Monarchy79

Those specified physical reactions you’ve defined are in-deed real, but they are NOT “falling in love”. “Falling in Love”, is the EMOTIONAL description given to summarize the physical reactions you noted. NOTE: My all caps are not intended to equate yelling, but just to place emphasis on specific words in my posting.

The irony of this, is that I could literally say the exact same thing about a wooded park I jogged by about a month ago....

DC’s last existing bathhouse (The Crew Club) closed earlier this year. No more BathHouses in DC .

No problem my friend. The truth is that Escorts and Masseurs typically are easy to “fall in love” with. They literally embody the imaginative ideas we fantasize about when it comes to men, love and sex. They also fill in the gaps where regular guys may disappoint us. They touch all of the bases where, dating/mating, and dealing with regular men (In bars/social situations and dating apps) fail... Better bodies Better grooming and hygiene Better sex They know where, how and when to touch you. All of these things could make a man’s head spin. The key is staying grounded in logic and reality.

I know I’m going to get grief for saying this, but the idea of “falling in love”, is just as imaginary as believing in the tooth fairy. The masseur/escort is making you feel good, and you’re connecting those physical effects with a metaphysical IDEA, that you’re solely creating in your head. Disconnect the “high”, you’re getting from the pleasure of the experience, and accept the moments for what they are: Pure physical pleasure; nothing more, and nothing less. To help you bring yourself back to reality on this, make it a habit to remind yourself that your provider is making his other customers feel just as good, as he’s making you feel. He’s simply doing a fantastic job!!!

Thanks!!!!

Hello all, As Kris will be in my town the end of this week,wanted to know if he travelled with a table, when you all booked massages with him. Thanks!!!

Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one. However, that doesn’t indicate that you have to BE an asshole.....

Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one. However, that doesn’t indicate that you have to BE an asshole.....

Mean spirited, shady, disrespectful, snarky, and unkind.... Totally uncalled for.

Mean spirited, shady, disrespectful, snarky, and unkind.... Totally uncalled for.

I was going to suggest this a while ago to you... Have you ever considered getting a mentor? Seriously, a mentor. In every other field of business, a mentor can guide you in achieving your goals, succeeding, and avoiding possible pitfalls. I’m certain there are successful pros, who have done well, and could advise you on strategizing a new blueprint for ongoing success. At the least, there are other guys on this forum, who are in the business, and seem to be avoiding some of the issues your having. They could possibly be a good resource of advising to you. I wouldn’t see any harm in addressing these issues in the “ask an escort”, section of this site.

Let the man vent. This is a forum.

Touche’ However, I wasn’t implying that jail is good for one’s health, in a general sense. I was using those who are incarcerated as the polar opposite of celebrities who have money, access and freedom. Prisoners have none of these luxuries, yet can preserve themselves very well.

I somewhat respectfully disagree. a lot of people chalk up celebrities’ “self-preservation”, simply to chefs, personal trainers and their wealth, as a means of dismissing these resources as an excuse for “regular” people to age badly, and get out of shape. The truth is that there are fat,wrinkled, rich celebrities who prematurely age as well. No amount of money or level of celebrity can outweigh good ole discipline. Discipline to: 1.) avoid alcohol and drugs 2.) stay out of the sun 3.) workout regularly 4.) have a healthy diet Want to know the other group of people that age VERY well? Well this group has absolutely no money, no personal trainers or chefs.... Prisoners, yes.... prisoners. Long-term prisoners have a simple diet, and exercise regularly, mostly calisthenics.. and due to their living “situation”, stay out of the sun too.. LOL... The lesson is that we can all take better care of ourselves and be the best we can be.

Warning: I have an opinion that’s probably going to be disliked..... ? 1.) I personally see nothing wrong with the masseur checking his phone, as he’s warming up the oil. As I would consider that to be the preparatory stage, and during that time the massage hasn’t actually started, what’s the big deal? For all we know, he could be putting his phone on airplane mode, or turning it off while warning the oil, so you both won’t be disturbed once the massage actually starts. 2.) The OP clearly stated that he doesn’t patronize this masseur for the massage at all, as his patronage is basically for the sensual aspects, and literally called the masseurs’ massage skills “mediocre”. 3.) You also said that you’re getting a discount for an already well-priced massage. With all of that said.... my question to you, is why would you want an additional 10-15 minutes of “mediocre”, massage time? And why feel bad for paying the low rate that’s further discounted? Sounds to me like everything equals out. 1.) You get a discount rate 2.) He gets your patronage 3.) You get your rocks off 4.) He gets to skimp on skills (and a few minutes of massage time) Everybody wins

Bumping once more. Has anyone tried this guy yet?

