FrankR

I read the first example you provided differently - to me that sounds like a guy asking if you escort; looking for a top. I could be wrong. ?

I am afraid it probably falls into the category of “cost of doing business”. You have already identified some of the attributes of time wasters: 1. They are unclear on what they want 2. They keep asking you to lower your price or try to low ball 3. They keep trolling for info 4. They don’t respond quickly 5. Something feels off Maya Angelou said it best: “Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.”

I always answer my phone. The IRS inspector is still trying to reach me and I may qualify for a scooter through medicare (i’m not even 50 yet). ? I especially enjoy these robocalls - nowadays they even come in Mandarin from the Chinese consulate! ?

I’ve found A4A to be quite useful. Have mainly hired for massage, but it was pretty clear from communications with the providers that many of them also offered a more...eh comprehensive service, shall we say? ? I like the fact that private/more revealing pics can be made available, as compared to the strict rules that masseurfinder enforce nowadays. That is a very long winded way of saying: it is for both, but more discreet than rentmen if you are looking to escort. As a side note, a recent phone number search took me to https://jock2go.eu/ and I was surprised by how much local talent was on there. Some profiles did appear to be stale, but quite a few new faces. ?

I have had my fair share of experiences with lazy and disinterested providers - can be found everywhere and they are of all races and nationalities. Please do reconsider making sweeping generalizations like this - it comes across as xenophobic. ?

I withdraw my suggestion. It appears I was on the wrong track.

There are a few sites that you can join (think seeking.com) or find somebody in the industry that can help facilitate perhaps? You can send a private message to @myophile or @Rudynate, they may be able to offer suggestions.

All this talk of #1 leads me to wonder... is there a #2 and #3?? ?

Did you run a search? You should get plenty of threads if you search for 37459. Remarks weren’t encouraging, from what I can recall.

Did you run a search? You should get plenty of threads if you search for 17218. From what I can recall the consensus was to avoid.

So you are saying it is $45 to travel to you and lets assume another $45 back after the visit? Speaking as a client, $90 is a lot of beer... ?

Isn’t there a saying about ‘there is no trouble like car trouble’. Something like that?

Did you reach him via the friendboy.pro site? Did he indicate discounts for VGL on his profile? ?

So this just happened. The provider from friendboy.pro responded back to my query about his availability by asking for my Adam4Adam profile. After reviewing it, he made me an offer of about half his listed ‘score’. Perhaps it is the fabled ‘discount for Very Good Looking’ ?? ? Finally, all that gym time has turned me into a hot daddy!! ?? Any other success stories?

http://www.friendboy.pro/

@Eric Hassan is our resident expert - perhaps PM him with your questions; he was super helpful when I reached out. ?Sounds like you have been doing some research too - if you plan to challenge him for the title of resident expert, give me a few days to sell tickets before you lads duke it out! ?

Offered and I politely declined. Sounds like a great way to ruin a perfectly comfortable relationship.

Or you can follow the rules for finding your porn star name here: https://www.yelp.com/topic/los-angeles-whats-your-porn-star-name-2 There are also a bunch of porn star name generators online - have at it! ?

Sounds like you have a scale of sexiness going? Where does the tongue fall??? ?

It is back up and he is showing as available.

I think there is something wrong with your link - the rentmen ad link takes me to Youtube.... ?

Ha! Not to brag (much) but my trusty Nokia 8210 from 2000 still works! It is tiny (convenient) and with great battery life...how quickly we have gotten used to charging our devices multiple times a day! I replaced the battery 2 years ago, still get 6 days on a charge if I don’t talk more than two hours a day. ? Apologies to the OP, we did get a little off ‘trac’...

I dont think talking about blood or bleeding is disgusting at all. We are all adults here (even though I still have some growing up to do!) I think of blood the same way I think about oil in my car. It serves a purpose. In my experience (not a provider mind you) bleeding is rare. In fact it has only happened once. I would pay attention to it, the same way I would to an oil leak in my car, as an analogy. In your case, it sounds like something that happens more frequently, so if I were in your shoes I would seek out a medical professional and discuss your body’s reaction. If I noticed any blood while intimate, I would surely point it out and address it.

I dont think talking about blood or bleeding is disgusting at all. We are all adults here (even though I still have some growing up to do!) I think of blood the same way I think about oil in my car. It serves a purpose. In my experience (not a provider mind you) bleeding is rare. In fact it has only happened once. I would pay attention to it, the same way I would to an oil leak in my car, as an analogy. In your case, it sounds like something that happens more frequently, so if I were in your shoes I would seek out a medical professional and discuss your body’s reaction. If I noticed any blood while intimate, I would surely point it out and address it.

It does happen from time to time. They certainly are human and subject to their own emotions etc. Glad you enjoyed the experience and are wise enough to temper your expectations when it comes to future meetings. Now, take a moment and enjoy the memories! ?