Monarchy79

That may be a fact. But the truth is that out of the thousands of members on this site, there’s going to be someone who looks like that guy, is his weight, and has been insulted with such comments, and your posting is going to trigger their past trauma. I know how you roll, but I have a preference for forum posts that are honest, but also are less vitriolic. We endure enough of that outside of this forum in real life, so let’s try to be civil here and create a safe space for opinions and even debate.

Agreed. and my opinion is that you’re mean. what’s the issue here?

I respect what you call yourself, but from your posts, you are at least the “B” or “Q” in LGBTQ…. So you’re a member… lol… And your quips, commentary, sharp responses may not be done with a “limp wrist”, but they are in -par with most gay men I’ve encountered. Futher, I never said anything bad about your comments. I clearly stated that your comments aren’t shocking or unexpected, and it’s the “normal” sentiment, in this community. And yes, you are “mean”, and we’ve debated about this before 😂 And you can’t help yourself, and you enjoy it.

You make an excellent point, and this further delves into the social aspect of human beings overall and how groups who are marginalized will marginalize the next group they believe is beneath them on the social “hierarchy”. Although gay men have endured a lot of marginalization, this community created its own microcosm of internal discrimination to further continue this pathetic cycle.

It’s also important to understand gay porn’s foundational beginnings…. One of the first gay porn studios (it was either Colt or Falcon), had strict requirements in their films….the actors were required to be: 1.) Young 2.) Fit 3.) White (preferably blonde). And in this particular studio, if black actors performed, they either played secondary roles (as like the hotel doorman or something), of if in a sex scene, could only Top and never Bottom. 4.) Masculine presenting 5.) and the soles of their feet had to be clean (there are a lot of films (of all genres), that neglected to address this issue and would accidentally capture male performers with dirty feet. This same studio was also made aware (in advance) of the pending AIDS epidemic, didn’t inform their actors and still pressured them into condomless sex, which killed an entire generation of young porn actors. Once I find the documentary, I’ll post it here.

What he @pubic_assistancesaid reflects the actual reality of what gay men say to themselves and to each other when they see images like this. Hard Truth: Gay men (for the most part) are mean to each other. In fact, so mean, that there are tons of social media posts, Reddit threads and discussion points on the topic.

Gay porno will never embrace body positivity for the same reason why body positivity has never been embraced in the gay community overall: ALL Men are shallow. This includes “victims” of body positivity. Men of all body types want the same range of physical aesthetics (lean, righted, muscled, athletic) in a man and are very discerning about it too. Men in general (of all sexual orientations), have a sense of hipocrisy when it comes to the requirements they have for others’ appearance…. A straight man will judge women’s faces and bodies with hard critiques as he hasn’t seen a gym since middle school and can’t find his penis because his apron beer belly has been obstructing it’s view for the past 20 years. And with gay men, it’s just about the same. I remember being in a social setting when this guy was whining about his inability to find a man….. when he told me what he was looking for, I figured out why he’s having problems…. He’s searching for 10s and he’s a universal 3 at best.

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Personally, Food can be flavorful and have some spiciness, without being so hot that my sense of taste is burned off my tongue…. I also try my best to avoid extremely spicy food, but not because I don’t like it, but because of my philosophy on spicy food: If it’s hot going IN, it’s going to be just at HOT coming OUT 🔥🚽

Are you vaccinated for HPV? If not, you should. and add to that: 1.) Meningitis, 2.) Pneumonia 3.) Monkeypox (if you haven’t already, just in case) 3.) PrEP and have some doxycycline available too. since you’re very social, might as well be protected…. And condoms don’t hurt either . #endcondomshaming

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Another point to consider…. Asking someone if they live alone can come off creepy, as if you’re the “Craigslist Killer”. 😂…. This is one of the reasons why I feel that the host should disclose if they have a roommate.

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I’m glad you shared your personal desire/preferences , and I also think that some of the most intense discussions are the ones where people actually learn from the most. What makes these forums valuable is the authenticity in what forum members post.

The “gut” is usually right. it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. “I knew better.”

Ain’t that the truth!!! LOL

There are enough sexual predators out here who provide such a service for free…..

Further, specific to massage…. It would be smart for an independent masseur to offer a discount. 1.) unlike masseurs and CMTs who work in spas and parlors , you take your entire earnings home, and 2.) you can literally control the pricing to offer what appears who be a “discount” and still get your desired earnings. it’s critical to think strategically with making such business decisions.

I see your point, but your analogy is a bit off. Working for someone in a business and being shortchanged on your hourly rate is entirely different than being an independent proprietor and offering discounts on products or services to attract clients (and your rates are self-controlled, and are above the rate of inflation to begin with). First off, most professionals who work in companies have hourly rates they are legally tied to through the Bureau of Labor Statistics. They are also contractually obligated to their pay as well. Many independent businesses associated with various services offer discounts… it’s intended to attract new clientele and grow a base. And usually the discount isn’t much in the first place. It’s important that any business operates with maintaining respect for its brand, while not running it with their ego. This is a hard balance….

If you have a roommate, either: 1.) Disclose that you have one and they will be present, or 2.) Make arrangements for the roommate NOT to be there when you’re meeting with a client. Clients expect privacy for many reasons and also keep in mind that although you and the client may not know each other (and both of you are taking some risk with meeting), the roommate is even more of a stranger AND a surprise to the client.

Consider this a nominal fee you paid to learn two valuable lessons: 1.) Don’t give deposits 2.) When people have long stories, explanations or exchanges, filled with “complex” matters and circumstances… it’s usually bullshit.

Quoting a saying from the 1990’s, you’re just going to have to “Charge this one to the game…..”

That photo gallery would definitively belong in the “niche”, area of the Fetish Forum…. LOL

I think that what you’re referring to is not exactly the issue here. We’re not talking about the practices or judgments on douching before sex. We’re talking about some mens’ inability to wipe and wash their butts. We’re talkin’ base-level here…. In many cases, masseurs and massage therapists cannot give a thorough massage because the client has skids, tissue paper and dingleberries from his un-wiped butt.

But it’s not just providers who experience this…. In the general dating world, hygiene is a major topic of angst, in all genders, across the spectrum of sexual orientations.