FrankR

I would never be comfortable using my employer’s wifi for Grindr... That is why I pay T-Mobile for an ‘all you can eat’ data plan! ?

I only spend time with guys that respect my boundaries, just as I respect theirs. Sometimes I have to remind them of those boundaries in the excitement of the moment. ? Perhaps a quote from that great philosopher, Van Wilder will help reinforce your willpower: “Don’t be a fool, wrap your tool!” ?

This surprised me during my first trip to Europe many moons ago. I had to learn to adapt to it; “embrace the suck” as my military brat buddies are fond of saying. Nowadays, when I head over there for work, I insist on staying at a hotel from a large chain (Hyatt, Marriott etc) as they are good at having ‘proper’ heat/air available. ?

This thread is so sad to read. Life is HARD and when you add the “easy escape” that drugs appear to provide, along with the expectations of those around us (either real or perceived) - I can understand why folks choose that path. Then glitz and glamour that goes with certain industries also appear to exacerbate this. My grandma used to say that God knows the name of every bird, the color of every flower and exactly how broad your shoulders are - he will never give you more than you can carry. If only that was true....

Bargain of the week folks - currently offering $0 for 60 minute incall. ? I assume that is a typo that will be corrected soon... https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/29119/

I don't go into a massage session at a spa expecting more than a good massage. Perfectly happy to take a breath, relax and enjoy the massage. I will admit I go into the session hoping that there will be chemistry but it is not an expectation. Also read the body language of the masseur. Sometimes touching is invited. Or not - if there is lots of chatter about his husband or boyfriend, I will likely refrain. When I go for a massage outside of a spa environment, I usually discuss my expectations of the session with the provider ahead of time to make sure the masseur is comfortable with my requests. (Granted, my needs appear to be pretty vanilla compared with most so that discussion is usually pretty easy!)

Be sure to read some of his reviews on rm. There are a few that may raise ‘red flags’.

Carry on? No darling! My shoes, my shoes!! ? Any idea how many pairs of shoes a guy need for a month long trip? Then again, looking at your profile pic, perhaps you do... Admit it - you FedEx your boots ahead of time! ?

I need to get out more! ?

You are, of course, entitled to your own opinion! I know a few chasers that would disagree with you!

If I want to spend time with a straight Aussie I’d watch the cricket world cup! (In fact, I have been doing exactly that!) ?

It is so adorable that you think folks will gravitate to doing the smart thing!!! ? I know way too many people that will do the exact opposite! (shrug)

I spoke with him last night. Handsome guy, checks all the boxes!

Sadly, most of these are as genuine as a $3 bill! My advice: ask for a skype/facetime video call - it will shake out the real from the rigged! ?

At this point I would walk away. You are offering repeat business and he wont even do a video call? Not reasonable in my view. I would move on.

Hint: if you search for “38391” a number of threads on him will show up. Example: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/maxpower-nyc.149082/ You earned bonus points for including a location in the thread header! ?

I sure hope you meant to say the school you chose charges $60k a year!!! $60m is definitely outside of my price range! ?

Way to go! lol

Thanks to Google we all know the average erect penis is approx 5 inches (admit it - you’ve googled it!!) ? My personal definition of ‘hung’ is anybody over 6 inches as that puts you in the 90th percentile. ? Are you still with me? Of course you are, I’m talking about dick size after all!!? You could make the argument that median is a better benchmark than average, but lets not go crazy here. So by my definition Alex Mecum is hung. I will wait while you google his dick size... ?

Hey now... Lets not drag God into this! ? (But I take your point!)

Looks like you are the “right man” to take ‘em for a test drive!

His A4A profile states he is straight. Sounds about right... Thanks for the intel.

Also claims to be a king! lol

From the pics he is not what I would call “hung”. I take it that is what you are referring to when you say ‘false advertising’?

I will admit that I looked over Chuck Tingle’s books - what struck me most, was the lack of diversity in the models used for the cover page. Just saying... ? And yes, i am judging the books by their covers! ?