Monarchy79

You’re not old fashioned. You just have common sense ???

Also, if you don’t mind, I’d like to pick your brain, explaining your accusations of homophobia and sexism, in a separate private PM, as we both have “smart ass”, tendencies, and don’t want this to turn into a pissing match of posts...

Ok..... but calling my observations homophobic and sexist, really isn’t a “challenge”....but more of a “delusion”. ??? ?????

What the hell are you talking about? I’m literally praising a member of this site who consistently speaks against ageism, racism, body fascism, judgment of sex workers, and other vile “ills”, that plague “gay world”, and youcall that “internal homophobia”?!? I seriously hope we both interpreted each other’s postings incorrectly

I have to tell ya, for being one of the archetypes of “hottness”, from reading your posts, you are one of the most grounded, self-aware, humbled, guys on this site. The antithesis of the shallow bulllshit that plagues this lifestyle. Keep up the good work. ☺️??

Also, I think he has a rentmen ad, so he probably provides massage services, as well as “personal” services. So the rates would be different

No need to worry about catfishing. He’s real. I’ve had massages by him about 5 times, years ago. I’ll PM you

I do the towel-in-the-buttcrack-drying routine too!! Go figure!!

There isn’t a link provided because the OP doesn’t want his experience to possibly give the masseur a bad reputation, especially some parts of the experience aren’t 100% confirmed, and are based on his beliefs and not concrete facts as we don’t know why the masseur behaves in the manner that he did.

There isn’t a link provided because the OP doesn’t want his experience to possibly give the masseur a bad reputation, especially some parts of the experience aren’t 100% confirmed, and are based on his beliefs and not concrete facts as we don’t know why the masseur behaves in the manner that he did.

I’ll also add that that young guy was probably never taught proper thorough hygiene habits. Many men aren’t, both straight and gay, and it affects their sex lives and they don’t even realize it.

I’ll also add that that young guy was probably never taught proper thorough hygiene habits. Many men aren’t, both straight and gay, and it affects their sex lives and they don’t even realize it.

Great Discussion Topic!!! My pre-massage shower routine is as follows: If I have an appointment after work: 1.) gym workout 2.) pre-sauna shower 3.) steam/sauna 4.) thorough shower, which consists of A. First round with soap (like an Irish spring, safeguard, etc.) B. Second round is the body scrub in the shower dispensers and my shower gel The whole routine leaves no area untouched... face, behind the ears, arms, legs, chest, shoulders, torso, back, in between the toes, and of course extra attention to the nether-regions... to add on.. these are two musts for me 1.) a washcloth... soaping up a washcloth really helps remove dead skin cells and build suds, nothing like it.... and 2.) an inch of a soapy finger up the butt... yes, I make sure there’s absolutely no residue of anything back there. From this routine of squeaky cleanliness and scrubbing, it has been always a bonus for YMMV with getting massages (even in places that’s strictly professional and “therapeutic”, and even my personal life .... people will lick every nook and cranny of your body, when they realize that you are impeccably groomed and clean.... and because so many guys are lacking in the hygiene department, masseurs are usually pleasantly relieved, when they massage those buns, spread them cheeks and there’s nothing but freshness... ?

Great Discussion Topic!!! My pre-massage shower routine is as follows: If I have an appointment after work: 1.) gym workout 2.) pre-sauna shower 3.) steam/sauna 4.) thorough shower, which consists of A. First round with soap (like an Irish spring, safeguard, etc.) B. Second round is the body scrub in the shower dispensers and my shower gel The whole routine leaves no area untouched... face, behind the ears, arms, legs, chest, shoulders, torso, back, in between the toes, and of course extra attention to the nether-regions... to add on.. these are two musts for me 1.) a washcloth... soaping up a washcloth really helps remove dead skin cells and build suds, nothing like it.... and 2.) an inch of a soapy finger up the butt... yes, I make sure there’s absolutely no residue of anything back there. From this routine of squeaky cleanliness and scrubbing, it has been always a bonus for YMMV with getting massages (even in places that’s strictly professional and “therapeutic”, and even my personal life .... people will lick every nook and cranny of your body, when they realize that you are impeccably groomed and clean.... and because so many guys are lacking in the hygiene department, masseurs are usually pleasantly relieved, when they massage those buns, spread them cheeks and there’s nothing but freshness... ?

Regardless of the reasons, I find it admirable for an escort to turn a potential client down. It’s better than taking a client’s money, with no intent on providing good services.

A poster said this about escorts: “ Not only are they men who have sex with men, but many of them engage in high risk behaviors like partying, condomless sex, and a high number of different people.” Ironically I find this statement true about a lot of gay men who have lots of sex, free of charge.... take a look at any app or dating site and you’ll see for yourself. What’s ironic is that sex workers probably take heed to testing and treatment far more than your average joe who’s just whoring around for free. More men overall need more testing period.

I actually commend the guy for regular testing, regardless of his sex activity. STI’s and HIV aren’t necessarily “time stamped” and symptoms of either could show far after the sexual activity that transmitted an infection to you occurred.

Providing a link to the masseurs MF or RM profile wouldn’t be considered a review.....

Sidebar: Shame on many of you guys for judging the OP.... hipocrites galore. I find it funny how he can be judged for being married and having escorts on the side, but many of you are in these new-age open marriages and open relationships your damned selves.... Lots of stones being thrown from glass houses.

Another option of a solution for this is to act needy, clingy and “in love”... that will have them running away as soon as the sessions are over. Guys are wired in a weird way. Show them interest and they’ll squirm away like feral cats.. show them indifference and they’ll chase you into Infiniti. Most escorts are used to being worshipped, and fulfilling needs of companionship to their clients. They are used to feeling needed and validating their Johns. By you not having that type of interest intrigues them and makes them want you more. Let them believe you are looking for that BFE, and once they are done, they will accept their payment and leave.

No advice needed ☺️??. Continue doing your thing, and by no means have any discussions with the escorts, explaining how you feel. It seems like the connection they appear to have with you is what makes the experience pleasurable for both of you.... I’m sure you don’t want to ruin that vibe. Just make sure they have no way of contacting you when you’re not seeking their services.

Very useful information!!! I’m no doctor, but I’d recommend continuing daily doses of that medication, unless you are a 100% condom user.

Your post just reminded me to add “guys who are sarcastic smart asses” to this list as well.... ???

My list wasn’t rated in any type of order or preference. And I agree with you, romance is dead. There’s nothing romantic about scrolling through an app, looking at pics of guys like you’re looking at a dollar menu at McDonalds. There’s nothing like finding an immediate attraction to someone in-person. The way they walk, their body language, the way they smell, the meta-physical energy. Apps and websites don’t provide that, which is why there are so many dating and hook up fails from sites and apps.