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I've had both experience with regulars. 
One is a weekly client, and it ultimately ended up being to my benefit to negotiate a lower rate for him.  Simply because of the reliability of knowing where I'd be one night every week midweek.  It's worked out well for both of us.  The only drawback is that - with the regularity of it - he's fallen out of any extra generosity.  No tips, no surprise gifts.  But at the end of the day, the reliability has made it a good choice.  If others fall through, I know I can rely on that weekly gig.
Another burgeoning regular asked if I was willing to negotiate in exchange for reliability.  I indicated that I was open to it.  Back and forth ultimately led to this: "Don't we feel that our relationship transcends cash?"  My response: "My relationship with my therapist transcends cash, but I still pay him."  Turns out I inadvertently opened the door to constant bellyaching about price, and I ultimately stopped scheduling with him. 

My favorite provider is guy married to a woman. A guy with three kids. The sex is passionate and enjoyable for the both of us. I was married and had kids as well. Now I am single, and have no interest in marrying a man. I'm more of a loner; I'd rather live by myself. I prefer "straight acting" (whatever that means) providers. It just makes me more comfortable, especially in public settings. That's just me, my personal tastes. The guys I fooled around with in high school and college all would fit into the "straight acting" category. The sex and interaction with them in the bedroom was usually passionate and full of energy. It was clear they were enjoying the gay sex. With only one exception those guys have all gone on to have wives and kids and "traditional" lives and family. Are they gay? Straight? Bi? Whatever! Call them what you want. Call me whatever you want. You do you. What you need. What makes you happy and comfortable. I'll do me. No politics. No confining labels. Just different strokes for different folks.

Have you really ?
It's still an insult.
So how did y'all "take ownership"?
Both "f***ot" and "qu**r" are still pejorative and meant to make someone feel bad about themselves. I refuse to accept these words simply because I am not a mainstreamer. Pretending to embrace it doesn't make you have ownership. It makes you a sucker for punishment.
 

The younger generation current way to express a broader spectrum - 
Queer - Wikipedia
EN.WIKIPEDIA.ORG  

The younger generation current way to express a broader spectrum - 
Queer - Wikipedia
EN.WIKIPEDIA.ORG  

Low key provider here!  🙋🏼‍♂️
Rent men is too public for my day job.  So I just connect with clients case by case.  Using my wits. 😏

Anyone had the pleasure?
https://rentmasseur.com/LukeKing
Thanks.

For me I think coming out is almost like an everyday occurrence. People always ask me if I have a girlfriend. Including some of my previous bosses and coworkers. I remember I was eating donuts alone at a krispy kreme shop and a lady facetiously asked me “does your girlfriend know that you’re eating krispy kreme donuts without her?” I just chuckled and told her I’m single. I wasn’t just going to tell her that I’m gay and into guys. I’m a pretty masculine acting guy so people just assume I’m straight. At this point I’m done sweating over having to acknowledge being gay every day. Though I wouldn’t say I’m closeted, I’m just fairly selective of whom I choose to tell or let know.

I was never "in".😉
But, I remember my first realization that I was different from other people.
My mother picked me up after my first day of Kindergarten. She asked me about my day. I said the teacher was nice and I met a cute girl and a cute boy. She quickly corrected me and said that although the girl might be cute, the boys are just friends and you don't call them "cute" or think about them in that way.
So I thought about it and decided to never discuss it again with my mother ..because that boy was definitely cute. 🤣

Any recent exp please, thanks
https://rent.men/GASPAR_XL

Friends?  I started a business with my last provider.  Pray for me for please….

Another great find! Any info?
 
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Hello, this is Luke or Tallblondejock.
rent.men/tallblondejock
I am sorry some of you don’t think my rate is fair… I lowered it to $400 . I make 165k with my real job and really not desperate for escort money. I hope that you understand why my rate is a bit higher than market. I feel that my 6’7” height and the fact I’m not a full time escort is sets me apart. On average I meet 2 clients a months, and they are plenty of people willing to pay my rate.
 
I don’t try to be flakey but I live a very busy life. Please text me if you are serious about booking and respect me and I will do the same.
+1 347 433 8053
Cheers,
Luke
 

Ahh haha yes 100% to many that could've been a great positive influencing factor.   

Yup. If I see "findom," I close the ad immediately.
It takes a new level of lazy to think you can make a living telling others to give you money.
And it takes someone born into money who could enjoy throwing it away.

Something I'm seeing more often lately, providers who mention they're into findom (financial domination) in their ad.  I do have a mild kink where I enjoy being dominated, but it doesn't extend to my wallet.  I guess I just get a sense that they'd be bringing it up all through the session. 

Tantric anything!
 
🙄

I've experienced variable rate cards and YMMV

I've experienced variable rate cards and YMMV

I lived there for many years. I can attest, that ain't it!! 

had a great experience.
looks like pics, very good massage, nice guy.

All very true. But based on the little bit of inside information I get from my wealthy Canadian friends who are well connected with local leadership....things are not looking good up there. There are storm clouds brewing and they are also concerned about the future.
Personally I would move to Copenhagen if I were to plan an escape of the USA.

Does any provider like it ?

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