Monarchy79

???? You’re right!!! And I’ll admit that I’m a bit childish when it comes to the “bathroom”, situations....

I used to have a workplace infatuation with a guy... I had absolutely no intent on taking any action on it. However, my fantasies all went down the drain in the men’s room. My office had somewhat of a small men’s room. I go in to wash my hands and I hear and smell the most explosive, foul, flatulence ever known to man!!!???.. it smelled like whomever was on that commode, had the diet of a possum!!!???? Then out of the stall, proudly walking out, after relieving himself of 10+ lbs of putrid waste was the “fantasy” dude!!!!??? My dreams were now a dream deferred.... ??? Hopefully your dreams will somehow get “deferred” too. Then you’ll be able to focus and keep yourself out of trouble.

Never shit where you eat.....

Said like a true HUSSY... ????

Bottom Line: The dude is trying to hustle you. Take your money elsewhere. Plenty of masseurs drop those briefs without the haggling.

Can anyone confirm if he uses a table, or a bed?

Thank You!!! I love these videos!!!

First... I love your posts and I truly appreciate your sharing. It’s honest, insightful, and transparent. That takes a lot of courage.... Now in terms of this situation.... I must tell you (with love ❤) that this is your fault.. LOL... Here’s why: The moment you started doing things within him outside of the structure of sex, and the confines of the pleasurable (yet) transactional activities, he was able to re-define your “Relationship” (whether you confirmed it verbally or not). Unfortunately, you’re now able to see why this man is also single... he’s cheap, and has no sense of ettiquette. If you were his boyfriend, or you two were truly dating, that would have been even more of a reason for him to at least offer to cover some of your expenses to come and see him. To be honest, as the relationship progressed, he should have expected his role to be that of a sugar daddy.... Although you were technically correct in your actions and beliefs in this scenario, AND the scenario with the other guy with dental issues, I think you haven’t grasped the idea of “reality”. This is what I mean: A persons reality is created in their own mind. Their reality can be filled with lies, delusions, ridiculous principles, and beliefs that make absolutely no sense, but if they confirm it as their reality, it’s “real”, to them. Now for you, you’re scratching your head, as in many cases, their reality is not only ridiculous, but you wind up even more frustrated as you don’t see any logic in it. That’s because there is no logic. Remember that you are in the business of fantasy. your experiences with your client base isn’t technically real, your “feelings” for them aren’t exactly “real”, and the confidence they may have about their own image, by being sexed by a beautiful guy isn’t real either (this is specifically why he was “offended” at the idea of being a sugar daddy... his pride and delusions) Once you start giving these guys truth, honesty, and logic, it causes a total disconnect, because they’ve been living in total cognitive dissonance the entire time, until you brought forth reality and the truth like a ton of bricks....

I think that guys who are his type get a better experience with him. I definitely learned a very valuable lesson from that experience, so it’s all good ☺️??

Agreed. I’m sure he never took ad “designing“ into much consideration when he created his profile. lol

That’s fucking awesome!!! If people only remembers how much controversy that book caused when it came out!!!

Sidebar: I just looked at your Twitter: You have a copy of the Madonna “Sex” book, in MINT condition!!! YOU GO BOY!!!

Why can’t his dick just be a big fat dick? I think that’s his overall point. Even look in threads here... There are big white dicks on escorts and in photo threads everywhere. 90% of the time, they are recognized for simply what they are... nice, big, fat, dicks... or hot guys with big dicks.... minimal reference to BWC However, it seems to be only when a black man shows his dick, that it’s no longer just a dick... it’s a BBC, or a big BLACK dick. I was on another thread, which was about sexual racial preferences, and a commenter was discussing his friend’s desire for black men, but didn’t even respect them enough to refer to them as men... just continued to refer to them all as BBC.

Well.... Defining someone as a God can cross multiple ethnic backgrounds.... You can be a Greek God, and Egyptian God, etc. I’m thinking that (because he grouped the term “Stud”, along with the other terms he felt were offensive), he’s seeing the term “stud”, as a connotation to “Stud Horse”, as in “Buck”, which, once again, goes to another exploitative, sexual stereotype of black men. However, I do believe that when most guys call another guy a stud, it’s not with Ill intent. ☺ Hell, I’m sure many of us would call YOU a stud, for sure... and with total sincerity.

