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Redwine56

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    Redwine56 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in 411 on AndrewSlivabik visiting NYC from Barcelona   
    Did you reach an "explosive pleasure?" 😍
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    Redwine56 got a reaction from DWnyc in Dear clients, would you rather hire a bisexual or gay provider?   
    I find that this way of thinking also rears its ugly head when it comes to dealing with people of different ethnicities and class.  Their inherited prejudices will come through in other aspects as well, not only with sexuality.
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    Redwine56 got a reaction from Poppie in What a load!   
    He's in the height of ecstacy with that explosive climax.  S-O-O HOT!! 😜
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    Redwine56 reacted to soloyo215 in Dear clients, would you rather hire a bisexual or gay provider?   
    When I look at profiles, I don't even look at the sexual orientation of the provider. If he's available, affordable, compatible with my needs and capable of performing as expected, I can't care less what he claims to be his sexual orientation.
    Personally I've met people who prefer to hire bisexual or straight men. I try not to judge them, I just let them be, that is, until it affects me. Once in a setting that I prefer not to give details about, there were a group of gay men talking about a number of topics. There was this gay guy who apparently had a problem with other gay men, stating that the moment that he finds that a guy is gay he wants nothing to do with him. In the same paragraph where he said that he only dates straight men ("very macho" in his words), he then stated how lonely he is, and that he doesn't seem to find a man who loves him.
    I just had to tell him, "Why on Earth do you want to pursue a person who, by the very definition of who he is, doesn't like you and is not interested in you that way?" His rather explosive, defensive, insulting and downright disrespectful reaction told me that he had no interest in challenging his premises, nor did he really had any legitimate interest in finding love. I know it would have been better if I just let him be, but it really rubbed me the wrong way that he had this attitude that "straight means better", or "gay is worthless". With that, I had a problem, but not with his preferences of what kind of man he prefers.
    In my youth, in my early 20s, I was a very angry young man. I became a hardcore activist for the rights of gay men and for HIV/AIDS prevention education made available to all. I used to call myself "heterophobic", meaning that I was not very nice to those guys who were sometimes struggling with coming to terms with their sexuality, and they considered themselves straight or bisexual. I used to say that I respect their sexual orientation, but I will treat them the way I treat heterosexual men (which wasn't nice). I had a "straight means homophobic" and "bisexual means closet case" attitude. It cost some friendships, and took some learning and time for me to come around and be less angry/resentful at straight men in general, and becoming more welcoming and understanding.
    So now I just live and let live (but don't fuck with me treating me like I am "less than" because I am gay).
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    Redwine56 reacted to + KensingtonHomo in Dear clients, would you rather hire a bisexual or gay provider?   
    I prefer gay or bi (or pan, for that matter). I don't see the point in hiring someone who won't be attracted to me (always a risk) and is likely to be very limited in what they're willing to do.  Plus I don't generally like or enjoy the company of straight men.  
    Some of my best hiring experiences have been with bi or pan guys who are just really into sex. 
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    Redwine56 reacted to Simon Suraci in Overnight Rate   
    Speaking only for myself here. Others charge less or more and that’s fine. I don’t claim to represent an average.
    These whole day hires described above are less common but I love these and a handful of clients hire me for a whole day from time to time. I charge $1,500 for about 12 hours during the day, ending by/before midnight. That would be comparable to a 12 hr overnight if I charged closer to market for overnights, but I charge a premium $2k for those.
    When the client hires me for a longer stretch, say a few days or a week, I would charge less per day - works out to something between 1285 and 2000 per day depending on how many total days he hires me. More expensive per day to hire 3 days, less expensive per day to hire for 7.
    I haven’t done any two week or longer hires yet, but I will revisit pricing to give the client a break on that when the time comes. Maybe that day will never come, and honestly I am quite ok with that.
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    Redwine56 reacted to BlondGuy in ===411 Chuck on Manhattan=====   
    Have appreciated a little attention (lol) from Chuck…seriously with treatments that have been different almost each time…even hot rocks…sweet guy AND strong, very professional…glad he has his own place now in West Village. Thank you, Chuck!
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    Redwine56 got a reaction from + WstVlgChris in 411 on AndrewSlivabik visiting NYC from Barcelona   
    Did you reach an "explosive pleasure?" 😍
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    Redwine56 reacted to Hot4latin in 411 on Zander (f/k/a Trevor) from Dallas coming to NYC   
    Things were slow at work so I opened up RentMasseur to see who might be nearby. Zan was only a mile away so I shot him a text. He responded quickly and within 75 minutes I was at his door. Zan greeted me with a warm hug, welcomed me to the space and asked if I had any target or problem areas. We both stripped and got started. Since he was traveling, massage was on a firm platform bed with a face-pillow attachment. The pressure was fairly deep, which was just what I needed. It felt great! Zan was able to find those knotted areas in my back and made sure to spend extra time working them out. Within 20 minutes, I asked if we could extend our 60 minute session to 90 minutes. He happily obliged and even went a little longer. Zan’s body is also amazing. 💪😍 His entire torso is nicely muscled and representative of his photos in the ad. So like others have said, Zan is one of the good ones. Great massage, a welcoming environment and one of the nicest hunks you’ll ever meet. I’ll book him again next time our paths cross. 
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    Redwine56 reacted to dutchal in 411 on AlexxOscar   
    Sure are handsome devils--could be brothers.
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    Redwine56 reacted to Whitman in What a load!   
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    Redwine56 reacted to Whitman in What a load!   
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    Redwine56 reacted to 56harrisond in What a load!   
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    Redwine56 reacted to + Axiom2001 in What a load!   
    My tongue & mouth would give "this" one hell of a mighty tongue bath!
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    Redwine56 reacted to 56harrisond in What a load!   
    🍑💦
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    Redwine56 reacted to Whitman in What a load!   
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    Redwine56 reacted to papichampu in 411 on AndrewSlivabik visiting NYC from Barcelona   
    yesterday.  gorgeous, personable, recommend highly! but agree that he's pricey
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    Redwine56 reacted to Joe Soflo in 411 on Andrew NYC   
    Highly recommended.   Good pressure, nice guy and left happy
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    Redwine56 reacted to d.anders in 411 on Andrew NYC   
    LOL. No straight guy is wearing a shirt like this:

    or cuffing his pant like this:

    Anyone care to wager?
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    Redwine56 reacted to 56harrisond in NEIGHBOURS SON !!   
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    Redwine56 reacted to + Axiom2001 in NEIGHBOURS SON !!   
    ...quite, quite inviting and awaiting one hell of a powerful tongue bath!!!!!
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