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I had a very similar experience, @Charlie. I discovered this amazing sensation when my erection accidently rubbed against the waist band of the sweater I was wearing... so I did it again... and again... until I was shocked to see this fluid shoot out. I had no idea what had happened. I was really concerned so I called my best friend on the phone. As I was describing what happened he started to sort of laugh and then it slowly dawned on me that this must have something to do with sex. I quickly backed off the phone call, embarrassed.
 
Fun memory of my very naive youth and sexual awakening and all the time I spent pleasuring myself.
 
Hopefully this doesn't seem like hijacking the thread. If so, my apologies. I'd love to hear others' tales of discovery.

I had a very similar experience, @Charlie. I discovered this amazing sensation when my erection accidently rubbed against the waist band of the sweater I was wearing... so I did it again... and again... until I was shocked to see this fluid shoot out. I had no idea what had happened. I was really concerned so I called my best friend on the phone. As I was describing what happened he started to sort of laugh and then it slowly dawned on me that this must have something to do with sex. I quickly backed off the phone call, embarrassed.
 
Fun memory of my very naive youth and sexual awakening and all the time I spent pleasuring myself.
 
Hopefully this doesn't seem like hijacking the thread. If so, my apologies. I'd love to hear others' tales of discovery.

I can readily identify with what RJD posted. When I was 17 and lying on the bottom bunk of the set, my "manhood" became quite, quite rigid. I had one hell of a boner (a raging hard on) and began to jack off--. It felt so mighty good, and after I'd shot one hell of load for at least at foot or perhaps longer, I was overwhelmed with guilt, for no one had discussed anything about sex with me. ...went throughout the summer feeling that I perhaps was ill. I presume to this day I did learn what had happened. a year or so later.

I had a very similar experience, @Charlie. I discovered this amazing sensation when my erection accidently rubbed against the waist band of the sweater I was wearing... so I did it again... and again... until I was shocked to see this fluid shoot out. I had no idea what had happened. I was really concerned so I called my best friend on the phone. As I was describing what happened he started to sort of laugh and then it slowly dawned on me that this must have something to do with sex. I quickly backed off the phone call, embarrassed.
 
Fun memory of my very naive youth and sexual awakening and all the time I spent pleasuring myself.
 
Hopefully this doesn't seem like hijacking the thread. If so, my apologies. I'd love to hear others' tales of discovery.

I can't imagine having fun if there isn't passionate kissing. I'm with you [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER], a few hot kisses and instant wood

I had the pleasure of meeting Jacob when he was in SF about a month ago. He is everything @Unicorn said, but I'd add that I did not sense a bit of attitude from the guy. We chatted for several minutes at the beginning and end of our session and if he wasn't so pricey I think I'd enjoy spending time with him outside the bedroom. Lastly, what doesn't really come through in his pix is that he has a great smile (I know with that body and his "other assets" a smile may be inconsequential, but I'm a sucker for a great smile).
 
I'd highly recommend hiring Jacob and hope to meet him again should our paths cross.

I had the pleasure of meeting Jacob when he was in SF about a month ago. He is everything @Unicorn said, but I'd add that I did not sense a bit of attitude from the guy. We chatted for several minutes at the beginning and end of our session and if he wasn't so pricey I think I'd enjoy spending time with him outside the bedroom. Lastly, what doesn't really come through in his pix is that he has a great smile (I know with that body and his "other assets" a smile may be inconsequential, but I'm a sucker for a great smile).
 
I'd highly recommend hiring Jacob and hope to meet him again should our paths cross.

What's old is new again, @BabyBoomer! The knife sharpening guy makes an appearance at our weekly farmers market. Not as convenient as coming to our door, but pretty close. Love that guy!

What we have here is a Pandemic of Fear. The Covid-19 virus is definitely serious and will spread around the globe. The infection rate and death toll will be widespread. Unfortunately, it is difficult to asses the truth about risk levels because of media sensationalism and governments that have not been honest and forthcoming since this epidemic began in late 2019.
 
Individuals need to inform themselves about the true facts of this outbreak from multiple sources and not rely solely on cable news and Twitter. The CDC and World Health Organization have been the primary sources I’ve used to learn about Covid-19 and determine my personal response.
 
