Monarchy79

You’re calling people “Sex negative morons”.... Sir, you just “judged”, someone for having a set of beliefs and ideologies different than yours... That in fact, makes you just as judgmental as those that you seem to loathe.... And might I add, a hypocrite....

and from reading my post and your response, you seem a bit defensive and “triggered”. There was no offense intended towards you, but since you addressed my comments, I’d like for you to address your point further, if you don’t mind.

Please respectfully show me where I judged anyone in my initial statement above..... When you think about it, people like me actually get judged more. In fact... 1.) calling me puritanical and judgmental is a judgement... ?

I consider those terms to be part of the bullshit, new-fangled, philosophies of “anything goes”, and the idea that no one should be held accountable for their actions or behaviors... (and acknowledging it is considered “judging” ?) I’m not at all puritanical.... however, trying to figure out why people behave the way that they do (especially when it’s flat out reckless), is not sex negative... it’s calling a thing, a thing...

Oh of course... I’m also “judgmental”.... lol

exactly!!!

you are definitely representative of most PrEP users. Your ideas on “precautions”, risk, and “safe sex”, is spot on with most PrEP users for sure.

The newer generations are hooking up in record speeds, due to apps... they literally are ordering sex like ordering a happy meal from McDonald’s.... And now both straight and gays naively think condoms are useless, so the STDs are spreading.... humans now have less control and discernment when it comes to sex, than a dog in heat.

“Just another chronic disease”.... its not the common cold... and taking medication regularly for the rest of your life, and having side effects that could impact the functions of your organs isn’t something to take lightly either. I absolutely get the point of erasing the stigma of associated with having HIV, but it still should be taken very seriously as a disease. and we should take precautions seriously too .

Getting “easily” treated only works when the STD is detected. In many cases these STDs can be asymptomatic in men for longer periods of time while they are spreading them through careless activities. I don’t think that the issue is greater sex education, it’s the depletion of common sense. People seem to have this pseudo-intellectual-non-chalant, approach to sexual health, and it’s annoying and flat out infuriating. if you ever want to see how reckless people are, volunteer at a health care organization or free clinic. I did for one month and had to quit out of the temptation to tell people they are flat out idiots.... One guy came in, admitted he already had herpes, and after being tested, due to various symptoms, found out that he also contracted genitalia warts, syphyllis, and chlamydia... damned near the only thing he luckily didn’t have was HIV...he was proud to say he was popping his PrEP pills, nonetheless. and he also stated that he wouldn’t change his sexual practices either (condomless-bisexual-barebacking, with all holes “utilized”)

Easy answer to this: PrEP People are now carelessly barebacking like feral cats in heat, and because this pill prevents ONE disease, they stupidly see no use for condoms that protect from most of the other 8-10 infections. People have made claims that condoms aren’t 100% effective as a means to support not using anything.... (which is idiotic), but the fact is that when people were using condoms more, the STD rates were lower.

AA= African-American, formerly known as “black”

I’m so glad the story had a good ending. ☺️??

You’re right. This one could be appropriate: ?

I think we’ve all come across that friend at some point in our lives... a recurring, but predictable-sad story in-deed. What’s worse now days is that people don’t realize that their behavior is risky. And you can’t address its riskiness without being accused of being “judgmental”, so when I come across those who indulge with such ferocity and recklessness, I just smile, enjoy their adventures vicariously and hope the best for them.

I am quite optimistic, aren’t I? I can obviously see hope in the hopeless. ?

After reading some of your postings online, it makes me curious as to what type of person you are face to face.... I want you to become a “myth buster” in another instance and post something that’s kind, motivating, or just generally positive.... I’d love to be surprised.

The use of the word “persnickety”, gives you an automatic thumbs up!!! ??

Make sure to put “educated”, in quotes at all times on these forums... ????

If out of what I wrote, you picked that specific statement to address, you totally missed the full meaning of my posting.... or was that purposeful deflection ???

I find it ironic that if someone caught a disease from a white dude, they would never ever make a mass generalization about white men. It just never happens. They’d just chalk it up as an individual experience. Other races don’t get that luxury. Bull&@$” like this is how racial generalizations are made. And what people fail to understand is that for every other race, one person’s experience seems to result in “statistical” proof that “all”, of “those” people fall into a specific category (from hygiene, disease infestations, dick size, and intelligence) Soon enough, people will assume that all Brazilians have poor hygiene, which is what the OP alluded to specifically in his post. Generalizations aren’t cool. Ass is ass, clean is clean, and dirty is dirty, and all three of those descriptions fall under EVERY ethnic group.

“Poor hygiene they have over there” Really!?!? The last stereotype I’ve heard of people who have poor hygiene were actually Frenchmen... And it’s not appropriate to make blanket statements about them either... I wonder if any of these Brazilians you appropriate and use for “entertainment” know what you REALLY think of them? ? SHEESH

You do know that “white” is a race, but not an ethnicity... so there are “white” Brazilian guys.. Secondly, if claims that water and sewage systems (based) on location, contribute to the possibility of someone catching these infections, the countries and cities in europe have some of the worst water systems, meaning that eating the most authentic in European white ass could be of the highest risk... ??? I also find it funny how one can be so ignorant as to make such a statement as you made, as about 35 years ago, it was considered to be extremely dangerous (stereotypically) to have sex with a gay white man, rimming or otherwise...

RIP to this iconic, classy, elegant, Trailblazing lady!!! ??

Not to get all scientific here, but I think it that areas with poor water filtration systems could be a potentially greater risk. I remember a friend of mine caught an infection from eating bad butt, and his doctor first asked him was he drinking “well water”.