Monarchy79

Sidebar: I wish more guys in general knew how to arouse and get a guy’s hole to open up easily during sex. These masseurs know exactly how to get me loose and ready, but end up on a date with some top in a general sense, and he’s trying to shove his meat up my butt with no foreplay, or arousal.

You may be reaching a bit.....

❤️ Anyone who takes care of their elderly parents gets the utmost respect from me.

He travels by car

Most definitely

NYC is a great place to visit at this time for only two things: 1.) Museums 2.) Shopping

Ironically, I think that a good masseur who has reasonable pricing, that has skills and some sensual elements to his work can make a lot of money when traveling. I only say this because I’m thinking of a masseur who is reasonably priced, travels with a table, and does not play the up charging game either. After one visit to my town, I saw the massive stack of cash on his desk and was impressed. The expensive traveling grifters who snooker guys with innuendo and “hot”, sex “appeal”, with no skills, will make money, but it’s sporadic, and stressful. But the guys who have reasonable pricing with skills, can generate more money from referrals and repeat-long term clients. There are traveling guys that I make sure to hire every single time they come to my town.

Make sure to always ask a traveling masseur if they travelled with their table. Personally, I do not enjoy a massage on a bed, as it’s always uncomfortable for my neck.

Thanks Sniper ?? In that case, I’ll retract my statement and advise him to just take the high road and move on.

I know I’m going to get slammed for this but I’ll take the heat and say it anyways: Seek your vengeance. Letting it go, and taking the high road relieves the perpetrator of accountability for their actions, and the truth is that it rarely satisfies the victim. One of the biggest regrets that many people have in life, is not seeking justice towards an ex lover, betraying friend, abusive bully, or a hostile employer who have wronged them. It is within our human nature not only to protect ourselves, but to seek justice, to satisfy our self-value. In this case, everyone has someone to answer to. Figure out if there’s a way to expose his illegal activity anonymously, so it’s not tracked back to you.

I’ve had two current massage experiences in a spa setting where extras occurred by surprise (they still occur too). However, I’d never, ever reveal the identity of the masseurs, as his job and license could be compromised. I’m sincerely hoping that no one else reveals their similar experiences either. Sorry for being a mood killer, but I wouldn’t want someone’s business to be negatively impacted, because I don’t know when to not “kiss” and tell.

To add on to my original post... I do feel like masseurs should always ensure that their environment is welcoming for an in call massage. Make sure it’s clean and everything is in order. Also, I have ONE MAJOR pet peeve with an in call massage.... Not telling me that you have a roommate. This happened to me twice. I was utterly annoyed at hearing the footsteps, pots/pans clanking, and other things the roommate was doing while I am trying to relax. If a masseur had a roommate, he should let the client know in-advance, so that they can make the decision as to whether they want to oblige or not.

It depends... I have two favorite massage guys at the moment. One is in call only, and the other is outcall only. The one who is in call only, has a spotlessly clean, place, with blackout shades, candles lit, a heated table with the best padded linens, and outstanding music. The entire experience is fantastic. The one who is outcall only, brings his own heated table, an oil warmer, his own music as well. When he comes, I make sure my place is spotlessly clean, have the scented candles lit, and the entire environment and experience is made to feel “spa” like.

He wasn’t a “Pat”. Ironically, he wasn’t very metrosexual, feminine, nor was he much into hygiene either. He just liked the way it smelled, and found it to be effective. ????

You’re absolutely right!!! Unfortunately, and entire generation of women thought they wanted to be Carrie, and then after following her messy mindset, tragic fashions, and self-absorbed behavior, they grew auto and reloaded that they should have aspired to be Samantha and Miranda all along.

Sexy then, and sexy NOW!!!

I had a friend who liked to use something that was specifically made for the ladies: Secret Deodorant: “Strong enough for a man, made for a woman.”

1.) Bubble baths 2.) Shopping at Bluemercury 3.) Getting spa treatments and having the occasional “Spa Day”. 4.) Flowers. I love fresh-cut flowers. 5.) Scented Candles

Shame on that jerk for putting you through such trauma. It now makes absolute sense why rimming is off the table for you... If my first experience with rimming was some guy trying to put his dirty butt in my face, I would have never done it again either.

Those look like full-fledged breasts.

You were the coolest kids ever!!! I’m sure your friends appreciated it, as their only other options were trying to see glimpses of nudity on Cinemax late at night.... ???? I remember a girl in my 8th grade class got grounded because she had a slumber party and her mom caught her and her friends trying to watch “Red Shoe Diaries” lol

You took it back with the spice network. We had cable, but of course that channel was NOT part of our cable package. I would try to see some naughty bits through the loose scrambling on the channel, but just chose to sneakily “borrow”, my grandfather’s porn collection. I literally used to check tapes in and out like a library.... he probably knew I was borrowing them.. lol

I also miss: 1.) Saturday Morning Cartoons 2.) Michael Jackson concerts 3.) The Saturday Mall experience 4.) school field trips 5.) The excitement of Christmas and birthdays 6.) My loved ones being younger and alive 7.) Science fairs and spelling bees 8.) Road trips down south. I had a good childhood and am eternally grateful to my parents for that blessing. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that this isn’t a general experience for many, and wasn’t guaranteed either.

The Major Department Store shopping experience.

In my industry, two things would make it better: 1.) accountability 2.) removal of cronyism