Maybe I am paranoid, but...

[AndyDandy]

Lately I have received PMs from “newbies” asking me to share my experience with masseurs I have commented about on this forum. I provide very general details, but the newbie keeps pressing for a play-by-play commentary - which I refuse to give.

 

Is anyone else experiencing this?

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Yes, all the time.

I recommend to either not answer or keep it general and G-rated.

 

Remember that hero spa was raided by NYPD only 2 months ago.

You never know who is lurking and reading this.

[+ FrankR]

Yes, all the time.

I recommend to either not answer or keep it general and G-rated.

 

Remember that hero spa was raided by NYPD only 2 months ago.

You never know who is lurking and reading this.

I couldn’t agree more, I also look at their profile to see what they have been posting before I respond. No active posting on the forum feels like a red flag to me...

[dcguy20]

Same here. I found it a bit disconcerting so I stopped answering.

[PaulM]

Same here.....just in the last few days....

[AndyDandy]

Yes, the last few days. Glad it’s not just me. I bothered by this...

[+ EVdude]

Interesting, now that you’ve asked, me too without realizing it. Will definitely be more cautious.

[Redwine56]

Yes, all the time.

I recommend to either not answer or keep it general and G-rated.

 

Remember that hero spa was raided by NYPD only 2 months ago.

You never know who is lurking and reading this.

Yes, I agree with you but also have reason to believe that it is masseurs who are fishing for info as the competition between them for business is getting heated.

[IntuitiveTactile]

Yes, I agree with you but also have reason to believe that it is masseurs who are fishing for info as the competition between them for business is getting heated.

BINGO

[Monarchy79]

None of you are paranoid, you're SMART.

 

I'd strongly suggest using your intuition and discretion with sharing information with those who PM you for extreme details.

[PaulM]

I also think that there were a lot of creepers that trolled craigslist and back pages collecting pics or salacious details of others experiences and I suspect some are finding their way here due to lack of other outlets.

[Guest InthePines]

Good post. Even before all the craziness that's going on began, I always had a weird feeling whenever a member with little to no posting history would ask for details about a provider. It's worth saying that while the numerous stings that are currently happen in the Atlanta area have focused on heterosexual prostitution, the investigations that have lead to the arrest began with online investigation, so if we found this website, so can anybody.

[ontheroad]

Interesting on the competition part. I got a very strange pm from someone recently who was very adamant about a certain masseur and details. And he was a newbie. Started off...you seem to know a lot about blah blah blah.

[MartyB]

Yes, all the time.

I recommend to either not answer or keep it general and G-rated.

 

Remember that hero spa was raided by NYPD only 2 months ago.

You never know who is lurking and reading this.

I go with my instincts on these. If I know a member or they have been part of the forum I don't mind giving some details. For those that are new here I only give details in general terms. Of course when a review of mine has been posted there is a definite spike in interest. I always advise those who PM me to reach out to the escort and inquire "gritty" details. Telling them they will be satisfied. I never give "negative" feedback on a PM. I never know when that individual might use that against me and tell the escort/masseur my comments.

[cal]

I have been a member for several months and have enjoyed reading comments and have shared info via PM. I am becoming more cautious about what I share even in a PM. I try to couch comments like perhaps not a good match for me.

[MassageDrew]

Lately I have received PMs from “newbies” asking me to share my experience with masseurs I have commented about on this forum. I provide very general details, but the newbie keeps pressing for a play-by-play commentary - which I refuse to give.

 

Is anyone else experiencing this?

 

Same here, all the time. What they need to understand is that each experience is different. What happened at my appointment may not necessarily translate to the same experience for their appointment.

[Guest Elendil524]

I’ll echo the remark that it’s not paranoia... it’s sound judgment to be cautious!

 

I think there is a bit of a struggle here too for newbies... I’ve been a member for a few months and am kind of what you could consider a “lurker.” I’ve made a few posts, but not many. That being the case... my badge is still “newb” and likely will be for quite a while. I totally get that people may be reluctant to share too much info with me, but that’s just life...

