Monarchy79

Very informative... I always thought that a good cuddling, oral session would be less work for the money, with less wear and tear on the body... But to each his own ?‍♂️

In this case, the POSTER needs to be EXPOSED.. That’s the type of jerk that ruins things for everyone by destroying trust, and an overall code of sharing information.

I’m sooo sorry for this experience.... but this is why I’ve always had that concern... Unfortunately, there are a lot of guys out here who are just creeps.. the kind with no type of social skills or redeeming personality traits, who masseurs loathe... the kind that probably never have a good experience with YMMV, because they are in-fact, the problem.... Ugh

Good lord.. all I see are butts and thighs... ?.... I wanna sink my teeth into them

To follow up... I found this clip of this trashy straight cruise from hell... yes, the straights are a HOT MESS too!!

I totally agree with you... However, behaviors do change, based on the environment.... most douchey people adjust their level of “asshole”, in order to maintain jobs, and not get their asses kicked on a regular basis when dealing with others. But in concentrated environments that give them a bit more leverage to “show their ass”, .... could be disasterous. I also agree that straights are no different... a few years back... Former tight-end (no pun intended), Rob Gronkoswki, had a party cruise, filled with all of these young, trashy, fans.... ultimately disgusting!!!!

Thanks, No crown deserved here.. ☺️ Just sharing what I’ve learned from some seasoned members of this forum. And just trying to be considerate of the masseurs who we enjoy.

Also remember that your experiences with a masseur, may be exclusive to YOU. Giving explicit details to the wrong person could result in some jerk with no manners, reaching out to the masseur, hoping on his table, and literally asking for the exact same thing you experienced, as if he’s ordering from the dollar menu, and then saying “you did this for xxx”.... Definitely get a feel for the person who is asking the questions, and ensure they aren’t a jerk with involuntary celibate tendencies, before sharing such info...

If your inner gut is giving you caution, then go with it... That’s your intuition.. Unless the person who is asking the info is a regular on this site, with a proven track record of providing commentary, I do not answer random detailed questions. Furthermore, I never EVER give details on a massage therapist who works in a spa. Their licenses can actually be compromised and their careers ruined. Please be aware that a simple google search of a masseur’s name could easily link to reviews and commentary on this site. The person inquiring could be one of many of the following: 1.) a peer or manager at the spa they are workibg 2.) a significant other 3.) a frienemy I’d suggest asking why they want such detail, and then checking to see if they have a track record of being on this site as a participant.

Those type of “in shape circuit boys”, are the equivalent of H&M clothing... 1. Cute 2. Dispensable 3. Low quality 4. Only for short term use I wouldn’t waste vacation time on chasing circuit sluts.. Vacation for good experiences, good food, good drinks, and being around good people ☺️☺️

No .... Protein bars, helpings of “pure for men”, and flavored poppers

Now I do love a good buffet... ???

Oh hell no!!! Thanks for the insight. I’ve always wanted to go on a gay cruise, but if I attended that type of shit show, I’d probably be prosecuted for throwing tramps overboard ?

I’ll be purchasing this today, to add to my reading list. Thanks for the post!! ☺️??

Not yet, BUT I WILL SOON

Damn that man is sexy... Woooooooof!!!! ????? ? ? ? ? ?

There was never any beef to call a truce. ☺️?? ... you’re cool with me ....? There’s nothing wrong with addressing things we don’t like (I did just that with my commentary on this thread).. I just feel that it needs to come from a constructive place. I never judge differing opinions, I only judge opinions that are made out of sheer malice, with no constructive purpose. ?

Why not say nothing? If I’m not attracted to someone’s pics on their profile (for whatever reason) I don’t feel the need to post a thread about them, I just scroll to the next one.

And you don’t ignore this behavior or “move on”, you actually perpetuate it.

Not funny... There’s more to life than being snippy, catty, sarcastic, mean spirited, bitchy, and cruel to others. It’s not cute, funny or entertaining. It’s tacky, classless and idiotic. Just flat out lame. Just because I can’t necessarily change something doesn’t mean that I should accept it. I won’t. And no, I’m not better than you, but you’re BETTER THAN THIS. And most of you are entirely too old to be behaving like a bunch of 7th grade girls.

And to say that it’s better to trash another human being behind his back, with his link posted, than to insult him to his face, speaks even more volumes... that totally reeks of the “stinch”, of “mean girl shit”...

So basically your’re saying that you’re not “mean girls”, just “real housewives”... Basically just an older, “classier” version of cattiness... ? The reason why this strikes a cord (not a sensitive cord) with me is because this behavior is so redundant and tired... and no matter what Social situation I’m in, someone has to start with the “shade”.

There’s nothing wrong with having preferences. However, it is not nice to create a thread dedicated to someone you don’t know, and title it: “Warning-Don't Look At This Ad's Private Pictures Around Mealtime!!!”

Thanks for clarifying, and respectfully acknowledge your commentary.... I clearly comprehended what the OP stated..... and I’m calling B.S. ☺️ Making the statement “it’s not his looks, it’s his gaping butthole”, is a backhanded cop out.... (a convenient cop out, nonetheless.. lol) Trust me, had that gaping butthole, been the butthole of Armond Rizzo or Devin Franco, a thread would have never been posted. The guy (regardless of his gaping butthole) is clearly not a “conventional beauty”,and his age isn’t “attractive” in the eyes of mainstream gay world, which is why he’s being judged. My point is that threads like this show the hipocrisy and shallowness of men in general. Fat men fat shame other fat men. Ugly men scoff at men who actually look better than them, although they may not be the most attractive. I literally will read threads where escorts and masseurs are being picked apart from the most minute details of their appearance, from guys who resemble SHREK on their best day, but deem themselves to be ENTITLED to their arrogance and dissection of another human being because they are a “paying customer”. And the fact that an old man would actually shudder at the idea of hiring an escort over 50 , “when you can get a 20 year old twins with 0% body fat”..... speaks volumes. It’s astonishing and sad to witness the level of delusion and deflection that permeates the gay community...

Threads like this disgust me, yet proves that ALL men are shallow as hell, and if some trolls who ask for sympathy were “hot”, they’d be probably more bitchier, mean, stuck-up, and obnoxious than the “so-called-a-list”, guys that everyone gives grief to. This escort more than likely looks just like the prototype of guys who are usually clients, yet those in his EXACT likeness are judging him. Just remember that you get what you put out there, so the next time you have a negative experience with someone because of how old, fat, weathered, or unattractive you may be, just remember that you did the SAME THING to someone else.