Vegas_Millennial

I was always told the White Queen makes the first move. Or was that chess? Either way, it could apply in this situation also 😊

I will hire him! Woof!

The topic of suspected law enforcement showing up pretending to be a client or an escort has been discussed here dozens of times (that I can remember) in various threads. I don't remember who shared it, but the best advice I heard was: When you or he shows up for the appointment, immediately start with a long passionate kiss when the door is first opened. That SHOULD be enough to guarantee that the other person is not an undercover cop.

I hope it says I don't put much stock in numbers (except for notches on my bed post 😈)

I do the same. I'm 6'3" but say 6'1”, and my younger brother is 6'4" but says he's 6'5". When we are together and I tell people I am 6"1' and he tells them he is 6'5", they always look at him and know he is lying to inflate his ego.

Agree!

I once hooked up with a guy who afterwards asked me if I worked for the government. It turns out he was a firefighter and he recognized me from a committee meeting we were both in.

The only times I pay "before" are at a vending machine, ticket booth, or travel agent.

The non-binary transvestite cousin of They 😆

I've experienced that too, but only south of the USA and in Europe. The escorts I hired there told me they would bareback for extra money because they don't have access to the same level of STI prevention and treatment, and it would cost them money to treat an STI. In the USA, I've never been quoted a hire price to forgo a condom. To be fair, I've only hired a few dozen men outside of the USA so my sample size is small. But I've hired hundreds of men in the USA and have never been quoted different prices with condoms or without

That’s simply not true for everyone. Some of the most positive people in the world get shit on by other people constantly. Misused. Abused. They may have a positive attitude but they still have a terrible life. Thinking you can just mind-power your way to a life free or largely devoid of interpersonal problems, both close and professional, is pretty narrow and, again, privileged. This is the perfect example of victim language of which I was speaking.

Aww, thank you 🥰. Attitude is everything. The older and fatter and balder I get, the more I find I have to rely on my personality when trying to flirt with someone. 😆 I was taught as a young man that "Attitude is Everything" and "If someone thinks he is a victim, he will stay a victim." It takes a lot of mental work and meditation and spiritual guidance to stay positive, but what in life is worth something that doesn't take work?

This 👆 is what I have learned from this thread and will be certain to do before I hire anyone. I would have not known what it meant, however, without the detailed description provided to us by @pubic_assistance. For that, I am grateful. I think many men reading this thread dodged a bullet of hiring someone with body parts not advertised and thereby wasting money and both people's time. I know the popular trend now is to sleep with everybody and give every body a chance. But I'm of the mentality that I was born gay and don't need to try a vagina to prove to others that I don't like it. We gays fought hard for others to understand our sexual attraction is nature and not a choice, and I don't want to be pressured into something which does not arouse me.

Happy United States Flag Day! 🇺🇸

Thank you so much for sharing. As a Platinum Star Gay *️⃣🦄 who has never been near a vagina, I truly had no interest on ever getting close to one for the first time to learn about it. Without your sharing on this forum, I would not have known about what's involved in the "conversation" surgery below the waist. Thank you! The thought of a hanging piece of flesh next to a 🤢🤮... Sorry, I couldn't even finish that thought. Since a penis that ejaculates 🍆 💦 is very important to me when I hire, I will make sure that's what I look for in a guy when I hire him.

At least we can agree then that tattoos can be called gross, as they are not parts of one's body. Oh, and earlobe hair 😜

I've had sex outdoors in Las Vegas many times, but now you have me rethinking this!

Yes. I saw my first masseur when I was in my early 20s. I had a penis infection in my late 30s. So, the infection was definitely after I had started receiving messages, although I don't see that as a cause and effect relationship. During the pandemic extended lockdowns I became lazy about regular washing/drying and shaking off excess urine after using the restroom. I don't know if it was fungus or bacteria infection; but, it was red and irritated and highly sensitive. Over the counter yeast infection cream worked for me. If it hadn't, I was going to see a dermatologist.

Everyone likes a good blow job 🥳!

Always assume every man you hire, and every man or woman you hook up with, to be HIV positive and protect yourself accordingly. The fact that he lists it in his advertisement shows he is honest, which is credit to him.

I've done this once with Uber. I refused to get into the car when the driver didn't match the photo (it was a female driver using a male's account). Thankfully I've never had a female arrive when I ordered an escort!

True ... Columbia and Venezuela in particular are very socially conservative countries enforcing stricter values. But I don't see that as the primary reason causing young men to travel away from these countries for sex work in developed nations.

I never ask "What is your real name". If I forget his name (especially if he doesn't provide a name in his profile), I will ask "Please remind me what you'd like me to call you" when we meet.

Cim and most computer related functions happen pretty quickly these days

We can fine a lee un dur stand u! 😜