Monarchy79

This crowd is usually “tough”, for the right reasons....

Dude, How you objectified and criticized this man’s appearance is your opinion, and you’re entitled to that. You’re also entitled to keep your opinion to yourself. So man up and accept the backlash for being a douche. Furthermore, I’m sure that after many people looked at his profile, they liked his looks (I liked what I saw). How convenient for you to sit back from your screen in ANONYMITY, and have the unmitigated audacity to critique someone else’s looks. We don’t know what you look like, and I’m sure you wouldn’t appreciate it, if we criticized your looks, because of our “entitlement”, to share our insulting personal opinions. I’ll say this about people who critique those whose looks change as they get older... This man had his prime moment of being “hot”, and had magazines photo spreads to solidify that moment for him. The same people who are so easily to criticize, have never had that “moment”, but have been on the sidelines, busted and unattractive ALL of their lives. Let that sink in....

For anyone who is interested or curious, here’s a really good (related) documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bnBjzj7gfMQ

Theft is Theft. Period. Whether the item is of value to you (or not), is irrelevant. Many of you are seeing this as a “material” issue, and are trivializing it, because it was the theft of a cheap bottle of shower gel. I see this as a “character”, issue of the person who stole the bottle.

Sorry lol It’s all good babe, It happens to me all the time ☺️

Lol crack where ???????????. This one of the reason I prefer hiring it is safer most of the time because alot of these dudes on hook up apps lie and lie just to for you to suck their dick and sleep with you and a few weeks later ,hello herpes or other stds Your post accidentally misquoted both me and you....

The “your”, wasn’t my “your”. I never made a claim to any group, being a “high risk” group.

Dude, Catching an STD is one of the risks associated with having sex with ANYONE.

[quote="Obviously one would have to be an imbecile not to know that escorts are high risks for contracting STD's. Interesting take, as professional escorts are known to get tested more than non-escorts, and because of their self-awareness in regards to sexual health, are more likely to get treated faster if they have any symptoms... professional escorts are also known to get “full panel”, STD exams, where as your average “Joe” does not. Remember that if a sex worker gets an STD, they got it from a customer, who doesn’t seem to “fit” into your “high risk” group. I got another surprise for ya... escorts are more likely to use condoms... The sluts on those hook up apps, cruising spots, who will do any and everyone for free, are more of a risk of STD transmission, than a professional escort... NOTE: I said a professional escort, not a $20 street-trade-crack-whore....

No apologizes necessary. The forums are meant to share ideas and opinions, whether we agree or not. That’s how we learn. Sorry about the job loss. I wish you success in the new coming year. Have a safe holiday and don’t let the myth of loneliness get you down.

@BeefyDude: You stepped in shit twice, but you’re surprised that it still stinks....

Thanks ?

I had a massage with him a while back. It was somewhat of a strange experience, but I’d definitely give him another try.

Although I agree with you in theory, I don’t agree with you in reality... When hiring an escort, everyone “deserves”, a hot time, because that’s what you are literally paying for. But with a massage, you’re paying for a massage, which is all that you’re truly guaranteed. This is why the philosophy of the “YMMV”, comes into play.... How far a massage goes, contributes to various factors.... Let’s use yourself as an example. From your posts and some of the other discussions, you have a big, fat dick. Whether you believe it or not, your big, fat dick, has gotten you a lot of action on the massage table. There will be instances where that same masseur will not go any further than a therapeutic massage, on another client, as their dick may be smaller....To the contrary, there may be instances where you and other members of this forum have had the same masseur, and the other clients fucked him, but he never offered you to fuck him, because your dick was too big. In this instance, your big fat dick, may have been to your disadvantage. This works both ways for all of us sometimes. Body types, dick size, butt size, race, level of hairiness, height, even the way you smell, all plays into the preferences of that particular masseur, and how far things will go on that table. The key, however, is finding those providers where there is that connection. Once you find those, stick with them.

TBH, True attractiveness is “confirmed”, when a man can rock a beard AND look great with a clean shaven, bare face. Due to the beard craze, a lot of guys have gotten a bit of leverage, to be able to hide behind the beards.... I’ve seen too many instances where once a guy loses his beard, he loses ALL of his appeal, because he wasn’t much of a looker in the first place... So watch out!!! ?

Whooooo boy!!!! I could only imagine the topics!!!! 1.) No Shows 2.) Cheapskates 3.) Hygiene Issues 4.) Dirty Homes (for Outcalls) 5.) desperate and pushy for sex acts 6.) Creepy personalities and the list goes on!!!

Absolutely nothing.. he just likes to post random questions... His next thread will be titled: “Do any escorts know why the chicken crossed the road?”

Make sure to keep track of the no-shows, to ban them from future appointments. Shame on them.

Share that plan with all of us ... Congrats on the weight loss success!!!!

My approach isn’t passive-aggressive; it’s strategic ?. The OPs goal is to get back to getting Erotic massages again. If he chooses to be direct (putting the masseur in a corner) he’ll get a direct answer, which could shut the opportunity down forever, as the masseur was already turned off when he directly told him that he shared his experiences with him to others. By asking the direct question, he places the power in the masseur’s hands. By being strategic, he will possibly be able to manipulate the situation, as people’s minds don’t work based on general logic; they work on emotion, and it’s relationship to timing. Playing with the scenarios of timing and the masseurs thinking, gives the OP some leverage. I’ll tell you that I’ve been both direct and strategic in life... and it’s important to know when to use each tactic.... ☺️

I have a suggestion: Take a break from this masseur and find another one. Then book an appointment with him after some time goes by, with even more gym progress (show him what he’s missing), and then act aloof during the massage..... He will be all over your before you know it. The thing about guys who tease is this: Once the back and forth of teasing is over and you become too eager or too easy, he’ll lose interest.

I would respectfully advise against that. That puts the control and satisfaction in the masseur’s hands.... And the one thing that our forum friend could lose is his dignity.

[quote="gregg168, post: 2032744, member: 22916" It is my prerogative to keep on promoting these guys cause they are not just good bodyworkers however also very good friends. This right here is why you’re getting the feedback you’re getting. In these forums, people trust the integrity of their experiences with massage therapists, masseurs and other types of providers, because they are coming from a place of authenticity. Your friendship with these two massage therapists weakens the authenticity of your claims because there is a bias (although a positive one), formed from the foundation of your friendship to them. I think it’s fair to say that reviews and ratings from friends wouldn’t seem as credible as a joe blow off the street, as there’s an existing relationship there. That goes for any type of business. For example.... I have a friend who is a realtor, and I recommend him all the time. Not one of my home purchases were made through him, and although I respect his capabilities, a positive referral from someone who actually used his services, and do not have a personal affiliation with him, far outweighs mine. Now I’ve had a massage from Eli, and I can attest that he’s highly skilled. As I have no personal friendship with him, my assessment of his skills would outweigh yours... I hope you can understand that.

Well it was facing us, and I could feel it. It wasn’t literally in my face. It’s kinda hard to describe the set up.

Chiming in here. I’ve been to the Dentist twice in the past two months. One for a cleaning, and the other to replace some attachments for my Invisalign program. Each appointment required me to fill out an online questionnaire to confirm health status, etc. They closed the waiting area and only one customer was there at a time. Masks are required for everyone and the staff has masks and face shields on. Once there, I’m escorted to the bathroom to wash my hands. Once I get into the treatment room, I keep my mask on, until treatment starts. The dentist has on a mask, and face shield, and each treatment room has an individual air purification system literally blowing on us, the entire time. I’m alive and COVID negative. ?