Monarchy79

You do know that “white” is a race, but not an ethnicity... so there are “white” Brazilian guys.. Secondly, if claims that water and sewage systems (based) on location, contribute to the possibility of someone catching these infections, the countries and cities in europe have some of the worst water systems, meaning that eating the most authentic in European white ass could be of the highest risk... ??? I also find it funny how one can be so ignorant as to make such a statement as you made, as about 35 years ago, it was considered to be extremely dangerous (stereotypically) to have sex with a gay white man, rimming or otherwise...

RIP to this iconic, classy, elegant, Trailblazing lady!!! ??

Not to get all scientific here, but I think it that areas with poor water filtration systems could be a potentially greater risk. I remember a friend of mine caught an infection from eating bad butt, and his doctor first asked him was he drinking “well water”.

Just consider it to be one of the “occupational hazards”, of sex. Every act of sex has a “catch”.

I’m glad you weren’t offended.... I call that move the “credit check”, as after conducting the “swipe”, any further action could be either “approved”, or “declined” Just remember that for every guy who passed the credit check, there are probably ten who don’t.

Oh my!!! That guy is the reason why I don’t like shaking hands!!! Hillarious and disgusting all at the same time!!!

In the wise words of the late, great, Redd Foxx: “YOU GOTTA WASH YO ASS” ????

I’d rather them state the types of clients they prefer in their ads.. therefore those who don’t fit within these parameters, won’t waste their time even making an inquiry with a masseur... For example... a masseur to state: “In my practice, I prefer guys under 35, with red hair, with a muscular build, at least 6 feet tall”.... would save a lot of time for both himself and potential clients

If you think “getting fucked”, is a passive act, then you’ve never had sex with a true “power bottom”....

It’s the millennial feminist in you that’s talking. lol

I’ll take my spanking now... but I’m going to say it.. There are two genders, male and female. Either you have a dick, or a vagina. It’s not complicated. If you want to dress up and believe you are a woman (or vice versa), you have every right to. That doesn’t mean that other people have to accept it. Especially if you’re not passable (yes I said that too). Imagine me, with my five o’clock shadow, broad shoulders in a dress and wig telling you that you must now accept that I now see myself as a woman.. and you must too.... (this is the crap I see on a regular basis) This is getting ridiculous Oh and as of Midnight, I am of the feline species and have now identified myself as a cat.

That pic on the website creeps me out...

Wow, Thanks.. I now have a clearer understanding of your point.... which is still quite complex.. ☺️

No prob, Although we can get a bit out of hand on here (especially when we disagree), the contributors to these forums are a Gold-mine, and I truly appreciate having this resource

Also, I think it also is important to navigate through this fantastic site, with the proper tactics of research.... When I research, I don’t just research the masseurs, I research the posters... here’s what I mean... If there is a poster who has rated a masseur highly, I search his other rated posts, and see what those masseurs all have in common... Then I look at factors that the poster may reveal about himself in his profile and his other posts (such as his age, race, height, and build), and then I compare those to my stats.. That has resulted in me having mind-blowing massages that meet my expectations. Here’s an example: There was a masseur that got fantastic rating from a poster, who makes excellent posts.. the poster is a 6’2”, white guy in his early 30s.... given that I’m a 5’9”, black dude, at the age of 40.... I determined that we wouldn’t have the same mileage.... However, after getting a PM’ed review of a masseur from another poster who has similar stats to mine (which may mean equal mileage), I scheduled a massage and it was fantastic. My point is that there’s a science to everything, and a strategic approach to this, actually works!!!

From reading this post (and a few others of yours)I think what you want is an ideal “massage world”, where all masseurs provide the EXACT SAME sensual massages to all of their clients across the board. And if you are requiring whether the masseur is good or not, good reviews will guarantee you’ll get a great sensual massage, without feeling “cheated”... Well that’s never going to happen... YMMV is a concept that’s built on vibes, energy, attraction and chemistry. And because we are all human, you’ll never ever be able to guarantee that. Now, there are masseurs who advertise sensual massages, and then provide absolutely nothing near that to their customers and have no massage skills either.... typically they are exposed (which is usually a reflection of changing their names on advertising sites) But the idea of a reviewer stating that they had a mind blowing experience with a masseur that extended far beyond the normal expectation of a sensual massage, and then expecting the exact same experience for yourself is a bit of a stretch. In your case, I’d strongly suggest purchasing escorting services, where massage is involved, this way: 1.) You ccan discuss what your specific wants are 2.) you can somewhat navigate your own “mileage”, and 3.) you won’t feel cheated. Good luck!!! ??

I commend you for making such an honest, candid and up-front post. ??☺️

I’ll just close out by sarcastically making this point about preferences: 1.) “I don’t like blacks or Asians , yuck”..... it’s just a preference.. ?‍♂️ (Racism) 2.) “I don’t like fat guys”, it’s just a preference... ?‍♂️ (Body fascism) 3.) “I don’t like guys over 40”, it’s just a preference ...?‍♂️ (Ageism) 4.) “I don’t like guys who don’t have an ivy-league, education”, it’s just a preference... ?‍♂️ (Elitism) My point is this.... own your shit, if you don’t like someone, for whatever reason, call it what it is, and assert it with confidence. But don’t mask your prejudices by calling them “preferences”, because the term sounds better. ???

The first round and the wings will be on me!! ☺️??

I think it’s time for that drink and those wings.. ?

But is not simply “you like what you like”.... There’s a REASON WHY you like what you like.... and that source of that reasoning is the elephant in the room that no one wants to address.

I see your point. I just find it funny when people say, “why don’t black people just do this...” as if it’s that simple, easy, and possible....there are institutionalized laws, regulations and policies put in place to disenfranchise people.

And a drink would be great.... minus the wings (I’ve never been a fan of wings) ..... lol

But isn’t “cherry picking”, what’s taking place, when people soften their prejudices, by rebranding them as “preferences”? ???