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    hrlmguy reacted to + EVdude in Masseur in his late-40s or 50s in NYC?   
    I love getting my “flute” massaged!
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    hrlmguy reacted to + LAdude424 in Maybe I am paranoid, but...   
    I agree .. but sometimes i want at the very least a somewhat trusted/unbiased source saying
    1. Masseur is as advertised
    2. Masseur delivered fundamentally decent service/accommodations/location
    2. Masseur was at least open to some extras
     
    With that info I'll take the plunge, recognizing my experience will likely not match.
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    hrlmguy reacted to MisterMike in Maybe I am paranoid, but...   
    I get people inboxing for info, but honestly I feel like I'm doing a disservice to both that person and the masseur because each encounter is so highly personal. What happened with me may not happen with you. I love the phrase YMMV, but really it's YMWV your mileage WILL vary, unless he's a massage-bot.
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    hrlmguy reacted to Redwine56 in Maybe I am paranoid, but...   
    Yes, I agree with you but also have reason to believe that it is masseurs who are fishing for info as the competition between them for business is getting heated.
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    hrlmguy reacted to TruthBTold in Italobrazilian   
    If you visit you can see that a mixture of the races has left a beautiful panoply of men. I have found (others may have other experiences) that Brazilians are very butt oriented - men and women. That is not to say they do not build their arms and chests (some of the most beautiful body builders are Brazilians) but they really appreciate a well rounded, ready to be eaten ass. It may be genes but it is a blessed combination. They also have some of the most beautiful men facially around. Probably that mix that I mentioned again.
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    hrlmguy reacted to Westsideguy in Body grooming and massage - NYC?   
    Baron. Your pic is one of my favorites.
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    hrlmguy reacted to Dmitri in Your first Erotic Massage   
    My first Erotic Massage was on a business trip. I hired a masseur for an outcall. When I answered the door, I felt like I had ordered a pizza. The guy had a classic pizza delivery guy vibe. About 22 years old......but could easily pass for 18 y/o. About 6 ft....with a swimmers build. He had no table, so he spread a sheet on the bed. He stripped first, and as he took off his pants out dropped an enormous cock, thick and with a huge head. I quickly stripped and got on the bed. He started on my upper back, and did an amazing job. Big, strong hands. He did a foot massage, and then he made his move. When he did the foot massage, in a smooth move, he took my one leg and put it at my side, and without asking dove into my ass with his tongue. He was very verbal, and kept murmuring how hot I was ( sure, I 'll take that LOL). I was a bit unsure whether to let him continue, but went with the flow. He must have rimmed me for over 15 minutes, and kept reaching and pinching my nipples at the same time as he was rimming me. I was rock hard and stroking myself, and reached over to him and he was rock hard. He kept being verbal, telling me to relax and enjoy his tongue. At my request, I then asked him if we could stand up for a minute. We both stood up, and he then dove into my chest, licking and sucking my nipples, again being verbal. I was ready to burst, so asked if we could get back on the bed. We then got into a 69 position, and went at each other's cocks. He was then ready to cum, and as I took my mouth off his cock, he shot and hit the headboard and it dripped down. (he later claimed he shoots even further) He then had me lay on my back, and finished me off with a blow job. After he finished me off, he said he could cum again, and asked if he could stand on the bed, while I laid back since he wanted to shoot all over me. So he then came again, all over my chest and abs. That's 22 years old for you! Great first erotic massage experience with an expert masseur....and an expert tongue!
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    hrlmguy reacted to + sync in Alternatives to Masseur Finder...?   
    http://www.sexymasseur.com/
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    hrlmguy reacted to + poolboy48220 in Just back from NYC and saw this guy.   
    Tell him IT. In my experience that shuts most people down. Unless they are having a problem with their PC.
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    hrlmguy reacted to Dmitri in Accidentally stumbling into a great find   
    I stumbled across someone about 2 years ago in an odd way., but not on CL. I hired a masseur who used to post on MF. He gave me a massage and mentioned he had a second guy for a 4 hands. He said the guy was not a professional masseur, but was really good, and very hot looking. So my next session I went for it. They showed up at my house, and the extra guy (name was Ethan) was about 24 y/o , Hispanic, and adorable. (he was a friend of the masseur) They did the massage and Ethan was REALLY good. He did excellent pressure point work, and gave a great massage. The happy ending was MORE than happy with all 3 of us going at it. Ethan and myself had great chemistry. So when the masseur from MF was in the restroom, Ethan punched his number in my phone.. Ethan now comes over twice a month (by himself) and I get a great massage and HOT play. He has a day job and has no interest in getting into the "business." He says he could never do this as his job, massaging client after client. We just had a connection and I stumbled into a GREAT find. My own personal masseur!
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    hrlmguy reacted to + 7829V in Soothe App   
    I would feel uncomfortable with the van showing his business name. Hope is not the norm.
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    hrlmguy reacted to PaulM in want more from long time massage therapist   
    My suggestion is that when you text him for the next massage ask if he would mind making it a bit more sensual....sometimes doing it via text is easier to respond to and make a confrontation less awkward. If he agrees, then you're golden and if not, then you save yourself the embarrassment of rejection in person. If you want to continue with he status quo, then you both know the rules.....sometimes it opens the door....you do need to address it head on so to speak or this will go on forever...
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    hrlmguy reacted to MartyB in Russian Turkish baths in NYC   
    What's the name of this place and location? Thanks
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    hrlmguy reacted to jjkrkwood in Cockrings?   
    As a cocksucking fan, I enjoy them visually and technically. and even soft, they lift and separate and give the "illusion" of a bigger basket... Who doesnt love a bigger basket ?
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    hrlmguy reacted to + Avalon in Nashville Parthenon   
    Someone in the Spa forum asked about Nashville. This would be off-topic there. Imo a must-see is the Nashville Parthenon.
     
