FrancisCA

Well...again not to imply you were referring to driving. But I just gave the example as an overall, general thing. For anyone on any highway anywhere. You don’t even need to use drugs, but that won’t stop some a**h*** cop from wasting an hour of your time interrogating/looking for something that doesn’t exist. I was almost late for an appointment which was over an hours drive away, over that bullshit. I’ve already found a LGBT friendly attorney who’s going to examine it and perhaps consider looking into something. So if I retire early, y’all will know why.

 

For all we know, the OP could be doing bus or train. Though I haven’t rode in either in awhile, for all I know they could be doing random searches as well.

Im not even driving soooooooo

Well...again not to imply you were referring to driving. But I just gave the example as an overall, general thing. For anyone on any highway anywhere. You don’t even need to use drugs, but that won’t stop some a**h*** cop from wasting an hour of your time interrogating/looking for something that doesn’t exist. I was almost late for an appointment which was over an hours drive away, over that bullshit. I’ve already found a LGBT friendly attorney who’s going to examine it and perhaps consider looking into something. So if I retire early, y’all will know why.

 

For all we know, the OP could be doing bus or train. Though I haven’t rode in either in awhile, for all I know they could be doing random searches as well.

Im not even driving soooooooo

A belated Welcome To The Forum ! You have a very thorough, pleasant profile... kudos !

 

(And, to your question, you might consider the Appalachian Trail - it passes thru/near several major metropolitan areas.)

Thank you!

Though this doesn’t directly answer the question:

 

While you’re traversing the highways and bi-ways, just be mindful. Summer seems to be the time highway patrol and local police do the most traffic stops. On highways, traffic stops can turn into full on vehicle searches equipped with K-9 dogs. I’ve been the target of police profiling on several occasions, and each time they turn up empty handed.

 

Always a good idea to deposit large sums of money ASAP before getting on the long road, and to avoid open containers, marijuana (with more states legalizing it, I’m seeing more states also trying to incriminate people with license plates from legal states).

 

Even though the majority of stops seem to be looking for drug trafficking, you don’t want to be caught out with anything else that could raise suspicions.

Um im drug free but thanks

I've always allowed it. I think massage is one of the best forms of foreplay because you get to explore the other persons whole body. It is also a great 'ice breaker.' The client might not be sure if mutual touch is allowed so if I act upon it first its could really easy up any tension or worry they might have about mutual touching.

There are exceptions like if im working on a certain muscle (like the arms, shoulders or back) but they want to move just to grab me it could be cumbersome because the body isnt in the correct position anymore! Plus I wont be able to work that specific muscle fully.

Plus if theyre in middle of touching me and i have to move i just keep going even if it means that they are out of my reach.

Thinking of traveling for a month away from my hometown San Francisco. Ive backpacked before and my longest trip was 10 days between 3 cities but this one would be my longest.

Any cities ya'll recommend for escorts to get clients or just backpacking through in general. Thinking of staying in US or North America at least.

Thanks!

I thought about trying that for a hot minute and came up with several reasons it’s a poor choice, at least for me.

 

The biggest reason I would not choose that method is that I want to individualize my time, approach, and services to the person. Simply having an appointment for Jim at 5 on Thursday tells me nothing actually useful for doing my job, particularly if this is someone I’ve never spent time with before.

 

It also doesn’t allow you to screen clients. It doesn’t allow you to negotiate times and dates. I also really don’t care to share my full schedule openly with anyone passing through my site.

 

I think it’s really important - particularly now - for us providers to not turn to automation or less personal experiences. We’re called on to be with people for some very intimate and vulnerable times and we ask for a considerable fee for our time. Part of what a client is paying for is to feel taken care of and provided with the special attention they deserve. I can understand the temptation to look at something like automatic scheduling that ostensibly appear to make life easier, but if I were a client and felt my escort was removed from the experience of interacting with me by some software, I’d move on.

WOW you have a good point! Never thought about that THANKS!

When I trade with other therapists, I always learn something new. Even trading with a non-professional has taught me a lot. I've learned more from a guy who just has gotten a lot of massages in his life than some pros.

I feel that way too. Do you just ask and where do you ask them?

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Im not in NYC :|

I have done this before (not a CMT myself but have given some in the past). I would say this is almost even more enjoyable than getting a massage if it’s the right client. I traded with an incredibly hot jock in his mid 20’s a while back who identified as completely straight. The massage started out purely therapeutic but it was very clear he was really enjoying the glute/inner thigh work and wanted more. When he turned over he ditched the towel and revealed an awesome piece waiting to be addressed. It went from there and ended very nicely for both of us. I felt much more of a connection giving a massage than I ever have receiving it.

Honestly I have just as much fun touching too. I think its the most fun forplay

Im fairly new to giving M4M massage (~3 Years) and I feel like I only learn if I experience healing touch from another masseur. Do you ever do a massage trade with another Masseur?

Does anyone use an online scheduling website other than the normal call or text? Do you think you would use it if an escort had one available? Someone forwarded me to this one thats why https://acuityscheduling.com/

I would think the high selling point in this is you would be able to see the escorts full schedule in the upcoming days.

How do I get like this haha

Got a text from someone at mintboys.com to advertise.

It didn't seem like a bot so i responded and they actually texted me back.

Seems like a new site.

Got contacted by Chris, Scott is the founder and they will be advertising in December.

Thoughts?

Ha you can put if the client has to send an uber for the escort. I do miss the when you can put the exact times when you're available on certain days tho.

Planning to stay a month in Seoul, S. Korea and wondering if there are any site, agencies, or places I should look up to post escorting services?