 

I appreciate the willingness of members to share their experiences, but never press them for details they don’t volunteer (and always preface my first message asking them to share however much they’re comfortable sharing).

 

So much of the specifics are really a YMMV that it almost isn’t worth going into too much detail. Providers are human, so just because they felt a connection with one guy and decided to go further does not mean another guy will get more than a therapeutic appointment. If I need more info than what’s posted in a public forum post I’m looking to know if the masseur was nude and if the client was satisfied with the masseur’s performance. The rest is going to come down to the chemistry between me and the provider, regardless of what the other client may have experienced.

[Kinected]

[uSER=17316]@Elendil524[/uSER] that's my experience. I was a lurker. Then signed up for an account. Lurked some more and only recently stared to reply more.

 

You are spot on about YMMV. I have had better experiences with some people than others and vice versa. Anything extra is extra and may not even occur with the same person successive times.

 

Pretty much at this point I just have no expectations when approaching new people and just ask questions up front and make sure that if it's something they would rather talk about in person than via text, that's fine. I want a good massage first and anything beyond that is icing.

[hottk29]

I feel left out. Lol. No one must want my opinion. But I have enough creeps in my life as it is, so counting my blessings haha

[Terpmaniac]

Lately I have received PMs from “newbies” asking me to share my experience with masseurs I have commented about on this forum. I provide very general details, but the newbie keeps pressing for a play-by-play commentary - which I refuse to give.

 

Is anyone else experiencing this?

Yes, this is what you do. Respond back privately and be as thorough as you can be, give them all the goodies. Now when you get more request for the same masseur. Go to your SENT box, copy and paste the earlier email and send to the new requestor. Easy-Peasey. Terp

[MrMattBig]

Lately I have received PMs from “newbies” asking me to share my experience with masseurs I have commented about on this forum. I provide very general details, but the newbie keeps pressing for a play-by-play commentary - which I refuse to give.

 

Is anyone else experiencing this?

 

Anytime someone pesters anyone in this industry for more explicit details after a initial response has been given, CAUTION/AVOID

Interesting enough, that seems to be the sentiment here, but I was damn near persecuted for taking the same precautions when I first joined this site.

[IntuitiveTactile]

Anytime someone pesters anyone in this industry for more explicit details after a initial response has been given, CAUTION/AVOID

Interesting enough, that seems to be the sentiment here, but I was damn near persecuted for taking the same precautions when I first joined this site.

Do as I Say. Not as I Do?

[MrMattBig]

Do as I Say. Not as I Do?

 

Not sure I quite understand your reply, but I am just commenting on the hypocrisy that can be interpreted when the shoe is on the other foot.

[MrMattBig]

Lately I have received PMs from “newbies” asking me to share my experience with masseurs I have commented about on this forum. I provide very general details, but the newbie keeps pressing for a play-by-play commentary - which I refuse to give.

 

Is anyone else experiencing this?

 

Case in point. I have a new prospective client contacting me right now on RM. His profile is all filled out detailing the type of experience he would like to have. He asks me to check out his profile so I can have an idea of what he is looking for.

I check it out and reply that what he described sounds hot and that we will have a great time together.

 

He then proceeds to verify that I will do specific acts after this response (nothing to explicit, can I be dominate, verbal, kink friendly etc).

 

In my experience this more times than not leads to more explicit play by play questions and usually is either a fantasy sexter looking to get off, or probing law enforcement.

 

Was my initial response not adequate from a client's prospective?

Should I be cautious and not proceed further?

Should I continue to answer all his questions and take an assumed risk of having my time wasted or encountering law enforcement?

 

A penny for your thoughts gentlemen?

[+ nycman]

As a rule, I don’t respond to newbie PMs.

 

For the record, they almost always want explicit details.

I assume it’s either Vice, the escort himself, or the competition.

I have no reason to give details to any of them.