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parthenon_(Nashville)
     
    Also the Hermitage
     
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Hermitage_(Nashville,_Tennessee)
     
    I saw both the same day.
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    hrlmguy reacted to matt842 in Does it matter if the masseur is nakd throughout the session if we're facing down most of the time?   
    If a nude masseur is important to you, you might consider trying one thing that I used to do. In a pre-massage email after the initial contact, I would say something like "I understand if you are more comfortable discussing this after we meet, but I prefer mutual nudity during massages," and then explain that it was because I liked body-to-body contact and not because I was looking for a sexual experience. You can generally figure out from his response what his attitude about nudity might be. If he says "We can discuss it after we meet" or "It depends on the client," he's probably comfortable with the idea. That doesn't necessarily mean that he will be nude throughout, but he will probably get naked at some point if he feels comfortable with you. Some replied by saying that they don't work nude, and others ignored the question. Even a few of those ended up getting nude at some point during the massage, and I found that those experiences were among the most exciting ones I had. I stopped asking that question a couple of years ago because I found the surprise more exciting than going into the massage expecting it.
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    hrlmguy reacted to Dmitri in Favorite Massage   
    @dreamboy13 , loved your post! It sounds like a HOT experience. The thing I enjoyed the most was your writing style. The way you wrote it really sets the mood and makes the reader feel like we are there! You should check out www.literotica.com. It reminds me of things I read on there. Maybe write something for that site also. You have a great way of expressing yourself. Thanks for sharing your time in Thailand!
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    hrlmguy reacted to dreamboy13 in Favorite Massage   
    Thailand.
     
    I went for a month 2 years ago. I wanted to experience everything the country had to offer, but most importantly the infamous massages.
     
    It took some time for me to go into an actual M4M spa as it was in another country and I was alone. I wasn’t sure what to expect and it made me uncharacteristicly nervous. However, there was this one that kept catching my eye as I’d walk by daily, and it seemed to be the least seedy out of the ones I’d been perusing. It was conveniently located a block from the hotel where I was saying. They opened at 4PM. Night owls.
     
    On the night I decided to go, I stood outside for about 10 minutes trying to build up the courage to walk inside. Stepping over that threshold was an experience that I never could have dreamed of in my wildest dreams and I will never forget. I’m used to the mechanical, conveyor belt system of massage spas in NYC and didn’t really expect much more than that.
     
    I walked inside and I saw a sea of sexy young Thai boys sprawled across- what seemed like- a living room floor. They were all on their gadgets, some texting, others playing games, etc. The door closed behind me and a young woman (lady boy) came up to me and handed me a “menu” of services. I made my selection of time frame and room type and then she walked me to the center of the room.
     
