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This is how I know a provider cares about my satisfaction. I’ve said those 4 words to some providers who were in a hurry to finish the session and I could not get their hands and mouth off my dick.  But the good ones?  They’d slow down and change things up with just the slightest nudge or cue from me.

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I consider myself a regular to a provider who visits my city regularly.  He’d contact me before each visit so he can reserve the time slot that works best for me. There were times when he even arranged his trips and schedule to fit mine.

In a way, I’m glad when they don’t reply. It goes to show how they don’t care about clients.  They’re automatically taken off my list.

1 hour ago, NYXboy said:

id be down for that if they looked similar 

They looked a bit alike. I can’t remember their profile names now. They were Italians who told me they owned an underwear brand.

I’ve had cousins but not brothers.

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On 3/14/2024 at 8:59 AM, Thisismrlit said:

It definitely was. He asked for the money upfront too which is never a good sign. But yea don’t waste your money. 

That’s why I regretted hiring him.

I don’t like discounts.  It feels like there will also be a reduction in the service rendered.  I also don’t bite when a provider lowers the rate when I say that his original rate is outside my budget.  I’m not asking for a discount, I just want him to know the reason why I am not booking.

I hope that doesn’t make a flake and a time waster.

1 hour ago, DWnyc said:

I don’t think most stop to think about all this and they don’t need to. If an as implies a provider is in a city now or in the future, the client will assume the provider has all that worked out. 

Do we think about how a piece of clothing is made, where a chicken nugget comes from or how a song is produced? 

A little empathy would certainly help and it’s helpful to know pressures providers face in different markets.

But how about thinking a little more about clients and what may be going on in their heads too? They’re not all out designing ways to be flaky etc. They have real situations driving their behavior often falling into clear categories. Perhaps it might help to incorporate some of that into a providers strategy. So for instance understanding some clients only plan last minute, some in advance. Some for whom this is a once a year treat others who may book more regularly etc 

This providers treats clients with contempt.  We are nothing but cash cows for him.  I get it that this is a business but I’m offended by the disrespectful ways clients are described.

I’ve had  a similar situation happen to me.  I met a well-liked escort in this forum and soon after, his real name, profession and the firm he works for showed up in website suggestions on my browser.  I’ve been planning to tell him about it but he hasn’t been back to my city since.

6 minutes ago, Archangel said:

I will give a deposit if I get a good vibe. And sense of a bad vibe, nope. I’ve been screwed over giving money up front more than once. No more. 

Just a word of warning, scammers are very good at giving off good vibes.  Sometimes it scares me when the initial reply is “Hey babe, what’s up?”

He’s probably not an escort, but does he offer a good taco?

Scammers like those from the OP’s experience are emboldened because they know clients will send deposits.  Every client in this forum should be advised and warned NEVER to send deposits.

We’re talking about supply and demand.

If clients stop supplying deposits then the demand for escorts asking for deposits will be gone. 😂 

On 3/4/2024 at 12:16 PM, CuriousCubMSP said:

… he finished up with no up charge. 

Does this mean that he had a happy ending?

It shouldn’t be called a deposit, because a deposit conveys the idea of service or products expected to be received. I would call it a cancellation charge or penalty.

In my case, I have delivered escorts’ donations at a later time after I have canceled appointments set it stone.  I don’t do it out of guilt but I just don’t want the provider losing income for the time he reserved for me.

Escorting is a very complicated business. Ever consider working in retail instead? 

On 11/7/2023 at 7:45 PM, GG07v said:

Met with him recently. Very good massage. Very nice body.

 

Also, https://rentmen.eu/Mista_X

Was he more RentMasseur or RentMen?

I’m glad I rescheduled my booking with him.  I know this is the Spa so I’ll just say  this.  I had a wonderful boyfriend experience tonight.  I have a new favorite provider.

THIS PROVIDER DID NOT ASK FOR A DEPOSIT.

1 hour ago, Capitano said:

I'd be so done with him, he is exhibiting a mix of weird and lame, which is never a good sign.

Always remember to use your big head.

Too late.  I rescheduled for tonight.  Small head prevailed.

I booked at appointment with him from his RentMen ad for 1AM this morning.  At around 11pm he said he’d text me when he got to his hotel. I assumed he was on an outcall because he’s already been in my city for days.  I didn’t a text from him until 3AM.  He said apologized and said his phone broke.

1AM, you ask?  He said that’d be the time he’d be in the mood to have his happy ending.

Will I give him another chance?

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I’ve met several providers who can’t get stiff. Bummer!