Monarchy79

I think that what you’re referring to is not exactly the issue here. We’re not talking about the practices or judgments on douching before sex. We’re talking about some mens’ inability to wipe and wash their butts. We’re talkin’ base-level here…. In many cases, masseurs and massage therapists cannot give a thorough massage because the client has skids, tissue paper and dingleberries from his un-wiped butt.

But it’s not just providers who experience this…. In the general dating world, hygiene is a major topic of angst, in all genders, across the spectrum of sexual orientations.

Question: Why is it a surprise that some of these potential clients have poor communication issues, or are overly sensitive, or are just simply socially inept? For some of these guys, that’s why they are reaching out to hire… Just imagine them communicating in real life with men outside of the realm of hiring.

This is a really good question, as I personally know of two guys who use it, they a both under 50, and use it for recreational purposes.

These are men who have the means of paying hundreds of dollars for your time. They are definitely in touch with their bodies. They are also definitely in touch with their extreme social ineptitude. Ill bet you that if a provider decided not to wipe and put his toilet-tissue-stuffed butt in the clients’ face, not only would he be suddenly “aware” of such matters, but he’d complain about it vehemently too. This lack of social respect goes beyond this level of personal service too. I’ve seen numerous Reddit threads where professional waxers and doctors have encountered filthy people who know they are about to receive a service in very “personal” areas, and will show up disgustingly unclean. You owe people who present themselves like this no empathy. You don’t have to be rude, but you don’t have to coddle them or comfort them either. Please use your right to refuse service.

Oblivious? Or just casually inconsiderate?

I consider proper hygiene to be a moral, social and spiritual obligation. If anyone (client, provider, hookup), presents themselves to you in an extremely unhygienic manner, consider it an act of disrespect and end the encounter. No discussion, no suggestions to take a shower and no sensitivities about it. No grown man should be walking around with toilet paper stuck to his improperly-wiped butt crack. Nor should he have dingleberries or skids. He knows of his activities throughout the day and knows that he should take care of ALL of that before meeting up with anyone. This means that soap, suds and water must be scrubbed and rinsed thoroughly through your body before any and every encounter. Period.

It’s unfortunately that the publishing house didn’t budge. They could have possibly considered transforming it into a set of scripts for a miniseries (TV show) or a movie.

You need to write a book.

This is great news…. No one wants to be walking around with a hard dick, and then not remember what to actually do with it…..

Am I the only one who just thinks that much of Andrew Christian underwear is just tacky as hell? 😂 (No offense to those forum members who indulge in the brand…..)

A very reckless advertisement as people are still getting arrested and major investigations and sting operations are STILL occurring in public places by law enforcement. Some uninformed idiot could watch crap like this and just casually have sex in public, not thinking that they can be charged, jailed and placed on the Registered Sex Offender’s list for it.

Are such services appropriate to be linked with “affordability”?

Absolutely not. If someone states their price, respect it and either book them or not. Haggling appears to be an annoyance (and sometimes insulting), to many service providers. Once a guy respond to you with his rate, a simple “Thank You”, is sufficient. Then move on to someone who’s pricing is comparable to your standards of payment.

You forgot to mention your mandatory deposit. 😎😝

The fact that you’re asking this question clearly indicates that you aren’t comfortable. Your instincts are telling you not to move forward with it.

Did you not see where the OP said the guy greeted him at the door naked, guided him into his bedroom and thanked him once he was done? This isn’t an issue of “consent”. This is an issue where someone has found an easy way to make some cash, without providing the expected methods/levels of performance.

That guy knew exactly what he was doing….. 😎

Tipping isn’t exactly “mandatory” in the US. It’s a “pressured norm” in the US.

I wanted to also make another point. I thought of all of the other professional services where a provider would visit a client’s home: Barbers, manicurists, nannies, plumbers, electricians, private chefs. None of them separately ask their clients to arrange them Ubers, or to cover some related transportation cost.

If I were an escort, instead of “nickel & diming” clients, I’d just factor it into my standard rate. The client wouldn’t think about it, I’d have my transportation covered, and we’d both have a seamless, smooth experience.

That feeling in your gut wasn’t indigestion…. listen to your inner voice telling you “no”.

Suggested Solution: Book 60 minute sessions moving forward. The rate will now be a direct match with the service.

To each his own…. I do believe in procedures to enhance and maintain one’s appearance to make them look and feel better… but I’ve never been a fan of “alterations” (i.e, implants, nose jobs, height surgeries etc.) I feel like people are (for the most part), created in a way where everything fits; And one’s height goes with everything else (shoe size, hand size, head size, shoulder width, etc.) So although someone who will get this surgery will be happier with being taller, someone with a trained eye will easily see that something is a bit “imbalanced” with their entire proportions.

Not exactly. The unprofessional behaviors that most people are mentioning are u acceptable for any and every type of body worker…. Professional, licensed or otherwise. Such things as poor hygiene, being incoherently high, and providing sketchy hosting environments is mutually exclusive from one’s level of “certification”, as a professional. This is just universally poor customer service.