Monarchy79

Escorts may not ask such questions, because they’re smart enough not to expect the truth from complete strangers. No one should.

Statistically, such illnesses are spread through non-paying sexual transactions. A no-cost, cum dumpster in a hook up app is more likely to make more contact with more sexual partners in one hour than an escort can make in a week.

How does he know if he truly contracted HIV from that specific escort? Unless he was tested and confirmed negative before meeting with that escort and had absolutely no sexual contact from the day he was tested, he can’t place blame on that escort. Keep in mind that STD\HIV tests are immediately compromised & expired the immediate moment you have sex. Hence, most guys’ test results are expired and are pointless. And if this guy trusted the escort’s“status”, and willing barebacked with him, who’s to say how many other guys lied to him about their status (whom he likely trusted) and had unprotected sex with them too? For most guys out here, trying to point the finger on “who gave it to me”, (regarding any STD or virus) is just as accurate as a pregnant alley cat trying to determine which “Tom’s” are the father of her newborn litter.

What makes you think that the guys in the pictures are the guys who actually scammed you? You do understand that it’s quite easy to copy pictures of good looking guys off of the internet and post them to sites, right? That’s part of the scam.

This is what happens when your loins and desires overcomes logic and common sense. This is why it’s important to diversify your sexual activities… masturbate indulge in toys have sex outside of the realm of hiring. have spans of purposeful celibacy/abstinence. This will help you develop a sense of control over your sexual “footprint”, and will create firm standards for yourself. This will prevent you from getting snookered by scammers, because you will never be desperate, or horny enough to neglect and ignore all of the bad signs. Your intuition will be clear, and your mind will be clear enough to listen to it.

Because men are shallow, youth obsessed hypocrites.

Well…. I’ll dig deeper and say that more men need to learn how to be “full-spectrum” (beyond looks) attractive and keep traits that can attract and keep a partner, consistent. So in a good scenario, I’d like to date a man who bathes daily, has proper, consistent oral hygiene, and whose home is clean, fresh and well appointed.

“Kosher Adjacent”? That sounds like a newfound term created by Gweneth Paltrow…..

Can you provide these preparation tips to guys in the regular dating world? They really need help in this area. I can’t tell you the number of times some guy invites me over to his place, and it’s not up to standard for any visitors….

Not as much of a risk. barebacking during anal has a significantly higher transmission risk of infections than condomless oral, for various reasons.

I think that it’s too difficult to track test results, as once you take the test, the moment you touch someone else, your current status expires…. For example…. You’re feeling great, and you get a full panel of blood work on Monday . Tuesday afternoon you hook up with someone who has the clap and they give it to you. On Friday, you get your results that come back all negative, so you believe you have your license to ditch the condoms and hav a nice hot time over the weekend. You have naively exposed your weekend partners to the clap, but not intentionally. Test results are only impactful if the tested individual abstains from sex from the date they’ve been tested until The date they have sex with you. Otherwise, test results are pointless. This is also why testing has holes in it, in the porn industry. Once the circle of actors (who may have negative test results), have sex outside of their circle of tested peers, they all can get exposed.

I think this is a great concept. I had about two masseurs shower with me afterwards and they used body scrub too. Great experience.

Women have had to show their tits and twats for decades for unnecessary sex scenes (which I have always found to be cringey), to allow the directors and producers to get their rocks off…. It’s about time the guys have finally got to drop trou. And show us some goods.

Focus on yourself. Minding one’s business is a great non-cosmetic “anti-aging” secret. It’s takes years off the face.

Relationship?

Just because someone eats ass, doesn’t guarantee that they’re going to eat EVERY ass. More than likely, this practice is done on a “case-by-case” basis.

LOL!!!! I have pissed a few people off. For those who live in DC, there are quite a few roadways that go through park area with lots of wildlife. That includes ducks, geese, possum, groundhogs, deer, foxes, and other animals. It’s common to stop to let them through. But human pedestrians and cyclists in my town are actually the worst, and I’d prefer to run over them.

Just because people agree with your antics doesn’t make it “just”. It just means that they are just like you. And any grown man who thinks it’s cute to crack fat jokes on someone, calling them such juvenile names as “whale of a man” leave a lot to be desired when it comes to class, maturity and overall decency. You may not proclaim yourself to be limp wristed, but if your comments could be personified; a pink, patent-leathered Chanel purse would fall right out of your mouth… Now I am going to gift you the rare gift of having the last word, as I don’t want this forum to be closed by the moderator…. You’re Welcome.

I’m not “limp wristed” either. I’m more like “iron fisted”. I’m the guy who: 1.) Shuts smart mouth “limp wrists” up, 2.) Neutralizes cattiness 3.) Beats up bullies, and 4.) Stops traffic to let a family of ducks walk by.

That may be a fact. But the truth is that out of the thousands of members on this site, there’s going to be someone who looks like that guy, is his weight, and has been insulted with such comments, and your posting is going to trigger their past trauma. I know how you roll, but I have a preference for forum posts that are honest, but also are less vitriolic. We endure enough of that outside of this forum in real life, so let’s try to be civil here and create a safe space for opinions and even debate.

Agreed. and my opinion is that you’re mean. what’s the issue here?

I respect what you call yourself, but from your posts, you are at least the “B” or “Q” in LGBTQ…. So you’re a member… lol… And your quips, commentary, sharp responses may not be done with a “limp wrist”, but they are in -par with most gay men I’ve encountered. Futher, I never said anything bad about your comments. I clearly stated that your comments aren’t shocking or unexpected, and it’s the “normal” sentiment, in this community. And yes, you are “mean”, and we’ve debated about this before 😂 And you can’t help yourself, and you enjoy it.

You make an excellent point, and this further delves into the social aspect of human beings overall and how groups who are marginalized will marginalize the next group they believe is beneath them on the social “hierarchy”. Although gay men have endured a lot of marginalization, this community created its own microcosm of internal discrimination to further continue this pathetic cycle.

It’s also important to understand gay porn’s foundational beginnings…. One of the first gay porn studios (it was either Colt or Falcon), had strict requirements in their films….the actors were required to be: 1.) Young 2.) Fit 3.) White (preferably blonde). And in this particular studio, if black actors performed, they either played secondary roles (as like the hotel doorman or something), of if in a sex scene, could only Top and never Bottom. 4.) Masculine presenting 5.) and the soles of their feet had to be clean (there are a lot of films (of all genres), that neglected to address this issue and would accidentally capture male performers with dirty feet. This same studio was also made aware (in advance) of the pending AIDS epidemic, didn’t inform their actors and still pressured them into condomless sex, which killed an entire generation of young porn actors. Once I find the documentary, I’ll post it here.

What he @pubic_assistancesaid reflects the actual reality of what gay men say to themselves and to each other when they see images like this. Hard Truth: Gay men (for the most part) are mean to each other. In fact, so mean, that there are tons of social media posts, Reddit threads and discussion points on the topic.