Monarchy79

There’s nothing wrong with having preferences. However, it is not nice to create a thread dedicated to someone you don’t know, and title it: “Warning-Don't Look At This Ad's Private Pictures Around Mealtime!!!”

Thanks for clarifying, and respectfully acknowledge your commentary.... I clearly comprehended what the OP stated..... and I’m calling B.S. ☺️ Making the statement “it’s not his looks, it’s his gaping butthole”, is a backhanded cop out.... (a convenient cop out, nonetheless.. lol) Trust me, had that gaping butthole, been the butthole of Armond Rizzo or Devin Franco, a thread would have never been posted. The guy (regardless of his gaping butthole) is clearly not a “conventional beauty”,and his age isn’t “attractive” in the eyes of mainstream gay world, which is why he’s being judged. My point is that threads like this show the hipocrisy and shallowness of men in general. Fat men fat shame other fat men. Ugly men scoff at men who actually look better than them, although they may not be the most attractive. I literally will read threads where escorts and masseurs are being picked apart from the most minute details of their appearance, from guys who resemble SHREK on their best day, but deem themselves to be ENTITLED to their arrogance and dissection of another human being because they are a “paying customer”. And the fact that an old man would actually shudder at the idea of hiring an escort over 50 , “when you can get a 20 year old twins with 0% body fat”..... speaks volumes. It’s astonishing and sad to witness the level of delusion and deflection that permeates the gay community...

Threads like this disgust me, yet proves that ALL men are shallow as hell, and if some trolls who ask for sympathy were “hot”, they’d be probably more bitchier, mean, stuck-up, and obnoxious than the “so-called-a-list”, guys that everyone gives grief to. This escort more than likely looks just like the prototype of guys who are usually clients, yet those in his EXACT likeness are judging him. Just remember that you get what you put out there, so the next time you have a negative experience with someone because of how old, fat, weathered, or unattractive you may be, just remember that you did the SAME THING to someone else.

But if no one ever takes the plunge, then we all could be missing out on someone that could become tried and true

Boom!!! There it is!!!!

This is why telecommuting is best.. 1.) focus on work 3.) stay out of the trouble of intermingling those “social pitfalls”

My statement is totally unrelated to sexual orientation. The wise old man who told me “not to shit where I eat”, was my straight grandfather. Mixing business and personal leads to problems.... traditionally with men who sleep with their female coworkers or subordinates. This isn’t about being in or out of the closet. My point is about having a clean portfolio of a reputation at work, and focusing on career without getting it intertwined with personal matters.

The lesson is not to snoop through people’s belongings.

A wise old man once told me the following: “A dog never shits where he eats... and neither should you”. Keep work and personal life separate. And by all means, never let co-workers into any of your personal business.

I would hope that no one on this forum would have the audacity to slut shame anyone... That’s would definitely be a “glass house”, situation.

It’s perfectly coordinated with her cardigan... I think it’s a perfect, casual, pre-fall, luxe look. ??☺️

The aroma of some man-musk scented underwear can have better powers than inhaling poppers for some. Don’t ask me how I know... ?

What’s idiotic about it, is that an escort is touting himself as a “community health advocate”, with questionable sex practices. And had the audacity to be snarky about it.

That’s unfortunate.... sometimes people need to die with some form of privacy. We’re all human, and as adults, there are things that no ones mother should know.

Great thread!!! I don’t think that only fans will negatively impact escorting. It actually might enhance it. Sex workers can show their skills through only fans and possibly grow their clientele. Another thing I like about only fans (although I’m not a subscriber), is that it gives sex workers more control over their career as porn actors.. they can make lots of money without getting exploited by the larger production companies.... It’s the equivalent of being a singer/musician and going “independent”, instead of being signed under a record label.

Correction: Using PrEP, in conjunction with condoms, is the safest form of sex outside of abstinence, in the prevention of HIV transmission.

I’m sorry, but the masseur needs to better educate himself on what “safe sex” actually is. Although popping a PrEP pill is a preventative measure against HIV transmission, barebacking isn’t “safe sex”. I guess the other 8+ STDs that can be transmitted that PrEP doesn’t address isn’t an issue for him either.. maybe he should do a favor to the community and think about the other STDs he could be spreading..... while he’s practicing “safe sex”.

to be Accurate... PrEP is known to specifically prevent: HIV transmission. Condoms have been known to prevent: HIV transmission, along with Syphyllis Gonhorrea Chlamydia Other STDs and pregnancy And because of the physical barrier they create during anal intercourse, they also prevent infection that than occur by fecal matter than can get into the top partners urethral passages through barebacking. Consistent, proper condom use has worked as a successful method of safe sex for millions, and I’m a living example to that. As an aside (because NO method is 100% effective), the creators of PrEP intended for its use to be in conjunction with condoms.... However, many medical professionals were leery that their targeted audience would see this as a means to ditch condoms, just as the baby boomers ditched them when the birth control pill was created. And they were right.

How did she find out “all of it”? ?

I’m headed to Baltimore to do dinner with a friend next weekend. I will definitely be working out at Merritt and hittting the sauna/steam... At my current gym chain in DC, I stopped going in their saunas and steamrooms, after realizing that I’M THE TROLL... ????????????

.... and these are type of jock straps that will be sold to the highest bidder!!! ???

A few things: 1.) If your car is ever in the DC area, takenit to Passport Infiniti of Alexandria... they do great work, won’t try to empty your pockets and are honest mechanics. They’ve made me a loyal long term Infiniti owner too ☺️?? 2. The idea of having a job with no “health” issues is somewhat of a unicorn. I say this to say, that working a career in both govt consulting and then in local govt, I’ve seen more workplace health hazards, than in jobs that are supposed to have occupational health hazards. I’ve seen more people die of cancer in the past five years from one organization, and I truly attest this to stress and a toxic work environment. 3. The factors of your job that are annoying you won’t change, just like the annoyances of any of our jobs won’t change. The only thing we can do is asses how we react to those annoyances, and how we adapt to those situations when they occur. Ones attitude and adjustment are the only solutions. This is why two people can have the same job with the same bullshit and one person will be miserable, and the other will be happy and succeed. I had to learn this myself a long time ago. 4. When was the last time you had a real vacation? No work.. just lounging around on a beach, or backpacking around town as a tourist? Or even a weekend soaking in mud and getting massages? Sounds like you’re longnoverdue for some “me time”..... Just remember that the only variable that you can change and control is YOU.... ☺️??

Wise words.... I’ll add that concealing what you do regardless of the field, is the foundation to genuine social interactions. Socially, people tend to ask “what you do”, as a means of categorizing you and evaluating your so called “value”, when you find that someone values your time and their experiences with you, without placing a label on you based on your career, those are the ones where the most significant relationships are established. I never tell anyone what I do for a living initially, and allow it to reveal itself organically. And if someone asks me if my career upon initial meeting, I’m usually turned off.

Condom is the new “C” word. It offends guys and makes them gasp as much as calling a woman a C@&$..... I literally get ghosted on apps when a suitor asks me of my sex practices, and I shamefully admit that I’m a condom user....

I’ve had a flea minor blunders: 1.) I’m in an elevator with my former boss, and go to my personal phone to check something and as soon as I open it, the listing of nude photos from dudesnude pops up... I quickly try to minimize it, but I just knew he saw it from his peripherals.. lol.