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I just got home to LA and I already miss the warm weather of Palm Springs. Thank you again for a fun weekend. Everyone who hosted @David-SF and @Oliver! Plus everyone who I connected and re-connected after the year! It was my 3rd time going in a row and it was my favorite year yet! Hope to see you all again and maaaaaybe ill find myself at Inndugle next year 💞

Will be going to the PS Art Museum tonight for thier Free Thursday Nights! Lmk if you want to join me! 

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I will be attending and this will be my 3rd time attending! Staying at El Mirasol April 11-14 and will be able to host or travel! I'll also have my car so any carpool in PS or to and from LA and PS! 

2 hours ago, newdad said:

Nice. How would you describe the guys there when it comes to looks (eg, age, physical appearance, etc.)?

Most were younger and skinny 

On 2/23/2024 at 9:48 AM, newdad said:

Thanks for sharing. Wish I saw this while I was still in the Philippines. I got a question: How would you describe the guys there?

Compared to me...timid. At the bathhouse, most just like to watch or like to do one-on-one. I was mostly initiating 

Since the last thread of this has been archived, I wanted to update on my recent trip. I was there for 3 weeks and the amount of massages I got...one week I had 4 LOL.

I had a few rules: Under $20, wanted to be naked for the massage and needed to be a male masseur. If it happened to be at a gay spa then that was just a perk!

Urus Makati  My Recommendation!

Close to Makati/Manila which was great for me since I was staying there! What is different about this spa from the others on the list is this is acutally a gay bathouse with play areas, so it is encouraged. I got two massage here. The first one was so-so, but my last one here was a legit professional style massage, I could tell by their technique. There are signs all around for no "extra service" but I was offered about 50% of the time. You even fill out a slip at the end, and it asks if they asked for "Extra Service" just put 'No' so no one gets in trouble. Check their Twitter for deals. I was getting a massage and club entrance for $15. Large crowd, some foreigners, bar inside the spa, theme nights and everything was nice and hot!

Infinity Spa - Bay Area Location
Close to the airport, so if youre staying around there, its a pretty good option. Go on weekdays for deals or check their Twitter. Since it is close to the airport, you will see foreigners. I will say that both at this location and at the South Point location, the massage area is super cold. They blast that AC, and it was hard to relax. Its not labeled as a gay spa but it is men only and people do play in the saunas but are less bold than Urus. Also it didnt matter if you went on the weekend or weekday it was always crowded.

Real Xtreme Touch

Whats nice about this place is that you can choose your masseur while all the others were by chance. This place has been around since 1994, and it shows and some masseurs were younger than the business LOL It is also open 24 hours which I assume that some of them live there. If you didn't choose your masseur before hand, they all come out police lineup style, which is quite awkward for me. There is also no other perks, JUST massage unless you wanna pay more for the shower massage. They did have at home/hotel service, which could be a nice option since you can control the environment vs. going there. I'm only putting this on the list because its the first thing that pops up when you search "gay massage Manila," so it's worth adding to the list.

Naut Thai
I went to this massage place which my straight cousin so I wasnt expecting much but I had a really good legit thai massage and you can choose a male masseur. Quite expensive but its a chain and you can find them at a lot of malls.

There are so many more outside of Manila but the traffic is so bad im glad that Urus was walking distance from me I will miss it dearly LOL

On 2/9/2024 at 12:07 PM, Tygerscent said:

I can’t imagine not coming~ I don’t see more than one client per day… So, there’s never any pressure on my end that I’ve come before I’ve seen somebody or after I’ve seen somebody

I’m on the same boat too. I’m also more of a one a day kinda person lol For the rare chance I do get two clients a day I’ll just cum again no problem! 

Just got the email and super excited! This will be my 3rd time going! Once again I’ll be offering rides between LA to PS ideally leaving on Thursday April 11 and heading home April 15 Monday! Could leave earlier/later if you want to host me LOL. 

Also open to anyone staying at my resort with me at El Mirasol. Gay clothing optional resort stayed there many times. 

I just got the American Express Platinum and it has some really good Travel perks. A few being automatic Gold in Hilton and Marriot. If you need a referral let me know! hehehe

So ive had my account for a few years now and made some friends/buddies over the years and some have come and gone from the site. Even though they have deleted thier profile, I still have access to thier profile under "buddies". Pictures and all so when I talk to others about leaving the site I make sure they deleted all their pictures and and text first 

3 hours ago, Michael PhD said:

I’d consider cosmo. Been there a few times and made a connection that continued in the rooms upstairs 2 out of 3 times there. 

Ive also recently done the Cosmo Spa as well and its super nice!

Thats why I hate being late. Sometimes im even 30min earlier than expected.

As for waiting for clients as long as im not busy after their scheudled time, I try not to rush them but if chance I do have to be somewhere their scheduled time is a hard stop

Oh wow forgot to mark it on my calendar but ill be there again 

I do think its funny when they dont kiss but they'll eat my ass HAHA

'So you'll kiss me on the other side i see'

On 10/24/2023 at 1:58 AM, Simon Suraci said:

There’s nothing more disappointing than a massage from a provider who has no idea what he is doing. You can learn, of course, but until you develop your skills, I recommend not advertising massage.

