Monarchy79

Most of them are not trained. As masseurs, they are selling you sex appeal, and the thought that the massage may go further, but skills are rare.

Easy answer: Fantastic bodies Awesome exotic looks Big “parts” add an insatiable libido to the mix and they have found their niche. But many of them have found the easier benefit of becoming “masseurs” (with no training or skills) . It’s easier to make 200-300 bucks by slathering oil or lotion on some horny guy, without having to actually have sex with him.

His rates include what I call the “beauty inflation fee” In his mind, his potential clients aren’t paying for a massage at all, nor should they expect a good one… What they are paying for is to be in the presence of someone that looks as good as him. men are shallow… and a man in this business who understands the “capital” of his good looks is smart. For for all of the hot guys on massage sites who charge high rates (when they typically have no massage skills or training) because they are “worth it”, I say more power to them and use what they got to get what they want while they are in their prime.

People have also “reinforced” what I said about you. Does that make my statements “facts” too? based on your logic, it does 😎

Says the person who got OFF topic. The OP specifically asked for spas with Older masseurs. You decided to give your personal opinion of what you thought about older providers. Not once did anyone in this thread ask for your personal opinions on age or personal preferences. But I do want to congratulate you. I want to award you with the “Troll of the thread” award. 🍾🏆🥇🏆🎖️ as you have gone above and beyond, to not only veer off topic, but to insult other members on this thread. I commend you for your outstanding efforts. Congratulations!!! -and to the moderator… we don’t need this thread closed, nor do we need any adversarial actions. If you want to hold someone accountable. It’s @pubic_assistance. His exchanges in the threads clearly prove this.- Good Day Everyone!!! 😘

Those religious beliefs were programmed into those African cultures through colonialism, from European Settlers. Homophobic beliefs came from that source.

Homosexuality is visually depicted on ancient artifacts , in hieroglyphics.

The reason why Gay “failed” at answering this question was because she gave the exact same answer that she (along with any other President of a University) would give, if the subject of hate were blacks, homosexuals, or any other marginalized group that people are protected by the misinterpretation of free speech to abuse. She (strangely) didn’t understand that although misinterpretations of free speech can be used as a method to defend harmful language being spewed about other marginalized groups, this does not apply to Jews.

Actually, I’d love to be your friend. You need someone to call you out and hold you accountable.

The classic backhanded apology. I rest my case.

Ummm…. it does matter. How one delivers his message usually determines how the receiver accepts that message, if it’s correct/incorrect, true/false. The issue with your statement is not that it’s incorrect, because I agree with you. It’s that you are an arse in your delivery. You can’t present caviar on a pile of cow dung, and expect people to eat it.

It’s because your delivery is atrocious (and you know it) You enjoy being trite. You also enjoy acting surprised when someone calls you out on it.

I use rewards based credit cards a lot. and I always use them for large purchases… here’s my system: 1.) use card with points, make big purchases…. Pay the full balance off, and then use the points to get gift cards or travel rewards. 2.) use other rewards cards to department stores and go crazy during their “buy more save more”, themed promotions. especially the ones where they offer you gift cards for the amount you purchase. I specifically do this at Saks and Bloomingdale’s and will just pay the card off, before the next due date and then accept the gift cards.

That was one of the best descriptions of circuit events. Ever.

Aside from my earlier post, I completely understand that most guys now are “anti-condom”, which is a reality. I just had an idea: I would love to see medical organizations partner with advocacy groups and conduct a study, where for at least one year, at all gay-themed, circuit events, Prep, DoxyPrEP, and the “Peanut Butter Shot” are all administered as part of registration and entry. Then monitor the numbers for STD transmission rates following. I think this would have a good impact.

These medications were developed as an added layer to safe sex practices, and were never intended to replace them. These meds also aren’t intended for lifetime use either… So the idea of having a permanent prescription for these and being an extreme “sex positive” barebacking/felching cum dumpster (or depositor), won’t be sustainable in the long run.

These pharmaceutical companies have a demonic sense of humor. It seems like any drug that has a convenient benefit to the consumer always has terrible side effects.

LOL….. I agree!!! The level of indecision, getting lost, and asking questions that occurs with women are exhausting. Earlier this summer I was shopping in a store and this woman was driving her husband crazy…. Peppering him with questions, suggestions, and indecisions. He was exercising the patience of JOB with dealing with her…. He looked at me with sadness as if we could trauma bond…. I said “sorry dude, I’m gay… I don’t have those problems.

I’ve been stood up once. It turned out to be a blessing, after I found his terrible reviews. I saved some potentially wasted cash by being stood up.

Lack of common sense and critical thinking is a plague that has impacted many. Even with a smartphone, Google, GPS, and cars that will drive for you, people will still get lost and can’t seem how to figure things out. I had an associate (we all live in DC), who could never make it to brunches or dinners on time as she was always lost. This one particular time, she called me from her 2020 BMW, asking me for directions. All she had to do was enter the address into the dashboard of her car. At this point, when anyone is “lost” or “confused” about anything, and either google or AI can answer the question, I don’t even respond.

I think that they type of massage one expects depends on the source/paradigm by which you hired them: 1.) Hired from a “physical therapy” perspective, from your healthcare provider? Therapeutic with absolutely no expectation of Happy Ending? 2.) Professional Spas (like High-End Hotel Spas and high-end Spa Chains): Therapeutic with no expectation of Happy Ending. 3.) Sites like Rentmasseur, Rentmen and Masseurfinder: Sensual to Erotic Massage with a happy Ending.

Because a normal, well adjusted person doesn’t exist.

Dude, the only person who is doing the “gaslighting”, is you. And you’re gaslighting yourself. You’re so deluded in your conundrums of “battles”, that you can’t even see your role in being a CONTRIBUTOR in ever single circumstance you’ve mentioned being a “problem” with a client. But I will give you your due credit, Barnum & Bailey has nothing on you…. You know how to entertain in these forums and put on the “Greatest Show on Earth!!!”

If what we are saying is “false”, why are you so triggered by it? Only a hit dog hollers…. And you Sir, are howling and hollering. . The shoe fits perfectly, you might as well wear it….

Ummmm…..Sir….. This isn’t your private website, nor do you have any proprietary rights to this forum. Therefore, you do not have any leverage to tell me to exit a thread or dictate to anyone how to comment. The only thing you own is that sophomoric soapbox you continue to carry around with your redundant rants and complaints on how “bad”, and “wrong” everyone else is. And guess what? I don’t even care. You can fuss, complain, argue, and type long posts until steam shoots out of your ears. More power to you. This changes nothing. You proved me right in your posts. Another former escort tried to give you sound well-intended advice (with no sarcasm or ill intent) and you shat on that. The truth about you is that you live in a microcosm of cognitive dissonance and no solution will ever suit you because you don’t want one. Your pathology is centered on fighting, arguing, drama and problems. You are a repellant of peace. You’ll find issues in every single thing you do. You are the nucleus of your own misery.