service. 3 phone calls later....AT&T has agreed to remove the charge twice...but failed to do so...now they are refusing to remove the charge at all. My advice? Turn all your devices onto airplane mode as soon as you board the plane and don’t touch them again until you reach the gait.

It’s one of my few real fetishes. In fact, I had a wing man who used to approach men in the bar who were cruising me with their baseball hats on facing frontwards. He’d whisper in their ear, “flip your hat backwards and he’s all yours”. The ones who listened....were handsomely rewarded. He didn’t tell me until years later....”seriously dude.....you were like a one of Pavlov’s dogs”....lol! And if it was a Yankees hat?....home run!....no clue why...but true.

Pepperoni and mushrooms... Page 6 here we come!

Max, I think you shot yourself in the foot on this one. Live and learn.

Nice guy. Looks like his pics. I found him a little detached as well. Saw him 2 or 3 times hoping he'd warm up. He didn't. I didn't repeat after that.

Just bumping to see if anyone's got intel.

100% Duffle Bags. Like "comfortable shoes"....wheels are for losers.

Yes and maybe. I didn't think it was all that great. I could care less about the man's politics....I want a comfortable pillow and a nice bathroom

Best ever.....Amankila Bali. Runners up...... Either of the two Four Seasons in Istanbul The one on the Bosporus is better for the view....the one in Sultanahmet is more convenient for tourism. The Baccarat in NYC. Flawless and style for days. The Mandarin in NYC. Go for the Hudson River view rooms. They’re cheaper, have a better layout and a better view. The “Central Park” view rooms look at the butt of the Trump Hotel....which is about as nice as it sounds. Las Ventanas in Cabo. Splendid isolation when I needed it most. The Adlon in Berlin. A modern recreation of an old school gem. The Peninsula in Hong Kong. Peaceful perfection in a chaotic city that I never liked. The Four Seasons at the Surf Club, Miami. The old parts of the building remind you that Miami was once “cool” and the new parts by Richard Meier are stunning. The Four Seasons Florence. An amazingly beautiful and peaceful hotel in my favorite city in the world. Overrated “5 stars”.... Any Ritz Carlton.....ever The Muerice Paris The Four Seasons Prague, Palm Beach, Denver, and Jackson Hole. La Mamounia Marrakech

Great nickname....and unfortunately accurate as well.

I live in NYC. It’s required.

Math dorks are so cute!

Gay men are strange creatures my friend. The less you try and understand them, the happier you will be.

The whole time was was thinking....”run, Kurtis, RUN!” I can’t be the only one....

Bad assumption. You were blocked. Welcome to Grindr.

Completely adorable!

I think the restrictions have to do with offering your app in the Apple App Store, which is of course is a modern requirement for any chance of success in the app world. I’ve had several friends who are amature app developers and the insane nature of the Apple requirements is freakish. It’s big brother/thought police behavior in the extreme.

I’m in love with your ghost.....

Yeah....maybe that wasn’t the best “anal-ogy”.

You are the customer. If it’s important information that you feel you need to make an informed purchase..... ...then it’s a “fair”question. Period. He is free to answer it, or not answer it. It’s a business decision. Plain and simple.

I saw it last Wednesday in a 5 hour marathon. I got cheap orchestra tickets. If I had paid full price, or even a fraction of what they were asking on most resale sites....I would have been pissed. It’s very good to ok....not great. The first 1/2 was interesting and mesmerizing in ways that plays rarely are. Of course this show is more Disney-like spectacle than true theater....but I knew that going in. The movement, choreography, and staging....are pure magic. I never knew a set made up of mostly just stairs and suitcases could be so incredible. The much talked about tricks and stunts....were mostly “meh” in my book. I kept seeing the unfortunate ghost of Julie Taymor, as dementors were flying around the old cursed Spider-Man theater. It’s not a good memory. The story line was interesting, but you really need to read the books first. Even though I have read all the books (and think that most of them are quite excellent), I still didn’t understand why the audience was gasping 1/2 the time at the mention of some minor character from HP lore. If the HP world is completely new to you....you will not understand large parts of the storyline. Unfortunately, the 2nd play fell flat for me about 1 hour in. The stunts got repetitive as did the plot. “Does daddy love me?”....gets old after the 4th or 5th reincarnation in the play. The answers are “yes, yes, yes, and no one cares your father is evil incarnate.” The acting is mostly very good. The actors playing the roles of Hermione Granger and Scorpious Malfoy are spectacular. Harry Potter and his son... are strangely the weakest and most boring members of the cast by far. And since it’s a “Harry Potter play”....that’s obviously a big problem. They could have cut tremendous amounts of time out of this play without any great loss. On the way out they adminish you to “keep the secret”. The “secret” is it’s a good play with some moderately interesting tricks. If you like HP and you can get cheap seats (good luck) it’s worth it.

Let me save you 26:57 minutes....don’t watch.

I don't initially give details or pics. If asked I’d give basic stats no problem, but I’d start to worry about the providers ability to handle men he may not be sexually attracted to. Face it, even if I’m a God...I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea. In this business, you need to be able to handle that reality and adapt. Pic?...never. Goodbye.