Monarchy79

That was one incredible scene!!!

Here’s a hard lesson about “friends” baby... Don’t expect much of them, and don’t put much trust into them. Socialize, keep things light, and enjoy social times with people. But understand that most people are entirely too consumed with their own problems, issues, desires, and insecurities, to care that much about others. The images of friendships we see on TV are primarily fictional and quite rare. The “squad goals”, images you see of cliques of gays on vacations and brunches on social media are typically staged and are vapid, “surface”, friendships. There’s no depth. As you get older, and become more comfortable with yourself, your associations with people will drop off. It’s growth. 1.) If you want loyalty? Get a dog. 2.) If you want to confide in someone? Hire a therapist. 3.) If you truly want a best friend? Look in the mirror.

Sidebar: Your roommate is unemployed, with no money, and has the stamina to have sex all day, but it’s never occurred to him, that he could possibly earn some money doing it? Your roommate isn’t too smart either... ????

You are sooooo shady!!! So shady!!! LOL

Can you create a thread, sharing your journey of celibacy? I’m impressed with your discipline, and always wanted to know some good foundational steps to begin that journey. ❤️

Your “friend” is a very ungrateful, disrespectful jerk. The time he’s spending arranging trysts, could be better spent finding a job. He needs to be updating his Linked-In profile, instead of his Grindr/Jack’d/Scruff/Christian Mingle apps. Furthermore, inviting random strangers into your home is placing you in danger. There are stories across the world, where the secondary victims of robberies and even murders, are the unknowing roommates of “free-spirited”, guys, who are inviting random strangers from hookup sites and apps into your home. He’s crossing all of your space, safety, and financial boundaries. He has to go.

Excellent word play to defend your previous statement, but we all know good and well the differences between the various human-to-animal comparisons. Comparing human disagreements to dog fighting is minimal...Comparing humans to dogs in a subservient, degrading context is another....You know the difference; We all know the difference. What I don’t understand is why can’t people simply apologize for writing offensive things when called out on it? You made a loaded statement, that a professional in that specific industry told you was offensive, and you went through every method of defending your statement, rather than just apologizing. It’s still a relatively new year. Let’s continue a good path of positivity by being authentic, forthright, and accountable. There’s a lot we can learn from each other on these forums, even from our mistakes.

Sir, You literally compared a working human being to a dog fetching slippers... You don’t see how that could be even remotely offensive?

In DC, I know of two who have.... They are licensed massage therapists.

You’re absolutely right. But that’s not what anyone is asserting here. What I was asserting (following along with your analogy) was that someone who makes minimum wage is upset that the brand he wants to buy is sold at Saks, and he thinks that Saks should lower the pricing to conform to his desire for that product. ?

Honestly, I find it to be quite revolutionary; Especially the benefit that OnlyFans (and similar platforms) has provided people in the industry. For decades, people in the sex and porn business have been exploited with bad contracts, poor treatment from slimy directors and producers, and have used a platform that was originally NOT created for sexual services, and used this mechanism to perform on their own terms, make their own money, and command their own pricing, giving them the upper hand. And the fact that this has led many (like Cade), to command his desired pricing, is outstanding.

I’ll tell you the reason... It’s a combination of arrogance, sprinkled with a bit of what I call “sexual- social elitism”. The dirty truth about many guys who hire escorts, is that they believe that they are “better” than sex workers (socially and morally). In many fields of customer service, the paying customer accepts your services, as long as you know (and stay) in your place. The fact that many sex workers are taking more control in their role in the business (by creating empires through Only Fans, or demanding higher rates), is literally a proverbial “middle finger”, to many foul-minded customers, who believed that the workers need their money, more than they needed the sexual gratification, and now that they have less power to barter rates, many are now infuriated. Times have changed, and the sex worker is now equalizing the scales of power (and I love it) To prove my point, look on threads on this site... There are discussions where men literally brag about traveling to second and third world countries, to exploit poor men for sex at cheaper prices, because “The escorts in the U.S. are ridiculous with their pricing.” So what Cade is doing is more than increasing a rate.... He’s sending an impactful message about power, exploitation and sex. And he knows his worth.

