Monarchy79

Never keep quiet. Or feel pressured into “shutting up”. The forum is for opinions and sharing knowledge.

Now now now... stop it!!! lol. Since Trump’s mail order bride (coughs... “wife”) isn’t orally servicing him.... someone has to do it. at least give @Bearman credit for dedication and consistency. oh and @Bearman, thanks in-advance for the pending “bomb”. ???

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Amen!!! Haven’t these bridesmaids ever heard of Chippendales?

My worst, was one of my first years ago. https://rentmasseur.com/Glen disheveled hotel room Messy bathroom He just finished eating Chinese food, so the room smelled like the shrimp fried rice and other food he left on the unmade bed and the half eaten food containers were in the bed. oiled me up with dollar-store Brand baby oil and proceeded to give me repetitive massage strokes for about 40 minutes while he was watching an episode of Scandal and checking text messages with his other hand.

agreed. when most people “bomb”, my messages, what they’re really saying to me is this: ?? ????

Ive definitely been in very heated debates where everyone was raking me through the coals, with “bombs”, and “thumbs down”, lol.... (and I stood firm and wouldn’t relent). When I private messaged the initial person who disagreed with me, he didn’t respond either. In many cases, it’s simply because the individual doesn’t have a substantive point of view to stand on his own to discuss, as he typically is feeding off of the support of other participants in the discussion. Also, many guys get off from being publicly sarcastic and snippy, instead of having a true exchange of opinions. Also, online forums embolden cowards (the luxury of anonymity), and as a private message is more direct, many people just can’t handle it. I’ve had a few PM discussions with a few members and I was able to learn from what we initially disagreed on and it broadened my perspective. Some others just liked being jerks (which is fine too).

You’re right... So with that said, I only think that it’s fair that masseurs and service providers then have the right to adjust how their mileage “varies”, using the same standards that’s been imposed on them ?

Im in agreement with needing to calm down .... I’ll admit that some of the themes in this thread have triggered me.... lol... guilty....

And what I’m saying is that the “Norm”, is hypocritical, shallow, and extremely objectifying. Many of those people nitpicking service providers looks typically aren’t even in the league to judge shrek’s looks, let alone the guys many of you pick apart in these forums. The nitpicking I witness on forums like this over a guy’s weight gain, loss of muscle mass, facial structure, teeth whiteness, hair thinning, and toe color cracks me up. What’s ironic about the shallowness of this lifestyle, is that it’s not just the “A List” beauties who behave like mean girls, picking each other apart, it’s the undesirables too. I’m certain that Kenzo doesn’t have to pay anyone to touch him... and look how down to earth he his. However, there are many guys who are shallow and judgmental, but will never see another man sexually, unless he’s on the servicing end of a glory hole....but has the unmitigated audacity to have “high standards and demands of beauty”, in others... Give me a break. Many of you change your tune when you are on the receiving end of criticism, for being to old, fat, busted, wrinkled, flawed, and marred. But the moment you think you have the upper hand to judge, what do you do? Tear another man apart.... Shameless and vicious.

I think this is great. The sex services industry is sometimes based on the exploitation of the workers, through the client base, who typically attempt to determine lowball pricing and ridiculous demands. By the workers now flipping the script, taking control of their business and making even more money is fantastic. The OF surge gives workers more flexibility in expanding their own brand. Kudos to them!!!

simply perfect.

Outstanding post!!! Also very revealing. The fact that this good looking guy has been literally body shamed, for gaining a few pounds ultimately disgusts me. What disgusts me more is that many of the people who are critical of his minimal weight gain, are probably the same hipocrites who cry “body fascism, ageism, and complain about the shallowness of men”, when they are on the receiving end of criticism. Ironically, this man has probably been such a success, by providing massage services to a wide variety of clientele, even some who may be “chunky”, “out of shape”, or “not the prototype”, and for this, what he gets in return is a bunch of critiques from people who have the convenience of hiding their looks and bodies behind the anonymity of a user profile. I hope this thread builds his client base significantly. I plan to book an appointment with him in the near future, just because.

Definitely book an appointment with him if he’s in your town. He’s fantastic.

Your town isn’t what made this experience a breeze... Thank your parents ?

Let him rot.

Fantastic topic and link!!! when I was about 10, my mom had me go to her bank and create a “young savers” account. Came with a check book and ATM card. I’d use it to manage my allowances, from good grades, gifts, and yard work. Both of my parents would use time we spend in the car (road trips, commuting, etc.) to talk about life stuff, and they were programming me without even realizing it. We talked about finances, life skills, hygiene, sex, dynamics with people in general. I specifically remember my father telling me this : “Son.... there are three things you must always make sure you have in order: you license, your credit, and your taxes.” I’ll admit... keeping these things straight has made life so convenient. I also remember my grandfather always telling be about having a “hustle”.... That was wise too. I always made sure to have secondary income (in addition to my foundation career), to pad my pockets for vacations, clothes, and other trinkets. So many people are grown and clueless because their parents didn’t teach them anything.

I understand now.... from looking at your profile pic.... you probably feel that having a gyrating crotch on stage is “improper”... instead just “grab the pussy”, backstage.... ??

musicians have been doing pseudo humping since television created “technicolor”.... Elvis, Chuck Berry, Michael Jackson, etc. Most people aren’t that sensitive to it. And I’m not sure of the last pornographic film you’ve watched, but the shots of the actual footballs players bent over, with their sheer leggings showing their jockstraps and cracks, probably ignited just as much excitement from some viewers, as Shakira and JLo’s butts did to others...

I find it funny how any man on THIS site, can be so prudish about a performance?

People may also wonder about this society when men rate and evaluate escorts who have stripped down to nothing and have been paid to do many things for the masses as well. JLo wears her outfits better than some people wear their hypocrisy... ??

There’s two ways to look at a “normal” teen life. 1.) You grow up to be a “normal”, adult and have a “normal” life, or 2.) You are raised, trained and exposed to opportunities for greatness at an early age... The Serena Williams, Beyoncé’s, Michael Jackson’s and Cristiano Ronaldo’s, of the world didn’t have “normal”, childhoods and look at what they became.

We need this law in America.

There’s something missing in this situation: First off, do escorts truly expect their clients to be “hot”? if a guy is a hit as the escort, he typically wouldn’t need to hire one (unless it’s merely for convenience, which is quite understandable) Secondly, when people (escorts or not) show no interest (as expected), they usually won’t explain why.... Who’s to say that the issue is your looks? Have you examined all possible reasons why these experiences keep occurring? As an example, I have a good friend who is good looking, and would attract many guys, who would ghost him right after the first in-person meeting. Once I was in-person with him, I realized one of the possible reasons why.... he has horrible dental habits, very infected teeth & gums and terrible breath. Once he started improving his dental hygiene and taking regular visits to the dentist to rectify years of dental neglect, his love love started to improve. But not one of those guys told him the reason why they ghosted him. Make sure you’ve examined every possible reason why these experiences have occurred because you just assume its your “looks”

Would you consider investing the possible funds you’d spend on escorts, into maintenance and self-improvement instead? You said you turned 50. With this new decade for you, work on all of the things you think makes you unattractive and improve on them.