Monarchy79

I agree with that. no person is perfect. I just find it to be shameful and disrespectful to carelessly slander a man’s name, immediately after he and his daughter dies and they haven’t even been fully put to rest yet. Let the casket close.. let the soil he’s buried in at least dry.... just let the man Rest In Peace.

My take on digging up “dirt” on someone who has died, and hasn’t even been buried yet: [MEDIA=instagram]B76Vf8WBm2_[/MEDIA]

You are most certainly a clASS Act..... ?

I’m curious as to what things look like from within your “glass house”.? ???

As an aside, for future reference, I want to strongly suggest that if anyone has had an experience of HE/MT or anything more with a massage therapist that works in a spa and is confirmed to be lisenced, please do not post that experience anywhere and just keep it as a secret . Your personal experience could spread like wildfire and the massage therapists’ license and business could be negatively impacted.

Bottom line up front... many of these guys are serving guys the “blue ball” treatment, and they are totally aware of it. lol

No one literally thought that sipping a Pepsi would get them in the bed with Cindy Crawford, nor did they literally think that smoking a cigarette would get them laid by Tom Selleck.... However, looking on rentmasseur, and seeing a shirtless guy oozing in pictures, and posting ads telling prospective clients how good he’ll make them feel would leave the client to believe that he’d leave “happy”.... There’s a difference between advertising imagery, and false advertisement through innuendo lol.

Many of those cruises have more available drugs and hallucinogens on them than a 1990s rave. A toxicology report could uncover a mix of drugs in the guy’s system that could have definitely altered his normal function of thinking and perception of reality.

Hello, and happy belated new year!!! I totally see your points. However.... 1.) “Yes Ivo (and his partner Petar) may be flirty to entice you to come back” Why even flirt in the first place? Telling a man your massage is “strictly therapeutic” then flirting with him, is sending a mixed message. Are they selling a service? Or selling hope and anticipation? ??? 2.) “ They are business men and looking to attract clients. When I was a good looking and strapping young buck in my 20s, my boss at the software company where I worked...used to drag me along to conferences to work the sales booth. Tactics to bring in the customers that might otherwise had passed our booth by. It's the business way.” I think your scenario are a bit of “apples and oranges” here. The difference is that at those conferences, there was no direct expectation of a sexual/sensorial act occurring because your line of business didn’t involve that. With the areas of massage, the range is wide (sports, therapeutic, tantric, etc.) so to reel in customers with sex appeal, or attraction is misleading. I will personally tell you that I get sports/therapeutic massages from a 65-70 year old man, who is constantly booked, and does amazing work, from all types of clients. Males and females of all walks of life patronize him. He doesn’t need to target a demographic with what he thinks will “reel them in”. He doesn’t need to allude to any type of service other than what he provides. In the world of massage, all you have to do is be good at it in order to grow your business. Nothing more, nothing less. When I want a masssage that teeters (and crosses), the realm of sensuality and eroticism, I know exactly who to go to, for that....?? 3.) The fact that Ivo and Ian have to “clarify” their boundaries is a clear indication that their advertising is misleading. No man in his right mind would go into a traditional, therapeutic spa and ask if the massage therapist will be butt naked and will they play with their butt, balls and schlong.... These guys get this questioning because the methods and location of their advertising alludes to “something more”. They know this, and it’s deceptive. They should run their businesses based on integrity, and skill.... not innuendo and sex appeal.

One more point to these masseurs... If you know you are “strictly therapeutic”, Then: 1.) advertise on a site that promotes therapeutic massage (i.e. massage finder) 2.) work in a spa 3.) stop advertising in shirtless, “innuendo”-style pics. 4.) create your own practice and site where you can specify therapeutic massage... but to advertise on sites where sensorial massage practices are alluded to, is a way of leading people on... I refuse to fall for it.

because in situations like this, you may continue to get snookered ..... the anticipation of something more happening keeps you going back. the carrot continues to dangle. I had about 4 massages with another guy (although he was good at massage skills) left me with the false sense of anticipation. I stopped going to him.... won’t be a 5th time. Personally, it annoys me anytime someone mentions Ivo or Ian.... they’re both notorious teasers and should be ashamed of themselves.

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I recently met him, and can confirm all the good things said about this guy are true. Also, the pics don’t do him proper justice. He looks fantastic in person.

Thanks and Happy New Year!!! It’s ironic that he looks much younger in that pic. I saw him (in person, in passing) about a month ago.... He looks much better in person than he does in that picture on Mustard Seed’s website.

Hello crew, has anyone tried Juan at Mustard Seed? If so, PM me, as I’d like to try him out.

Please excuse me for misinterpreting your request for citations. My apologies. I recently saw another posting of yours and realized that you provide citations for points you make as well. Respectfully, M

Because the masseur may want to play with your prostate, or at least eat your cakes......

I PM’ed you. Check your messages.

Nice try Willie.... You’re entirely too “smart” and observant not to know I’m black.... Did you think I photoshopped my picture with the “chocolate enhancement feature” in my profile pic? Plus, when you read my posts, you also read the one where the other guy sarcastically asked if I was @mocha’s brother, who is also obviously black. I thought we talked about “playing dumb” earlier today. I guess I can now ask you how long have you been on this forum ?

Now look who is “playing dumb”.... ?

And that’s very sweet of you to defend Unicorn.... I’m actually impressed at how a group of old, bigoted , gay white men can unite in the name of “addressing”, a black man who doesn’t “know his place,” by refusing to shut up an concede?? Trust me, I truly understand.... for the few of you who would even entertain a black guy, his role in your eyes is to be seen, providing an exploitative sexual service, and to not be heard. Maybe that’s why some of you are so triggered by my posts... (and @Mocha, my long lost brother) lol.

First off, I’m too smart to “play dumb” Secondly, if you were smart, you’d understand my question, as being a “Doctor”, can mean many things. One can have a Doctorate in many areas. Learning that this man is an MD disturbs me. I hope that if he even serves a diverse population, that he’s providing the appropriate care to them. from the elitist, prejudiced vibe of his posts in this thread, I seriously doubt it.

He’s not a troll ... to you....

Back the to question at hand: A “doctor” in what capacity?

That information shows on my profile. Furthermore, Unicorn has never trolled me until today, so I would have no reason to know anything about the components of his resume.