Monarchy79

Oh dear grasshopper, You should know by know that people generally don’t like the truth. lol Most friendships, courtships, arrangements,entanglements, and relationships are based on pleasant untruths, or purposeful omissions of obvious things that may hurt the other person’s feelings. Remember that your interaction with this guy started from a transactional arrangement, that gave him a sense of confidence, by being entertained by you. By your remaining silent on his dental issues, he could continue to ignore the issue and maintain some level of denial and cognitive dissonance, and feel great about himself. Your honesty was literally like snatching a blanket off of a cold naked body in the middle of the night. You exposed him with ultimate truth, which is hard for him to face. Always be careful with the truth and it’s impacts. In life, determine which option will have the better result for you (and others), and if it’s telling a few little soft lies, then lie. I know this from experience, as I used to be “Mr. Honesty”. It got me a lot of respect, but got me a lot of bitter, damaged haters too. Now I’m nice, unbothered, conveniently dishonest when it helps someone else “save face”, and we all win. They get to peacefully live in their delusions, and I get to be the “Nice Guy”. ☺️

But there are always solutions/alternatives to every situation. I wasn’t speaking in absolutes, just noting alternatives that many people use, that have been proven to work.

Easy: 1.) Live in an outer Burrough 2.) Live in Jersey City 3.) Get a side hustle 4.) Sublease through someone with a rent-controlled apartment 5.) Live in a Pre-War Building A lot of times, the “statistics”, for apartments is centralized in a few popular areas within that City. Of course living in lower Manhattan will be expensive, as it comes with the territory, but there are alternatives. The key of the amount of expense you’re willing to sacrifice in any city is based on trade-offs. 1.) Do you want to live in the “Nucleus” of that City? Then the price will go up. 2.) Do you need specific amenities in your home? Washer/dryer, doorman, pool, etc? Then the price will go up. All of these factors must be examined, in order to leverage pricing.

Please post this on every “inquiry”, thread please. ??

I’ll put it like this: With a massage, the only thing you’re guaranteed is a massage And just because a reviewer on these forums may have had a little fun with a masseur, doesn’t guarantee that it’s going to happen to anyone else. It may hint to the possibilities of the type of massage given, but it doesn’t entitle any future client of anything else, beyond a massage. So the idea of “Since he did it to him, means he’s going to do the same to me.” Is a setup for disappointment, and it’s not fair to the masseur either.

Rob is a good Massage Guy. Period. When he travels, he should bring his table with him (in my opinion). most of the time, when you see a thread of the same questions asked over and over, guys are looking for one thing: A GUARANTEED H.E. If you want a guaranteed H.E., just hire an escort.

It truly depends on various factors.... I love both... I will say that beards have given many men, who are lacking in the looks department and extra few points at times too ?.... I’ve seen many guys who have literally gone from “yuck”, to “yum”, all due to growing a beard. So if you’re interested in dating a guy with a beard, make sure you know what he looked like before the beard, because once he shaves it, you could be looking at an entirely different person...

Check out Reno Gold, This dude makes hundreds of thousands of $$$ annually, and probably has never had actually sex with anyone (escorting), a day in his life.

Easy answer.... People like @The_Incorrigible_G, take pride in his ways. It amplifies his pompous, Eurocentric, obnoxious, pseudo-elitist, attitude, which has been ingrained in his minuscule brain since he was just a little young twit, in prep-school. His belief systems run through his blue veins, and every time he posts on these threads, calling people fat, or talking about who he dislikes (as if we care), it’s a false form of empowerment for him, and gives him a temporary satisfaction of feeling that he’s better than someone else, when in fact, he’s trying to overcompensate for his own shortcomings. Most people who behave like he does online, fall under this description. He’s basically a sociopathic, narcissistic, jerk, who uses these forums to further strengthen his cognitive dissonance, along with his delusions of grandeur.... This is why he talks so much about his obsession with young, skinny, model-ish, white twinks... because deep down in his limited psyche, he wishes he were one.

Thats not why you don’t like me... ?..... And we know each other quite well.... from our previous thread.... Shall I remind you?

No you don’t.... ?

You show your true colors and personality in every single thread...... You’re such a Gem....?

I tried him out this week. 90 minute massage. Ultimate professional experience. One of the best massages I’ve had in a while (and I already booked my next appointment). If you workout a lot, or are an athlete, he’s perfect for sports massage and therapeutic massage. His certs are real and he knows what he’s doing. Spotlessly clean space, and he worked out a knot in my shoulder, that I couldn’t seem to shake off myself. He also has the Theragun, and cupping options as well. Sexy guy, and is taller than he appears in his pics (if that matters to you). However.... There was nothing “extra” or “naughty” that occurred with me, and I didn’t care. The massage was THAT good.

I’ve found that people often feel “empty”, when they are looking for others to “fulfill” that emptiness. Whether it’s an escort, masseur, lover, spouse, friend, family member, or colleague.... Expect nothing from them... especially not emotional validation. Enjoy your experiences with all of them for the moment, read nothing into it, make no assumptions, and be happy.

Entertaining escorts isn’t the issue... just one of the symptoms. Seek some therapy, figure out the root cause to your emptiness, and get better.

That’s it... First you pledge your allegiance to your bullshit racist ideologies.. and now you’re making snarky remarks on someone’s size, whom you don’t even know. And you’ve made posts on other threads, calling people fat, and other childish names.... You are an ignorant, delusional, aged twink, whose FAR past your prime and is trying to hold on to whatever crumbs of self-proclaimed “admiration”, you had probably more than twenty years ago. Take your insults, and your ignorance and shove them all the way up your filthy, miserable, EuroTrash ass.

If you can’t take the heat... then get out of the Kitchen....

Ummm no...First...I’d suggest dislodging your head out of your butt.... Then...... taking a look in the mirror and asking yourself why you have your “preferences.... and examining the roots of your prejudices. You can literally do this without having sex with anyone. You keep focusing on the “What”..... We are focused on the “WHY”. Which is the part of this discussion you have ducked, dodged and avoided THE ENTIRE TIME.

Well.... At least you got to a point of standing in your truth. congratulations!!

One final note.... Dressing up racial biases by calling them “preferences”, is just as effective as a pimp dressing up his whore in Chanel. You’re still a racist, and she’s still a whore... -M-

Baby, You can dress up your biases however you choose to, to make yourself sleep well at night... that’s your prerogative. But Helen Keller, Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder see what we all see.... You are a prejudiced, biased, racist. Have an outstanding weekend. ?

Don’t you mean Provincetown POLAR Bear Week attendees? ? Where there’s .... 95% Polar Bear ✊? 5% Grizzly Bear ✊? 5% Panda Bear✊ ??? So much for “diversity”

White gay bears crack me up... You fight for “equality”, over image, to refute the body fascism, perpetuated by the waxed and pruned “muscle twink”, you vehemently loathe, all to create your own scene that literally MIRRORS the scene that you accused of bias.... Now that’s the true irony... https://sdlgbtn.com/news/2018/06/26/public-facebook-bear-community-group-no-africans-no-asians

And about those liberated bears....? https://instinctmagazine.com/new-article-calls-out-lack-of-diversity-in-the-marketing-of-bear-circuit-events/

I didn’t say that, you did.....