Monarchy79

The fact that you’re asking this question clearly indicates that you aren’t comfortable. Your instincts are telling you not to move forward with it.

Did you not see where the OP said the guy greeted him at the door naked, guided him into his bedroom and thanked him once he was done? This isn’t an issue of “consent”. This is an issue where someone has found an easy way to make some cash, without providing the expected methods/levels of performance.

That guy knew exactly what he was doing….. 😎

Tipping isn’t exactly “mandatory” in the US. It’s a “pressured norm” in the US.

I wanted to also make another point. I thought of all of the other professional services where a provider would visit a client’s home: Barbers, manicurists, nannies, plumbers, electricians, private chefs. None of them separately ask their clients to arrange them Ubers, or to cover some related transportation cost.

If I were an escort, instead of “nickel & diming” clients, I’d just factor it into my standard rate. The client wouldn’t think about it, I’d have my transportation covered, and we’d both have a seamless, smooth experience.

That feeling in your gut wasn’t indigestion…. listen to your inner voice telling you “no”.

Suggested Solution: Book 60 minute sessions moving forward. The rate will now be a direct match with the service.

To each his own…. I do believe in procedures to enhance and maintain one’s appearance to make them look and feel better… but I’ve never been a fan of “alterations” (i.e, implants, nose jobs, height surgeries etc.) I feel like people are (for the most part), created in a way where everything fits; And one’s height goes with everything else (shoe size, hand size, head size, shoulder width, etc.) So although someone who will get this surgery will be happier with being taller, someone with a trained eye will easily see that something is a bit “imbalanced” with their entire proportions.

Not exactly. The unprofessional behaviors that most people are mentioning are u acceptable for any and every type of body worker…. Professional, licensed or otherwise. Such things as poor hygiene, being incoherently high, and providing sketchy hosting environments is mutually exclusive from one’s level of “certification”, as a professional. This is just universally poor customer service.

There are some genres of music I believe should never be played during a massage… rap music is one of them. Add rock, heavy metal, techno and any form of “club” music to the mix of music “no-nos”

Interruptions. A while back, I had a masseur who kept stopping, going to get the massage product, having to pee, then sipping on water. He didn’t understand that a massage is supposed to be a full flow…..

I think with setting times for various purposes, people have relied more on over communicating useless information. Instead of texting back & forth on an ETA, like it’s a moving target, Just set a firm time, state that you’ll text them when you either park, or when your Uber drops you off, and you’re done. Easy sensible example: ”Hey let’s hook up.” ” Cool, your place or mine?” “Mine? What time is good?” “10pm” ”ok. Cool. I’ll text you when I park.” 9:50pm…. ”Hey, I just parked” “Cool. Come up around 9:55 and I’ll buzz you in.” Done. Simple & efficient.

You play a significant role in the lack of clarity in confirming an ETA in this scenario. Why not just set an actual time? How was this guy supposed to determine what “whatever it takes me to get dressed and walk 7 blocks”, means in terms of time?

Hello, Bumping this up to see if anyone else has tried this guy out. I’m looking to test the waters this week.

Hard lesson: Never get involved in domestic violence issues. Women need to stop calling their male family members and call the cops.

I’m glad you made this point. My first sexual experience with a man was about 17 as well… and the man was 30. We both knew he could get in trouble and (from looking back at the entire scenario of how he even met me) one could say he was a bit “predatory”. However, I was a willing participant and really wanted that experience, and it was one of the best sexual experiences I ever had.

You nailed it. 👍🏾

I’m in full agreement with you. And with the clips you posted, it reminds me of this: most of the sexually “questionable” things I’ve had happen to me in my life has always been in male concentrated environments (sports, locker rooms, even hanging out and getting a little buzzed) with “straight” men.

So now you’ve confirmed dishonesty and manipulation (hence the “coaxing”) too. You’re a true class act.

I’ve never set any “standards” for anyone’s preferences. I set standards for decorum, consideration and respect. Those are the “standards” you have difficulty comprehending and demonstrating. But I understand that your “subconscious drivers”, and your “origin story” will usually lead you in the same direction every time.

Are you telling those Latino men that you have sex with (who are uncut bottoms), that you think their uncut penises are disgusting? Since you’re unabashedly blunt, with no concern for insulting others in these forums in these forums, I wonder if you behave the same way in those scenarios too.

Well….. sharing that you grew up in an all white American small city, and your mind saying “yuck”, to things that weren’t the “standard”, based on your environment, this speaks volumes to your pathology, how you think, and the comments you make in these forums.

I differ with you on many topics. I don’t need to insult you to express that disagreement. The conversation can still be interesting without nastiness and vitriol.

I understand you clearly. I simply disagree with you. let’s be honest here, the term “preferences” started being used in the realm of sex, dating and hookups to as a means to soften what’s really taking place, which is bias, and a plethora of “isms” . It was a way for people to make their prejudices sound less offensive. For example, a guy saying on a hook up app… “no black guys, and no Asians” appears flat out racist….but adding the phrase “just a preference”, gives the false illusion that the person is free from bias…. To give some accurate historical context of the phrase: ”Just a Preference”, became the catch phrase of white men with bias, as a way to excuse the social protest that racial and other minorities made against “no blacks, no asians, not fats, and no fems”, from apps such as Grindr. Now going back to you…. I see nothing “wrong”, with your preference for circumcised penises. And I agree that people shouldn’t be judged for their preferences. But if someone’s preference is rooted in bias, then they aren’t exonerated from being called out for it. And calling the people who address it “judgmental” loses its validity, the moment you call uncut penises “gross”, as that is a judgment too.