nycman

Can you? Yes. Is it a good idea? No.

While I read it that way as well, I always believe that it’s best to be explicitly clear when talking about money. If I really like an escort, I tend invite them out after we’re finished. “I’m headed to dinner. I’d love to buy you dinner off the clock if you're interested.” It’s certainly less romantic sounding....but then I’ve got no problem telling them to “hit the road Jack”, if after dinner they start in with “but I thought we we’re still on the clock you owe me $600 more” For the record that’s never happened to me so far, but I do believe that’s due in part to clear communication up front.

Pure evil.

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When the door opens...or when my dress hits the floor... Whichever is first! Tricker is when does the appointment end? Rarely had it be an issue with professional men with whom I am having an enjoyable time. On the flip side....I have ended sessions early. If it’s 10-15 minutes and just because the chemistry is off. No big deal. Is it’s 45 minutes to an hour or more because the escort misrepresented himself. The fee gets cut. Up to 100% depending on just how deceitful the escort was. Never had it be an issue. Liars know they are lying.

Thank god I’m not the only smart ass in here!

How did this devolve into a discussion about the career choices of “filthy dirty whores”? And by “dirty filthy whores”....I mean lawyers. Grin

Ahhhh....now I feel bad I didn’t ask Victor “why” when we met.... Then again....once I saw that smile and that ass... I didn’t give a fuck WHY he was doing it... I was just incredibly thankful that he WAS doing it.

I had the exact opposite experience last week.... 4 people at dinner. Simple orders, but you could just tell by the blank stare in the waiters eyes nothing was registering. I even suggested that he write down the orders. “I don’t need to”..... Yep, you guessed it....every single item was fucked up....soup to nuts. I politely suggested to the manager that he encourage that young man to pursue an alternate careeer path.....

Water off a ducks back! Don’t ever let words, especially anonymous ones on the internet, bother you.

I agree. Let’s wait for the toxicology report. Regardless of what people saw, or didn’t see, or thought they saw.... The mass spectrometer doesn’t lie!

Yes, asphyxia will be the immediate cause of death... wether he OD’d on drugs...or just ate too big of a meal in high seas (you don’t really believes this do you?), or both. I’m willing to wait for the toxicology report on this one. I’m not convinced 2 Ambiens are enough to knock you out so hard that you choke on your own vomit and die. Maybe if mixed with lots of alcohol...then maybe. But I suspect there’s more to this story. Unfortunately there’s a man’s life lost too soon...regardless of who wins the “argument”

You realize those two statements contradict each other....right? I know your point was that according to the BF’s story...party drugs didn’t kill him. But even if you believe that....he still died of a “drug overdose”.

Ecclesiastical Ecchymotic Echocardiographic Ectocervical Characteristic Cachectic Chicacabra Oculocephalic Cacciatore

Correction..... We'd rather pay for "great" food...than "ok" sex.

If it's Quenelles you seek....look no further than the last French Grand Dame in NYC.....La Grenouille BBaller, I've love to treat you to lunch any day....and we can discuss my pending adoption over dessert souffles (in the front room only, of course)....grin Oh lord!....I though Le Veau D'or was closed YEARS ago. I have so many fond memories of cutting my French Cuisine baby teeth there. So fucking old school....even decades ago....when I was taken there repeatedly in my misspent youth by certain older "gentlemen" from the Upper East Side. PS Le Veau D'or doesn't have a website that I can find....that makes me SOOOOO happy!

Better than I thought she'd be.... Yes, he voice is a little shrill....but she manages to pull it out over and over. What bothered me more is that her timing and phrasing is just odd. Then again...I never really thought she was great.

I call fuschia...any you bitches wear a fuschia gown...I'll cut ya!

When I show up....it’s an event!

Jesus child! Just tell me where you’re staying and I’ll come personally escort you to the event. Or you could hire an escort to escort you.....I kinda like that idea myself!

Sounds like we hang out with the same crowd....god damned thieving whores! But they sure are fun! And a girl can always buy more Louboutins....priceless memories?....those aren’t so easy to replace.

I love that the vibratory keeps right on humming....even after it hits the floor. I’ve had two escorts cum hands free while I was fucking them in the last few months. Judging by the looks on their faces I think they both were a little suprised when it happened....which of course just turned me on even more.

I know a few straight men...who are totally cool with having a gay man play with their ass....but “touch” their cock....and they go ballistic. It makes no sense to me....but everyone is different. Who am I to judge?

I agree with most of the sentiment here. Not to mention, if it gets on the top’s cock...it’s gonna numb it up too. Trust me it happens. Even when playing safer with condoms...it happens sometimes. And the top ends up with useless desensitized penis. I played around with a guy who used it all the time. Honestly I hated it. Somehow I always felt like I was doing something to him that he either hated (doubtful) or just wasn’t ready for (more likely). And about 1/2 the time my cock got numb as well....not to mention my lips / mouth if I forgot and rimmed him. Sometimes submissive bottoms can get so caught up in “pleasing” their top that they forget to take the time to relax, open, and breath. Hell, I’ve got no problem working a guy’s ass over for over an hour to help him loosen up. It’s part of the fun. With a good patient top....and a patient bottom...I don’t see the need for anal numbing products. YMMV.

Oh hell, I’ve done that....and much worse. When you start flying transatlantic for a quickie....you have a problem. Until then....do what makes you happy!