    The guys all stood before me in a line and simultaneously took of their shirts. She asked me who I liked.
     
    At this point I was being extremely shy. I’m not a timid or shy person normally- but this act of selecting a guy for a massage as they stood before me so I could have my pick of the litter slightly intimidated me. And it was obvious that, as I checked them out, they too were sizing me up at the same time. I felt a flush of nervousness and slight embarrassment. It felt so wrong but it also felt so HOT!
     
    Some of the guys would shift the bodies in a sexy way to show of muscles, or they’d make flirty expressions in hopes that I’d select them.
    The woman who ran the spa saw that I was struggling. She held the menu to block her face from the boys and asked me what I was hoping for. I didn’t quite understand at first so she whispered “top? Or bottom?” I’m versatile and so I said it didn’t matter- which made her roll her eyes in a sweet way and jokingly say “you’re on your own”. I took another glance over the boys and I realized that my eyes kept going back to this one slender boy who was trim and wearing these yellow and black harem pants. He was about 22. I pointed at him. As soon as I did that, the other boys dropped back to the floor, their shirts back on and immediately back on their devices again.
     
    My Thai boy asked me to take a seat while he prepared the massage platter. He introduced himself as Aaht.
     
    As I sat there, I noticed that everything was so well done. It was dimly lit but not so much as to be too dark. There were subtle red lights around and a slight scent of incense. The music was slow, tribal and primitive - yet sexy and relaxing. I was in a daze and I felt like a royal prince waiting for his massage as I sat there in what felt like a throne.
     
    Aaht came over holding a platter that had a jar of oil, a candle, a water bowl with floating orchid, and a bottle of water for me. He told me to follow him.
     
    At this point I began to get excited. He was so sexy and as he stood there shirtless over me, I could feel my blood pumping fast which made me hot in my ears. I stood up and began to follow Aaht up the stairs. He was barefoot and I could hear his feet patter against the wood steps as he climbed. He was steady and fluid as he went up the staircase and I could barely keep up. But watching him from behind as his shirtless body worked his way up to the room, mixed with the music, and his harem pants, and the sound of his feet got me hard before anything happened. As he would turn to go up another spiral of the stairs, I could catch a glimpse of his cock silohouette bounce against the thin fabric of his harem pants. And the round curve of his ass was just as delicious.
     
    After what seemed like eternity, he opened the door to a room and showed me inside. It was here where he asked me to undress and place my clothing into a box shelf. I fumbled with my shoes and laces and shorts and T-shirt trying to contain my excitement but failing miserably. He smiled and it was incredible. I felt hot in my ears again.
     
    Once I was naked, he ushered me into the bathroom where he told me he would wash me. He set the water to a perfect temperature and started to soap me up. It was so sensual having him run his hands over me so rhythmically- I was hard instantaneously. I couldn’t wait for the massage. He dried me off, held my hand, and walked me back into the massage room.
     
    There he asked me to lay down on the table face down. It was then, for the first time, that I noticed the mirrors lining the entire bottom half of the wall. A perfect view for when laying on the table. I could see everything. He undressed and began with massaging my legs. This was a first for me. I’ve never had a massage start at my legsz Slow. Deep. Thorough. He was trained. And it felt amazing, especially after all of the walking around I’d done. Now initially, I had my head in the face cradle as he massaged me. However as he worked his way up my body (making sure I was moaning the entire time), I realized I needed to take advantage of the mirror and so I turned my head to watch his body as it meshed with mine. I could have cum so easily at any second as the intensity and pleasure was so amazing. And the massage itself was such great pressure and penetrating that I was in my own personal heaven.
     
    As he went up my back, I could feel his cock rubbing against my thighs and my ass and my back as he went back and forth on my body while straddling me.
     
    This went on for a while until he asked me to flip over. From there he continued to straddle the front of my body while massaging me. I watched in the mirror as he slid his body up and down my body while I leaked pre-cum from the tip of my dick- mixing with the oil from his jar. He slowly began to move from the straddle position. Before I realized it, my legs were over his and he sat underneath me.
     
