Monarchy79

Wise words.... I’ll add that concealing what you do regardless of the field, is the foundation to genuine social interactions. Socially, people tend to ask “what you do”, as a means of categorizing you and evaluating your so called “value”, when you find that someone values your time and their experiences with you, without placing a label on you based on your career, those are the ones where the most significant relationships are established. I never tell anyone what I do for a living initially, and allow it to reveal itself organically. And if someone asks me if my career upon initial meeting, I’m usually turned off.

Condom is the new “C” word. It offends guys and makes them gasp as much as calling a woman a C@&$..... I literally get ghosted on apps when a suitor asks me of my sex practices, and I shamefully admit that I’m a condom user....

I’ve had a flea minor blunders: 1.) I’m in an elevator with my former boss, and go to my personal phone to check something and as soon as I open it, the listing of nude photos from dudesnude pops up... I quickly try to minimize it, but I just knew he saw it from his peripherals.. lol.

Should have bitten his dick... lol.... Problem solved.. ?

Now B.B. sex is an act of delusion. HIV transmission rates are down, but all of the other STD rates are skyrocketing.

Lmao!!! Ha!! Go figure... I was talking about dating apps

I need to confess.... I haven’t had a full-on escort yet (out of fear that I’ll never attempt at even dating a regular guy again), But I indulge in sensual-erotic massages.. and hell, regular guys can’t even touch you right... And let’s not get into the bad dates.. sitting across the dinner table from someone who had the brain of a Brazil nut and you’re carrying this draining conversation, or observing that the guy has the table manners of a two year old. Professional sex workers cover all bases of how to have good sex and provide good date, BFEs, and I absolutely see why guys who can, order them. It’s just flat out more convenient.

Here’s what’s in bars: 1.) Cliques of guys cackling like girlfriends 2.) guys of interest, letting their less attractive friends cock-block them 3.) aggressive/belligerent drunks 4.) guys with their heads buried on their phones on Grindr.

Another reason is that many regular guys are just simply bad at sex.....and don’t know how to both please and be pleased.

Here’s what’s on dating-hookup apps: 1. Catfishes 2. Time wasters 3. Serial killers 4. Serial chatters 5. Incels ( socially retarded) 6. Bad manners 7. Fakers 8. Potential poor performers in bed 9. Cheaters 10. Bad Hygiene/ Ettiquette

Don’t be so sure of that.... the moment you doubt your sex appeal, is the moment you either will encounter a suitor, or obliviously overlook one.

I hope you understand that you are the exception. A refreshing exception, but an exception.

Stop going commando at the gym..... Guys who do that totally distract me... in the best way ???

I change them twice a day. Once I’m done with my workout, I shower and put on fresh undies. The ones I worked out in are entirely soaked. Wouldn’t think of putting them back on. Basically my underwear changes every time I shower. Clean package, goes in clean briefs.

I came into “Gay World” at 18 in 1997, in DC. The entire club-bar scene was amazing at this time (both straight and gay)... every weekend, I was hanging with some group of friends, swinging from the chandeliers. Although I rarely go to bars/clubs now (unless I’m traveling) I’m glad I did it when I did. I had a fantastic time. You’re only young once, so get out there and swing from the chandeliers too!!!

I agree with you. However the point the poster was making was a bit different. For example, there are service providers who will not accept an offer from me simply because of the belief that blacks are dirty.

Bottom line up front, Many ethnicities have stereotypes of other ethnicities body odor and assumed hygiene habits. Typically what happens is that someone will witness or experience bad hygiene from a few people of a specific ethnic origin and then make a blanket generalization about the entire race.

Not giving any formal advice. Just speaking from experience

This is how you screw a big guy: 1.) put him on his back 2.) slide him to the edge of the bed 3.) have him spread his legs as wide as he can and push them back as far towards him as he can 4.) stand at the edge of the bed Dive right in and mission accomplished.

Exactly!! Or put him on his back, slide him to the edge of the bed, push those legs back and out and dive right in ?

Also, any escort who tells you that it’s difficult to screw a fat guy is either: 1.) lying 2.) lacking in skill, or 3.) doesn’t have the endowment to “get it in”

Yet many Asians will cry “discrimination”, when the white guys they desperately desire tell them “Sorry, no Asians”.

A sex worker is using their body for the services they perform. Whether it’s biased, bigoted or not, they are not entitled to service every prospective client. On a lighter example, let’s say a potential client hasn’t showered in a month. He is not entitled to receive the services of the escort because he requested it. The sex worker has the right to say no. I believe in transparency. Although you are correct in stating that it’s a bit much to expect escorts not to be judged on their preferences, I feel that the idea would have positive results overall. 1.) escorts who do not have racial biases would increase business from new clients. 2.) escorts who have racial biases will get what they are looking for. 3.) potential clients won’t have to wasted time, playing the guessing game of who will want to do business with them. Although I agree with you 100%, the world we live in has realities that just aren’t fair, and we have to deal with them

If there are any masseurs or escorts who the group knows of who have racial preferences, please send me a pm with their links, so I will make sure to never even look at their profiles. I value my time and don’t like it wasted.

Time hasn’t changed ? It’s always been like this. Lol