I am not buying into the Pandemic of Fear. Buying surgical masks and N-95 respiratory masks will not prevent anyone from contracting Covid-19. For every N-95 mask purchased by individuals thinking this will prevent them from contacting the virus means that there will be fewer masks available to those who have greater need for them - healthcare providers and patients actually infected. This will create shortages of necessary medical supplies and make the situation worse.
 
I have replenished food staples and other necessities but I’m not making any special efforts. From the CDC and conversations with people who I know in the medical field I’m approaching Covid-19 like it’s the flu and taking necessary precautions Including frequent hand washing and using sanitizers. I’m keeping informed of latest developments but the one thing I will not do is cave into the Pandemic of Fear.

I can't imagine having fun if there isn't passionate kissing. I'm with you [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER], a few hot kisses and instant wood

I can't imagine having fun if there isn't passionate kissing. I'm with you [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER], a few hot kisses and instant wood

We'll have to agree to disagree. This site isn't very useful if people don't share information.
 
Gman

I should hope that if you are suddenly "called away" from a negotiation for whatever reason that you politely wrap it up, even in a superficial manner, with an excuse like "I just remembered--I have a dinner date tonight" or "Excuse me, gotta run, the cat's on fire" rather than leave the other person dangling.

My initial reaction is that it's creepy, at least with a masseur you're seeing for the first time.

"People come and go so quickly around here"

Please write a review so we know who to hire / avoid.......that is the purpose of this site

Hi guys,
 
Has anyone met Alex in Boston? I found his ad on rentmasseur - here's a link: https://rentmasseur.com/AlexRelaxThai
 
He's cute!

... "the circus never made it to my town". Love that expression, @Rick M. Thanks for the laugh - but, obviously, sorry you didn't receive the agreed upon services and had a disappointing experience.
 
I agree with @JamesMorris, you should call out bad actors by name.

I was trying to pin point the dates of the trip for other reasons and got curious about the ad. I bought on eBay a copy of the advocate that was on the stands when I was there and found the ad and then scanned it.
 
One thing that stands out from the experience is that he showed up in a fur coat, which was not what I had been expecting. He explained it was to keep hotel security from stopping or harassing him.
 
I guess I should post a review, but don't know if 43 years is too long to have waited.

Too funny... I was thinking @Hoover42 was bringing the contractor trash bags to dispose of her bitter, self-absorbed body!

People seem out for blood these days, wanting to punish a provider for a single experience. Is it vindictiveness?
 
More and more I tailor criticisms or avoid being critical at all unless asked.
 
For example I communicated with a hot provider recently discussed on the forum. For me his texts turned out to be terribly unreliable.
 
Rather than coming back to his thread to complain, I treated myself to a known quantity and so happy that I did. I got what I needed and more.
 
I chose not to fvck over the hot dude with low communication skills. Perhaps he was out of sorts that morning. Perhaps he was juggling multiple potential offers. I didn't take it personal, just responded I had misunderstood, that I thought he had confirmed. So at least we left the chance of meeting open, though I doubt I will initiate.
 
 
I expect that karma will take care of guys that don't practice decent, respectful communication and we will hire those that do.

Hi @themsg - The pix currently provided in Jess's ad are accurate. I saw him twice in the past year - once for a massage (with some play) and once for a more full service experience.

Hiro has a very nice smile and the guy to the right is pretty damn hot too. I was OK spending one minute and 24 seconds looking at pretty things, @azdr0710

If not already doing so, you really need to unpack some of these issues with a competent gay-affirming, sex-positive therapist. The right therapist could help you reframe and clarify your search for intimacy on all levels.
 
As for paid encounters, I agree with Walker1 that a more mature -- and especially a more seasoned -- professional that has a wealth of experience will provide a better session than a hot-hot-hot fly-by-night. I don't know that it's always about age, but several guys discussed on this board who have been at it for years and are serious and thoughtful about providing a real service to clients would be good choices. Some use the phrase "sacred intimacy" or similar in their ads to signal a willingness to engage with their clients in a more substantive way than just a physical act. If you want to share your general location and "type" you might get some good suggestions here.

Sadly no personal connection...
 
Admiration, as someone who studied neuroscience as my undergrad degree
 
Also a huge crush on him, all the way from his bodybuilding days until the last years of his life