And I totally believe you.... and in SF, I’m not at all surprised.

No problem☺️. I don’t think he has a problem with anyone liking or desiring his dick.... just a problem with him being reduced to just a “big black dick.” Additionally, there’s a lot of historical contexts that go back hundreds of years, specifically referencing the sexual exploitation, fetishization, and animalistic, sub-human comparisons, made about a black man’s overall sexual prowess.... For a little trivia: “Scientists” in Europe determined that the size of a man’s penis, determined his level of intellect and civility, and the larger the penis, the more uncivilized he was considered to be and the more barbaric. Yes, a black man’s large penis was considered “proof” that he was a sub-human, animal.

@Jarrod_Uncut : If you ever run into a similar situation in the future, here’s a perfectly scripted response baby: “I’ve known you for so long, and truly cherish our friendship the way that it is. I don’t want to risk damaging that by changing that...Hope you under stand.” ???

To explain, The reason why he is averse to the word “cock”, is because in general terms, “cock”, is a word typically used by white men. More than likely, he prefers to use the word “dick” to refer to his penis. Furthermore, in his case, the use of the word “cock”, probably commonly links to the reference of the terms “big black cock”, which probably triggers his sense of feeling fetishized by white customers.

Oh dear grasshopper, You should know by know that people generally don’t like the truth. lol Most friendships, courtships, arrangements,entanglements, and relationships are based on pleasant untruths, or purposeful omissions of obvious things that may hurt the other person’s feelings. Remember that your interaction with this guy started from a transactional arrangement, that gave him a sense of confidence, by being entertained by you. By your remaining silent on his dental issues, he could continue to ignore the issue and maintain some level of denial and cognitive dissonance, and feel great about himself. Your honesty was literally like snatching a blanket off of a cold naked body in the middle of the night. You exposed him with ultimate truth, which is hard for him to face. Always be careful with the truth and it’s impacts. In life, determine which option will have the better result for you (and others), and if it’s telling a few little soft lies, then lie. I know this from experience, as I used to be “Mr. Honesty”. It got me a lot of respect, but got me a lot of bitter, damaged haters too. Now I’m nice, unbothered, conveniently dishonest when it helps someone else “save face”, and we all win. They get to peacefully live in their delusions, and I get to be the “Nice Guy”. ☺️

But there are always solutions/alternatives to every situation. I wasn’t speaking in absolutes, just noting alternatives that many people use, that have been proven to work.

Easy: 1.) Live in an outer Burrough 2.) Live in Jersey City 3.) Get a side hustle 4.) Sublease through someone with a rent-controlled apartment 5.) Live in a Pre-War Building A lot of times, the “statistics”, for apartments is centralized in a few popular areas within that City. Of course living in lower Manhattan will be expensive, as it comes with the territory, but there are alternatives. The key of the amount of expense you’re willing to sacrifice in any city is based on trade-offs. 1.) Do you want to live in the “Nucleus” of that City? Then the price will go up. 2.) Do you need specific amenities in your home? Washer/dryer, doorman, pool, etc? Then the price will go up. All of these factors must be examined, in order to leverage pricing.

Please post this on every “inquiry”, thread please. ??

I’ll put it like this: With a massage, the only thing you’re guaranteed is a massage And just because a reviewer on these forums may have had a little fun with a masseur, doesn’t guarantee that it’s going to happen to anyone else. It may hint to the possibilities of the type of massage given, but it doesn’t entitle any future client of anything else, beyond a massage. So the idea of “Since he did it to him, means he’s going to do the same to me.” Is a setup for disappointment, and it’s not fair to the masseur either.

Rob is a good Massage Guy. Period. When he travels, he should bring his table with him (in my opinion). most of the time, when you see a thread of the same questions asked over and over, guys are looking for one thing: A GUARANTEED H.E. If you want a guaranteed H.E., just hire an escort.

It truly depends on various factors.... I love both... I will say that beards have given many men, who are lacking in the looks department and extra few points at times too ?.... I’ve seen many guys who have literally gone from “yuck”, to “yum”, all due to growing a beard. So if you’re interested in dating a guy with a beard, make sure you know what he looked like before the beard, because once he shaves it, you could be looking at an entirely different person...