Cade is doing the right thing. He’s an award-winning-industry-recognized Porn Star. Anyone in any business where they are recognized for their work, increases their value. Oscar award winning actors charge more per film. Grammy award winning singers charge more for concerts. CFDA award winning fashion designers charge more for their clothes. Performance award winning employees in any general business, later obtain promotions or obtain higher-paying jobs.... In the world of escorting, there’s a wide spectrum.... There are your high-tier professionals, and then there’s your $25 street trade... (and all of those who are in-between). Get in where you fit in (at your price point), and enjoy. But demanding that someone changes their rates, to appease your needs, is a bit unrealistic.

The guys (and girls) who escort in Dubai, aren’t exactly escorts by our traditional definition. Those who are usually paid for escort and fetish services in Dubai are usually those Instagram “Models”, whom everyone is curious as to where their money comes from. https://www.1st-man.com/instagram-models-dubai/

Interesting how members of the upper 10% will pay someone to shit on them, but the rest of the middle, working, and lower class get “shat” on for free, by a poorly dressed Pimp named “Uncle Sam”.....

You made my day with this post!!! Thank You!!! ❤️

Are you assuming that marijuana isn’t highly addictive?

Sidebar comment: I personally don’t like the smell of weed either, and don’t smoke it. However; a few years back, I took a few puffs of a marijuana vape, which was odorless. Got a nice buzz, and didn’t smell like a skunk. Why won’t most people just indulge in the odorless options?

I understand. However, you must always remember that you are running a business. And just like any business, you want to avoid all possible “conflicts of interest”. Befriending a client beyond the expected pleasantries shared during the paid time spent, places you at risk of being exposed to parts of a client’s life that you’d rather remain unknown. The simple solution to your situation with this guy: Make your most recent meeting with him your last, and move on.

Whew Lawd..... LOL If the phrase “It’s Complicated”, came with a visual moniker, your picture would be front & center. ???? It’s not an insult (so please don’t take offense), but I sincerely hope that you are at least somewhat aware that you appear to be a magnet to some complicated scenarios. And in each of these scenarios, there’s one common denominator. You. Although your stories are quite entertaining, it just seems as if you never have a good stretch of time where life is just running smoothly. I sincerely hope that you reach that point in your life where you realize that life and people are quite simple, and the approach to getting the results you want (and don’t want) out of both, are literally a product of simple decision making. Trust me when I tell you that aporoaching life with simplicity, not trying to understand the intentions, or psyche of others (overanalyzing), and making firm, clear decisions based on a mix of logic and common sense, will save you a lot of time & energy, and will reward you with so much peace. ❤️☺️

You’re 35, this is the PRIME of your life. Let go of that B.S. mindset into your head and Start fresh.Today!!! 1.) Get a FULL PHYSICAL from your doctor, to consider any underlying health conditions, then seek any applicable treatments. 2.) Start moving. I don’t care if it’s a daily walk, Or a You Tube fitness video. Physical activity is not just for vanity, it’s for total body health, inside and out. Your body is a machine, and must be regularly used in order to keep working. 3.) See a dermatologist, to resolve any skin aging issues you think you may have. Then start on a basic skincare regiment to get things in order. 4.) Upgrade your diet. Eating better, in combination with exercise and a skin care routine will create an overall synergy of improvement. One more thing: Stop seeing self-maintenance, as “struggling to stay young”. Self-maintenance is a personal responsibility to ensure that you can actively take care of yourself and live your best life. Stop hiring the men you want to be with, and start investing in yourself, to BECOME the man you’d want to be with.

When you really think about it... Everyone pays for sex & everything is transactional. Either you’re “paying”, with your money, your time, a returned favor, a dinner date, a gift, or heck, your dignity (yes, mercy fucks come at a price to your soul... lol)

Sex work should be legalized. Period. It can be regulated to better prevent the exploitation of people through human trafficking, underage workers and the exploitation of sex workers from third-world nations; standardize STD testing, to better protect sex workers and clients, and make sex workers, legal independent contractors who can obtain appropriate health insurance, to obtain such benefits as insurance-covered PrEP. It could also put pimps and “handlers”, out of business, which would be awesome.

Easy economics behind “Instagram Modelling”: Escorting.

You all must see his model photos...The dude is flawlessly gorgeous.