Monarchy79

The same “associate”, of mine used to workout together at a very “gay”, gym. One of the guys who would take this indoor cycling class every week, was very friendly, but my friend found out he was an escort. When he showed me the guy’s Rentmen profile, as if to judge him... I explained to him that he probably does more in the gym steam-room FOR FREE, than the escort gets paid TOP DOLLAR to do... He never mentioned that escort again.

I once had a coworker, who found out that a new hire who joined the organization, had a past in porn. He was shocked, as if to “clutch his pearls.” When I reminded him that he has probably spent more time on his hands and knees (with his pants down to his ankles, in THIS OFFICE BUILDING), than the former porn actor has probably spent on film, he quickly adjusted his “judgments”. I told him this: “If you mention this guy’s past career to anyone, I’ll mention your past indiscretions, which involved sexual activities with your subordinates AND contractors.” Beware of those who are extremely judgmental and present a “high”’moral compass. Those are the ones with the most skeletons in their closets.

I refuse to patronize anyone who doesn’t respect my time. That includes dentists, doctors, barbers/stylists, masseurs, etc. What infuriated me the most about Doctors and Dentists, is that they are adamant about YOU being on time, all to leave you sitting around, while they cram in appointments like cattle. Its disrespectful, dismissive and unprofessional.

Massage guys in a spa, I tip Independent massage guys, I tip I tip both for different reasons. I tip both for their time The Spa guys get tipped because they only get a percentage of the rate I’m paying. The Independent guys get tipped for all of the expenses they pay out of pocket to operate.... massage linens, hotel rooms/Air BnBs (if they’re traveling), gas, etc. (if I’m hosting).....Plus they always usually are generous with the time with me. Plus, they are generous with all of the other things we talk about on these threads too ?

Simply gorgeous. ?

ASPCA ? ? ❤️

I’ve always found trans men to be attractive. They seem to take the extra effort to hone in on their masculinity and sexiness, and demeanor.

The gay bars isn’t all that’s dying. The art of dating and mating is dying too. From the experience I mentioned earlier about how some guys behave in bars, to the socially inept proclivities many guys seem to have... I firmly believe that this is why the escorts, and masseurs will ALWAYS be in business.... It’s just easier and less of a headache... From awkward dates, to guys with zero conversational skills, and who are bad in bed, it just seems that it’s more of a guarantee to have a pleasurable experience from a provider. Most guys don’t hire out of desperation. They hire out of convenience. I haven’t used a dating/mating app in years, and don’t plan to in the future either.

Love that entire block!!!! I would usually end up a Larry’s having a few drinks after eating (and drinking) at Bar Charley (which is diagonally across the street.

Funny story about guys and their phones in bars.... At the time, I had the scruff app, and I was at a bar on a Saturday night. My phone was in my pocket, and kept buzzing. A really attractive guy was sending me messages. What was silly, was that this same guy, looked me dead in the eye when I came in the bar, said absolutely nothing to me, and resumed to using his phone. I was even right beside him, ordering a drink (for at least three more minutes). This clown waited for me to go to the other side of the bar, and then sends me a message.

So you’re basically saying that you like dogs better, because they’re cheap labor....

Many people say the same thing about their spouses.... ???

I’m the same way with men... lol

Also, just like dogs, cats can be very protective of those they care about... especially children:

I feel like cats and dogs are perceptive of “reading”, people, but cats have an innate “sixth sense” with it.

Although the dude on the rent men ad named himself “Ridickulous”, he’s not the “Ridiculous”, that was on RHOA. He’s known for stripping (and sucking his own dick during performances), but I don’t think he escorts. https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1408200569

I love both. (But I’ll admit that I’m more “pets over humans”) ..... For those that say that dogs are more loyal, I disagree. However, I think that the loyalty is different. Dogs give their loyalty unconditionally. A cat’s loyalty is conditional, and is returned based on the care that you give them. Many humans like the power and control they have over dogs.... with cats, the exchange of power is different, and the ego of your average, typical, narcissistic human, can’t handle that. Many humans dislike cats, for many assumed reasons. Ironically, the “traits”, they seem to hate about cats are subconsciously a reflection of their own traits and faults. I had a former associate who hated cats because he felt they were sneaky and dishonest. Well this guy was a pathological liar, and regularly cheated on his husband. lol... He also got a kick out of being domineering to his dog.

I’ve found that to be far more true about humans....

Facts!!! And this definitely falls under the category of “be careful what you ask for”. We wanted the rights of straights, but I’m sure many are thinking twice of wanting their way of life.... lol... The underground, gay clubs of the past were tons of fun, and the fact that my only current form of social American entertainment (prior to COVID-19) is a good brunch, makes me laugh and frown at the same time. As cities “Improve”, they lose their sleaze, but they also lose that grit and authenticity that made urban nightlife so much fun (both straight and gay nightclubs) I’m glad I partied when I did... I never thought it would actually come to a literal END. ?

If you can have a regular arrangement with an escort, masseur, CMT, or other “personal services” provider, then the affordability issue with dental care is moot.

I’m not sure if this one has been posted previously, but in case some of you haven’t seen this.... I consider this to be one of the best tandem massage videos ever... https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f33aeed69a46

Good for him. I haven’t hired an escort yet..... but always wanted him.

Speaking of David Benjamin, Has anyone seen him lately? I can’t find anything current on him online

I just added him to my “list”, on RM. Masseurs like him are a rare gem. I wish there were more like him in the US

Another possible solution to flat roofs are to make them “green roofs” https://www.sempergreen.com/en/solutions/green-roofs/green-roof-benefits