    I was so excited I could have exploded.
    He then leaned in quietly and asked “can I fuck you?” I took a deep breath in and exhaled “yes, please fuck me” and he grabbed a condom and did just that. This was the most intense and blissfully insane experience for me. I was on another plane while our bodies mixed together And I watched every second of him fucking me through the mirror, with the red light, on this massage table, in Thailand. He was so into it and so very hard.
     
    At last we both came and he let me rest for a bit while he started the shower again. He called me over and washed me thouroughly from head to toe while telling me about himself and his life in Bangkok. It was ultimately very sweet.
     
    In the end I left a tip that was triple the amount of the massage (it’s so cheap in Thailand and so worth it).
     
    This was hands down the best experience I’ve ever had in my massage-getting life and I always always always play it back in my head.
    One day I’ll go back and try to re-live the experience as best as possible. And if not, then at least I had Aaht that once.
     
    Fin.
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    hrlmguy reacted to Curlyguynyc in new on UWS   
    Thanks for the report!
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    hrlmguy reacted to + FrankR in Favorite Massage   
    About two years ago I went to the doctor complaining about a sore shoulder. Doctor told me it was from sleeping on my side and my shoulder digging into the mattress. Gave my some mild muscle relaxers but suggested I try a more holistic approach - try a massage, she said. After a few days I scheduled my very first massage appointment with Ryan. Nice guy, certainly better looking than I could have hoped for, was a few years younger and more muscled, but I played it cool and we talked about my shoulder and he was very professional about it.
     
    As I had arrived freshly showered, he asked me to disrobe and get on the table. He got started and we talked while he worked. Just random banter, we didn't really have that much in common. I'm not really shy - but have found that most people have more of a sense of modesty than I have. So I was surprised when I realized, after a few minutes, that he was naked as well. I was also pleasantly surprised by how much time he spent working on other parts of my body, not just those affected by my shoulder issues. (By that I mean my butt cheeks, clear?) When he asked me to turn over, after a very nice technical massage, I was further surprised to see how excited he was. And as he worked his way up from my legs to my groin, well, let's just say the excitement was mutual. Then there was the eye contact and the playful smiles... It was a truly awesome happy ending and he was very open to me indulging my urge to touch him as he worked up to it.
     
    When my legs recovered from a case of the rubbers, I got in the shower to rinse off. Guess who joined me to wash my back!!! Yup - best massage ever!
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    hrlmguy reacted to samK in 411 New Orleans   
    This Thread has me in Stitches. haha One armed masseur and another with 10Fingers (opposed to??) Only in New Orleans - I Guess.
    At least I was happy to find out the chubby Jake is not Jake.... because he is looking like HELL. (but it is Not Jake, so all is good in Oz)
    Love You Guys for keeping it all straight or a little straighter then Chubby Jake.
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    hrlmguy reacted to + azdr0710 in DC Gathering, January 12-14, 2018   
    I presume that's Celsius??!!.....just wanted to clarify that for us non-conforming colonists......41C, eh?.....yup, summer in Australia!
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    hrlmguy reacted to + EVdude in New Antonio NYC   
    Draw your own conclusions. This from Antonio himself: “Very easy going guy here who love to meet new people, and open to make fried everywhere I go.”
     
    And these from 3 different reviews: “very responsive to my message and flexible to my calendar.“
     
    “Perfect for a medium pressure massage like I ask for.”
     
    “Antonio is an experience , i ask for his service , he was puntual.”
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    hrlmguy reacted to Smurof in Holiday Guide to massage code-busting   
    Therapeutic - You're covered by a sheet or sheets, except for areas worked on, prices are low, masseur is probably certified.
     
    Sensual - You're probably not covered, touching the masseur is probably permitted with your hands, possibly your mouth. Returning the favor is highly unlikely, although a happy ending is almost certainly probable for you. The masseur is probably not certified. The price is almost always higher than a therapeutic massage.
     
    Erotic - Almost always code for no real massage at all. You're paying an escort rate, but comfortable in your own mind referring to having sex as booking an erotic massage. The session might start out with a massage, but at a minimum mutual oral play is involved.
     
    Happy Holidays to all providers and relax seekers out there.
     
    Smurof
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