Not all twinks are the same. Some understand the shelf-life we all will face, and either: 1.) Work on their bodies, health, and looks, to stretch out their shelf-life 2.)Link up with a good sugar-daddy,or benefactor to marry, or. 3.) Focus on a career route, or education to serve as a “plan b”, as they get older. The kicker is that, as we all get older, we wise up... Twinks realize that looks didn’t necessarily benefit them as much as they originally expected, and us “regular” folks realize that we were actually hotter than we thought we were. An old fool can come in any shape, size, or level of appearance. The key is understanding who you are, and capitalizing on your best attributes while you are at your prime (looks, brains, body, or other).

Dude, Contracting STDs is not like catching the common cold.... when they are “cured”, they can have long-lasting-effects to the body and the immune system, especially as some STDs have symptoms that don’t surface immediately. To continuously contract STDs and nonchalantly get them cured is not advisable. I personally know of two guys who are promiscuous ,“allergic” to condoms, have casually contracted and recovered from numerous STDs for at least 20 years and chalked it up as simply an “activity-based-hazard”, from being sexual. We are now in our 40s, and both of them suffer from non-describable-auto-immune diseases, that has phases of affecting them greatly. They can’t tell me that the consistent abuse to their cells, and organs from regularly transmitting STDs did not impact them in some kind of way.

Just apply the understanding with the straight “birth control pill”, bareback crowd, and it will possibly give you a better understanding. It’s a human form of rationalization, where one is willing to take one “gamble”, since the other major “gamble”, is no longer a factor. So just like straight people go bareback and risk contracting “cureable”, STDs, because the “pill”, eliminates the risk of pregnancy, gays go bareback and risk contracting those same STDs because the PrEP pill eliminates the risk of HIV transmission.

Being attractive is quite relative... What usually puts successful escorts above “attractive” guys who don’t escort, is that they “complete the circle.” And which is also why there are many attractive eligible men who’d rather entertain escorts than bother with the general dating/mating scene.... Here’s the thing about general “attractive”’guys: 1.) The sex can be bad: Yes, there are great looking guys who are terrible in the bedroom. The possibility of guaranteed good sex with an attractive escort is significantly higher. 2.) The grooming is off: I’ve seen so many “attractive”, guys, who have bad breath, have dirty fingernails, feet reek or corn chips, and hair hasn’t been washed in forever. Wax in the ears and lent in the navel (And possibly on his nuts too). However, a man, whose body is his business, is typically impeccably groomed and hygiene is spotless. 3.) Personality is terrible: There are a lot of great looking guys, who have the brain of a Brazil nut. Now look at the threads discussing escorts on this site, where guys will discuss how great the guy is “to talk too”. Then look at the escorts who comment on the threads. 90% of their posts are forthcoming contributions that are engaging and at least provoked some thought. With all of that said, an “attractive”guy, who is judging you on your personal business decisions, really isn’t “all that”, and his insecure ass knows it, which is why he’s judging you.... Because no one would pay for his “attractive”, ass in the first place.

The last dude I told that I see him for more than his “soul killing” profession, was a public defender... lol

Ugh... scene queens... that vapid species of “gay”, that will suck the soul out of you, like barnacles suck the enamel off of boats.... I ditched any associate I deemed a “scene queen” close to 10 years ago... ran into one before the pandemic. He was shocked at how I looked exactly the same as I did 10 years ago... When he asked me my “anti-aging”, secret, I told him this: “Eliminating toxic people from my life”. As he just asked mwhy I disappeared, he realized that my quoted response answered both of his questions. And he’s now an old scene queen.... lol

Translation: The gays who are living from “check-to-check”, staging their over-embellished “careers”, and falsely represented lives on social media....

Really? I find it ironic how a guy can judge you for hiring, when there are so many guys out here, in “relationships”, having guys basically living off of them, and aren’t even getting sex!!!