Monarchy79

No you don’t.... ?

You show your true colors and personality in every single thread...... You’re such a Gem....?

I tried him out this week. 90 minute massage. Ultimate professional experience. One of the best massages I’ve had in a while (and I already booked my next appointment). If you workout a lot, or are an athlete, he’s perfect for sports massage and therapeutic massage. His certs are real and he knows what he’s doing. Spotlessly clean space, and he worked out a knot in my shoulder, that I couldn’t seem to shake off myself. He also has the Theragun, and cupping options as well. Sexy guy, and is taller than he appears in his pics (if that matters to you). However.... There was nothing “extra” or “naughty” that occurred with me, and I didn’t care. The massage was THAT good.

I’ve found that people often feel “empty”, when they are looking for others to “fulfill” that emptiness. Whether it’s an escort, masseur, lover, spouse, friend, family member, or colleague.... Expect nothing from them... especially not emotional validation. Enjoy your experiences with all of them for the moment, read nothing into it, make no assumptions, and be happy.

Entertaining escorts isn’t the issue... just one of the symptoms. Seek some therapy, figure out the root cause to your emptiness, and get better.

That’s it... First you pledge your allegiance to your bullshit racist ideologies.. and now you’re making snarky remarks on someone’s size, whom you don’t even know. And you’ve made posts on other threads, calling people fat, and other childish names.... You are an ignorant, delusional, aged twink, whose FAR past your prime and is trying to hold on to whatever crumbs of self-proclaimed “admiration”, you had probably more than twenty years ago. Take your insults, and your ignorance and shove them all the way up your filthy, miserable, EuroTrash ass.

If you can’t take the heat... then get out of the Kitchen....

Ummm no...First...I’d suggest dislodging your head out of your butt.... Then...... taking a look in the mirror and asking yourself why you have your “preferences.... and examining the roots of your prejudices. You can literally do this without having sex with anyone. You keep focusing on the “What”..... We are focused on the “WHY”. Which is the part of this discussion you have ducked, dodged and avoided THE ENTIRE TIME.

Well.... At least you got to a point of standing in your truth. congratulations!!

One final note.... Dressing up racial biases by calling them “preferences”, is just as effective as a pimp dressing up his whore in Chanel. You’re still a racist, and she’s still a whore... -M-

Baby, You can dress up your biases however you choose to, to make yourself sleep well at night... that’s your prerogative. But Helen Keller, Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder see what we all see.... You are a prejudiced, biased, racist. Have an outstanding weekend. ?

Don’t you mean Provincetown POLAR Bear Week attendees? ? Where there’s .... 95% Polar Bear ✊? 5% Grizzly Bear ✊? 5% Panda Bear✊ ??? So much for “diversity”

White gay bears crack me up... You fight for “equality”, over image, to refute the body fascism, perpetuated by the waxed and pruned “muscle twink”, you vehemently loathe, all to create your own scene that literally MIRRORS the scene that you accused of bias.... Now that’s the true irony... https://sdlgbtn.com/news/2018/06/26/public-facebook-bear-community-group-no-africans-no-asians

And about those liberated bears....? https://instinctmagazine.com/new-article-calls-out-lack-of-diversity-in-the-marketing-of-bear-circuit-events/

I didn’t say that, you did.....

You’re projecting your own body image issues and injecting that into this discussion (which isn’t relevant)..... Even in Provincetown, among a group of liberated bears of all shapes and sizes, the issue of race is still a problem. My point of mentioning “hot guys”, wasn’t meant to shame fat, hairy, or any other body type.... it was in response to pictures posted, that even race supersedes one’s general sense of attraction to characteristics anyone can have. So to your point.... Even in a group of hairy-backed, barrel-bellied bears, there will still be Asians, Latinos, and Blacks of the SAME body type, that will be rejected because of their race, as its “just a preference”.....

Ummm..... You originally posted your “preferences”, on this forum, I didn’t.

Ahhh, Racial “preference”, sprinkled with a little bit of ageism too.... Is it Peter Pan you seek, my friend? ?

Sexual orientation, or sexual preference towards a gender, is scientifically proven to be genetic, metaphysical, and innate. Racial preference, is scientifically, psychologically, and sociologically proven to be a learned behavior. The two are not the same. Believe it or not, your attraction to Latin men, is learned, and at some point in your life, the idea of Latin men being sexy, came from a source of influence. I’m not saying this is good or bad, but you were not born with that preference.

That wasn’t his purpose for posting those pictures. what I got from him was this.... Most guys are attracted to guys that are hot. (Smooth skin, beautiful bodies, beautiful faces).... To reject any of those guys, simply based on their race, proves that the idea of preference is not only ridiculous, but flat out racist.... @The_Impeccable_G , further proved this theory...out of all of the gorgeous white guys out there (I don’t have any racial preferences, I like them all), he posts a pic of a somewhat cute, but average looking white guy, with no physique, basically telling the world that he’d reject any of those hot guys of color, to prefer that, to support his racist ideologies. The point is that when someone is racist, or has “preferences”, their biases are even stronger than one’s general sense of beauty standards.... they throw that all away, just to be with someone white.

We know you would..... ?

Both of these guys, are drop dead gorgeous..... purely hot..... Anyone who would pull a “No thanks, just a preference” with these guys, clearly shows that there’s a PROBLEM.

And is your next statement going to be “One of my closest friends are black”? ???? Dude, you’re going to have to find better “racist minimizing”, cliches....

I’m not distorting this.... I’m examining it. 1.) Your Asian colleagues are not your friends. They are people whom you are pleasant, polite, and “nice” to. I’m sure they might not even know you’re gay, let alone know that you scoff are the mere idea of dating one of ....”them”... lol 2). Entertaining Asian customers is transactional, and has absolutely no relevance to this discussion. 3.) The core group of white guys, who you let your hair down with, keep it real with, and speak freely with are your friends... And there’s nothing wrong with any of this...... Just don’t try and swerve around loosely using the word “friend”, with all of these groups of people

THIS... Couldn’t have stated it better... What’s scary isn’t the sexual preferences... what’s scary is the broadening trickle-down effect of every other aspect of life that’s impacted by these “preferences”.....It makes me think of: 1). A qualified Asian man who was turned down for a job he was overqualified for, because he wasn’t a “fit”, among the majority white organization... “just a preference” 2.) The many black small businesses who can’t get start up funding because someone behind the scene as a bank, turned down their loan due to a “gut feeling”. “Just a preference” 3.) The white juror, who gave a guilty verdict to an innocent Hispanic man, with no conclusive evidence, but because of his hunch and “feelings”, about immigrants ... “just a preference” Racial preference, bigotry, bias, and discrimination, are rarely compartmentalized. And most white men, who say they don’t like Asians, blacks, or Hispanics sexually, typically live a Eurocentric life... their friends are white, the people they employ are white, their world is white. And it’s whitewashed with privilege and denial.