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Gay porno will never embrace body positivity for the same reason why body positivity has never been embraced in the gay community overall: ALL Men are shallow. This includes “victims” of body positivity. Men of all body types want the same range of physical aesthetics (lean, righted, muscled, athletic) in a man and are very discerning about it too. Men in general (of all sexual orientations), have a sense of hipocrisy when it comes to the requirements they have for others’ appearance…. A straight man will judge women’s faces and bodies with hard critiques as he hasn’t seen a gym since middle school and can’t find his penis because his apron beer belly has been obstructing it’s view for the past 20 years. And with gay men, it’s just about the same. I remember being in a social setting when this guy was whining about his inability to find a man….. when he told me what he was looking for, I figured out why he’s having problems…. He’s searching for 10s and he’s a universal 3 at best.

Only ONE man I’d spend $1,000 to be with… First Name: Neiman Last Name: Marcus

Personally, Food can be flavorful and have some spiciness, without being so hot that my sense of taste is burned off my tongue…. I also try my best to avoid extremely spicy food, but not because I don’t like it, but because of my philosophy on spicy food: If it’s hot going IN, it’s going to be just at HOT coming OUT 🔥🚽

Are you vaccinated for HPV? If not, you should. and add to that: 1.) Meningitis, 2.) Pneumonia 3.) Monkeypox (if you haven’t already, just in case) 3.) PrEP and have some doxycycline available too. since you’re very social, might as well be protected…. And condoms don’t hurt either . #endcondomshaming

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Another point to consider…. Asking someone if they live alone can come off creepy, as if you’re the “Craigslist Killer”. 😂…. This is one of the reasons why I feel that the host should disclose if they have a roommate.

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I’m glad you shared your personal desire/preferences , and I also think that some of the most intense discussions are the ones where people actually learn from the most. What makes these forums valuable is the authenticity in what forum members post.

The “gut” is usually right. it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. “I knew better.”

Ain’t that the truth!!! LOL

There are enough sexual predators out here who provide such a service for free…..

Further, specific to massage…. It would be smart for an independent masseur to offer a discount. 1.) unlike masseurs and CMTs who work in spas and parlors , you take your entire earnings home, and 2.) you can literally control the pricing to offer what appears who be a “discount” and still get your desired earnings. it’s critical to think strategically with making such business decisions.

I see your point, but your analogy is a bit off. Working for someone in a business and being shortchanged on your hourly rate is entirely different than being an independent proprietor and offering discounts on products or services to attract clients (and your rates are self-controlled, and are above the rate of inflation to begin with). First off, most professionals who work in companies have hourly rates they are legally tied to through the Bureau of Labor Statistics. They are also contractually obligated to their pay as well. Many independent businesses associated with various services offer discounts… it’s intended to attract new clientele and grow a base. And usually the discount isn’t much in the first place. It’s important that any business operates with maintaining respect for its brand, while not running it with their ego. This is a hard balance….

If you have a roommate, either: 1.) Disclose that you have one and they will be present, or 2.) Make arrangements for the roommate NOT to be there when you’re meeting with a client. Clients expect privacy for many reasons and also keep in mind that although you and the client may not know each other (and both of you are taking some risk with meeting), the roommate is even more of a stranger AND a surprise to the client.

Consider this a nominal fee you paid to learn two valuable lessons: 1.) Don’t give deposits 2.) When people have long stories, explanations or exchanges, filled with “complex” matters and circumstances… it’s usually bullshit.

Quoting a saying from the 1990’s, you’re just going to have to “Charge this one to the game…..”

That photo gallery would definitively belong in the “niche”, area of the Fetish Forum…. LOL

I think that what you’re referring to is not exactly the issue here. We’re not talking about the practices or judgments on douching before sex. We’re talking about some mens’ inability to wipe and wash their butts. We’re talkin’ base-level here…. In many cases, masseurs and massage therapists cannot give a thorough massage because the client has skids, tissue paper and dingleberries from his un-wiped butt.

But it’s not just providers who experience this…. In the general dating world, hygiene is a major topic of angst, in all genders, across the spectrum of sexual orientations.

Question: Why is it a surprise that some of these potential clients have poor communication issues, or are overly sensitive, or are just simply socially inept? For some of these guys, that’s why they are reaching out to hire… Just imagine them communicating in real life with men outside of the realm of hiring.

This is a really good question, as I personally know of two guys who use it, they a both under 50, and use it for recreational purposes.

These are men who have the means of paying hundreds of dollars for your time. They are definitely in touch with their bodies. They are also definitely in touch with their extreme social ineptitude. Ill bet you that if a provider decided not to wipe and put his toilet-tissue-stuffed butt in the clients’ face, not only would he be suddenly “aware” of such matters, but he’d complain about it vehemently too. This lack of social respect goes beyond this level of personal service too. I’ve seen numerous Reddit threads where professional waxers and doctors have encountered filthy people who know they are about to receive a service in very “personal” areas, and will show up disgustingly unclean. You owe people who present themselves like this no empathy. You don’t have to be rude, but you don’t have to coddle them or comfort them either. Please use your right to refuse service.

Oblivious? Or just casually inconsiderate?

I consider proper hygiene to be a moral, social and spiritual obligation. If anyone (client, provider, hookup), presents themselves to you in an extremely unhygienic manner, consider it an act of disrespect and end the encounter. No discussion, no suggestions to take a shower and no sensitivities about it. No grown man should be walking around with toilet paper stuck to his improperly-wiped butt crack. Nor should he have dingleberries or skids. He knows of his activities throughout the day and knows that he should take care of ALL of that before meeting up with anyone. This means that soap, suds and water must be scrubbed and rinsed thoroughly through your body before any and every encounter. Period.

It’s unfortunately that the publishing house didn’t budge. They could have possibly considered transforming it into a set of scripts for a miniseries (TV show) or a movie.