I 100% agree on this statement and the number of time clients tell me a bad massage story is too far many. 

If you do want to learn take SOME sort of class and practice. There is a reason why you have to put your 500 hours because it does take time.

They have a rainbow version that Im getting LOL
 

On 10/17/2023 at 6:42 AM, KeepItReal said:

Let us know how your trip turned out! I haven't been back in a while. Love the architecture, the gas lamp lights, the vibe and the food. Even considered painting the ceiling of my porch blue...to "keep the bad spirits away" after I learned of the practice during a past visit. 😁

Spent exactly a week there and had a great time! Loved the people, the food and going to all the touristy spots and museums. Did alot of ghost, voodoo, haunting type tours and was feeling spooked by the end of the trip

Did my first half at Crown Plaza Royal near burbon and canal which was a bit chaotic but loved diving right into nola. Not sure why that hotel is 4-stars cause it reminded me of an old vegas hotel, the lobby is nice the room are not pretty. After I stayed in the business district at La Pavillon for the last half and it was MUCH more calmer and relaxing not THAT was a nice 4-star hotel. Big recommeondtion.

Had some really great clients of both local and tourist types. Was pretty busy throughout the week.

I can see why people would think its a dangerous city but like other cities with big touristy areas just dont be dumb walking around. 

I would 100% come back if im ever on that side

On 8/23/2023 at 1:22 PM, Simon Suraci said:

Maybe I’m crazy. I visited New Orleans earlier this year for a few days during Mardi Gras. I stayed in the French Quarter on Chartes Street. In the evenings, I walked out of my AirBnB wearing nothing but a jockstrap and tennis shoes. I milled around on Bourbon St between Lestat’s and the other end. As you can imagine, I earned a bunch of beads!

The drunk straight women were the most obnoxious out of anyone. They kept demanding I show them my hole lol. I declined, saying I’m already showing far more than most people. I took pictures with strangers requesting photos. It was fun. I spent the rest of the time in normal street clothes.

In my shoe I kept my ID and at most $20 in cash, often no $ at all. No room key since it was a keypad. I felt safe. I drank a little, but not even close to getting drunk. Made sure to eat as much as I drank and went long periods drinking only water. 

Quite a trip. I would go back. Next time to do more sightseeing, probably NOT during a festival. And then probably another time just for Southern Decadence.

As always, if you exercise an abundance of caution and stick to touristy areas, you should be fine. NOLA and Louisiana in general are no insular, homogeneous middle class suburb in the middle of the country. Treat it with common sense as such.

Wow sounds fun! 

6 hours ago, ICTJOCK said:

Mine is more for general fitness.   Sounds like you got it going for sure.    The 30 minutes of dance conditioning and the splits stretching sounds great.

I like to have goals or else I wont have a need to workout. Like when I was training to run a 5k marathon...omg I got my steps in those last 2 months

2 hours ago, ICTJOCK said:

Physical fitness has always been very important to me, even as a kid when I was more a geek,  but I took up horseback riding and showing.

Working as an escort can be demanding and taxing on ones physical (and mental)  capacity.    For escorts,   what do you do to stay in shape?

How much time in the gym?   Cardio workouts and resistance work?

As a fitness advocate,  I do a morning workout set 5 days (at least) a week and in the gym 4 days.    It really is a fitness lifestyle,  however with diet and incorporating some quiet time to relax and appreciate the day's work and achievements.   

I dont think my fitness routine is specifically catered to being an escort but I can tell you that I maaaaay focus more on butt, shoulders and arms. Usually at the gym 3-5 times a week: 30min of cardio, 30min of free weights, 30min dance condiiton then 30-40min of splits stretching.

Wow lots of great insight and reccomondations! Ive decided to move forward with my trip in Oct! Maybe that one client is extra careful but im glad ppl has some opinion. Hope the travel goes smoothly! 

Going to be traveling soon in October but then I got a text saying that New Orleans crime has gone way up over the years and they target tourist! They said to only host and never go to someone elses place.

Is this true?

On 7/26/2023 at 5:12 AM, ChelseaWest said:

Anyone have experience with https://tryst.link/escort/italianryan

A real alternative to RMen or RMass? Thanks.

 

So I have an account on Tryst here and it I dont pay for the standard since its a relatively new site and there are barely any M4M providers on there anyways. I signed up May 27 and got approved July 18 which is a LOT longer than said on the site since I was using the free version. Site is okay, search is quite wonky, and I would get a few hits here and there. Also the scammers are VERY good and making fake Tryst emails, theyre a whole different level than the usually scammers on RM. 

On 5/4/2023 at 1:11 PM, Beef-a-roni said:

Getting my face farted in by the masseur. 

Some would pay good money for that tbh

On 5/14/2023 at 4:27 PM, Rudynate said:

Although beta-alanine and tyrosine are not technically stimulants most would find their effect very stimulating.  I imagine if you were to take 500mg of tyrosine close to bedtime, you would have a hard time going to sleep. 

Yeah I would still feel the stimulants but with no caffine really done make a differenece